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writes: My wife and I both 38 were distant for about 8months or so...married 10yrs with 3 kids, BUT I still wonder???????? Her friends husband(co-worker) had been texting each other every day at least 25-50 times.Sometimes no kidding 80 times a day.. I am not the jealous type. I confronted my wife after looking at the phone bill one night. She says they are just friends thats it....She tells me I was distant and she needed someone to talk to. I felt like a fool for asking, but she had been acting weird, hiding the phone, etc.... He was giving her tips on how to get my attention she says like shaving her parts to make me happy??dying her hair, Go figure....This whole time I was sure they were having an affair. I phoned him drove to his his house and asked him personally if he had been screwing my wife because i needed to know. He said no. My wife says no as well and swears by it.. I have a gut feeling here.My wifes attitude has turned to sex every day now with us,,etc...somethings up???????Is it just me wondering or was the texting too much...????Anyone else out there have the same experience....
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionproblem was I showed her the phone bill......Lots of texts. Ya I guess I did over react thks
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): I think your jumping to conclusions to quickly my friend. It sounds like she is just seeking advice from a friend. If they were having an affair I seriously doubt that they would be texting each other 50 times a day when she knows full well that you will see the phone bill. Maybe she neded a mans opinion and he just happened to be that man.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I would bet anything that they haven't YET slept together, but they are carrying on a got and heavy emotional affair, which is inappropriate and puts them at extreme risk for a physical one. Talking to another man not your husband about your marriage and shaving parts is out of bounds.
If this keeps up, you will lose her.
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