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Crush of 7 years is ignoring my hints. Should I confess my feelings to him?

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Question - (12 November 2016) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2016)
A female India age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I've liked a guy for 7 years but I don't know how he feels. We used to be classmates but now we live in different cities so we can't meet. We communicate via text. I have kinda dropped hints but I don't know if he knowingly ignores or just doesn't get it.

I want to know how he feels and I am too scared to confess to him. It's just eating me and I really want to get this off my chest. What should I do?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (14 November 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntWhat are you scared off? Rejection? Because I would rather be let down than go on another seven years hoping something will happen. I think you need to tell him for your own sanity and to help you move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2016):

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Well, it's kinda hard to let go of someone you like very much but thanks for taking the time to read my question and answer it ^^

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2016):

I think he is not interrested. Its 7 years such a long time period. I think better move on dear Find a nice guy. Dont waste your time.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2016):

N91 agony auntIf he's not taken the hint after 7 years then I don't think he's interested.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (13 November 2016):

CindyCares agony aunt You said you can't meet !, what would the point be of a love declaration even in case he likes you back ? ( which does not sound too probable anyway, since he has been ignoring 7 years of hints ).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2016):

Since it's eating at you that much I would suggest just telling him. But be prepared to lose his friendship if he doesn't return your feelings.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (13 November 2016):

Honeypie agony auntWhat would be the point? You live nowhere near each other and can't date in person, so why bother with this? To have a "text-relationship"?

He is either VERY dense to not pick up your hints or... more likely not wanting to hurt your feelings as he doesn't feel the same.

I'd let this sleeping dog lie.

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A female reader, indiansummer United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2016):

if you don't say anything, you will spend your life thinking 'what if' and there's nothing worse,

at least this way you'll know you did all you could, definitely tell him!

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