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Can anyone shed some light on this? I don't understand why he DOESN'T want to break up...?

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Question - (22 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *ns85 writes:

Ok, my boyfriend of 6 months recently told me he needed space because he said our relationship was moving too fast which was his fault. However he cheated on me with my best freind and another girl which before he was trying to hide he was talking to her but not anymore (like in pix and on facebook) but still won't admit he did anything. But is completly avoiding me, but yet told my freind he still loves me and doesn't wanna break up. And also we have never had a fight, I let him do whatever he wants, let him have as many guys nights as he wanted (even though he did lie about a few if them) I never complained and all his friends love me and are all still hanging out with me. But I don't understand why he's saying he don't wanna break up????

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A female reader, desertrose899 United States +, writes (23 November 2009):

insecurity. You're probably his fall back plan. It's harsh but it's true. Babe, once a cheater always a cheater. I think it's best that you start looking for a boyfriend who appreciates you.

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A female reader, desertrose899 United States +, writes (22 November 2009):

insecurity. You're probably his fall back plan. It's harsh but it's true. Babe, once a cheater always a cheater. I think it's best that you start looking for a boyfriend who appreciates you.

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A female reader, Jezebel30 United States +, writes (22 November 2009):

Jezebel30 agony auntI guess the real question is, Why dont you want to break up with him?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2009):

Quiet Echo is right. He doesn't want to break up with you because you let him sleep with your friends, and probably chase after him and still make him feel good.

He's one of those guys who wouldn't want one of those troublesome girls who "respect themselves."

Clearly a girl like you who will happily act like a doormat even when he sleeps with your best friend, is much less work.

Good Luck!! xx

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