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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My cousin makes me feel alot confused as she is giving me mixed signals. These range from prolonged eye contact when talking ( 3mins), preening, side glances when I'm not aware and etc. She even friend requested me on facebook and well that's a waste of time because she doesn't like/comment on any of my status updates. I'm begining to feel she's stalking me. She also reacts rather negatively when I make out with other girls when she's around or through stories and such. Female POV needed here please. 10x.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 OP I have several male cousins. We are good friends. We make eye contact when we talk. Sometimes I might touch my hair without noticing. But we are family and I know they see me as more of a sister than an available woman!
I am friends with them on Facebook and often comment on their posts or press the 'like' button. In no way does this indicate anything other than familial friendliness.
From what you write, it sounds normal and not like she is flirting with you or stalking you at all. If you really feel that way, limit contact with her and set your boundaries with her clearly.
Stop making out around her or telling her stories about your conquests - it would make ANYONE uncomfortable, not just your cousin.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 It is simple, if you see a problem with her then sort it out, talk to her and ask her what is up with her, there is a lack off communication here, and it could be that you are reading to much in to things. Clear it up with her and ask her is there a problem.
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reader, R1 +, writes (23 February 2013):
 She is a member of your family not a potential girlfriend!
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