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writes:So my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. (In other words, I gave him my V card.) But, because we were not expecting it to happen, we went unprotected. It didn't last too long because he didn't wanted to cum inside me, which he didn't. I need to know if it's possible for me to still get pregnant? I know about per-cum, but at the same time, I'm irregular for my period, and have not had it in a while. Should I still buy Plan B? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all! He got me Plan B, and now we have safe sex. I appreciate the advice1
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2013): It is possible but unlikely. But if you are worried then get the plan B. Why wouldn't you?
Your bf needs to chip in some money to help cover the cost of the Plan B. Ask him if he would rather help pay for this now or risk getting saddled with child support payments for the next 18 years.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (16 December 2013):
 I agree better SAFE then sorry and knocked up.
And then STOP BEING STUPID! Sorry to be blunt, but you should know better.
If you FEEL mature and old enough to have sex you are OLD enough to THINK and use protection. And if you don't have any then NOT sex.
Plan B is NOT birth-control.
Make an appointment with your doctor, get on BC, take it for HOW EVER LONG the doctor tells you for you to be "safe" to have sex. THEN tell your BF to go buy condoms and then you USE BOTH - until you find the man you want to have children with.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 December 2013):
 Definitely get Plan B today. The number one reason that the pull-out method fails is not because of pre-ejaculate, but because of the inability to pull out in time. Sure he pulled out, but a millisecond too late, and the first "squirt" found its mark, especially if it was your first time.
Every single instinct and feeling and sensation scream for your boyfriend to STAY IN. Usually only the most experienced guys can pull it off flawlessly every time. To the unexperienced or the long-time celibate, the "Oh shit" moment is a hair too late.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (15 December 2013):
 Is it likely? No.
...Is it *possible*? Yes.
If this is something you're going to lose sleep over, I would strongly suggest getting and taking Plan B as soon as possible for your own peace of mind. The irregular periods are only going to make things worse as you may not have a period for a while even if you aren't pregnant, and may not know to be concerned for a while if you *are*.
If you are concerned about the cost, try your local Planned Parenthood. They offer free or low-cost birth control and Plan B to MANY women based on income so if money is tight for you, you may qualify. This would also be a good option to pursue the STI testing and birth control prescription that you should strongly consider obtaining now that you're sexually active.
Good luck and best wishes :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 December 2013):
 if your periods are irregular and you are worried it will make it worse
I know plan B is expensive but if you can afford it and use it, I don't think it causes problems from use and the peace of mind would be worth it for me.
Step two... tomorrow you call your gyn and get on birth control. and if he's not a virgin either you both need to be tested for STDs.
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