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I'm female and in love with a "straight" girl!

Q.   Ok so I'm bisexual and I'm in love with this amazing girl. She really is just amazing in every way. But anyway, we've always seemed to have a bit of tension between us and I had noticed her to be different around me than with other people. Other ...

A.   25 November 2009: Right, so just because she's pro gay rights doesn't mean she is bisexual or gay. I'm very much pro gay yet I am neither. But if there are certain...instances (that might not be concrete)...where things do get out of the "friendship" bubble and more ... (read in full...)

Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?

Q.   Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it ...

A.   23 November 2009: eh. It's really sad that women have to go through this. Pornography is just another way that women are used as sexual objects by men and you should feel affronted by it. I'm not going to get into a huge rant right now but if you ever want to talk ... (read in full...)

Can anyone shed some light on this? I don't understand why he DOESN'T want to break up...?

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend of 6 months recently told me he needed space because he said our relationship was moving too fast which was his fault. However he cheated on me with my best freind and another girl which before he was trying to hide he was talking ...

A.   23 November 2009: insecurity. You're probably his fall back plan. It's harsh but it's true. Babe, once a cheater always a cheater. I think it's best that you start looking for a boyfriend who appreciates you. ... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend AND my friend!

Q.   i have lived and been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years. in about the last few months i have developed feelings for one of my close friends. i have tried to forget about it, but just recently i have fallen in love with my friend. ...

A.   23 November 2009: Every relationship has it's up and downs. I've had the EXACT same feelings. You love your boyfriend but you want something exciting and new right? So I'm from the south right? So I have a song that will help you out (even though I don't think you're ... (read in full...)

My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!

Q.   [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...

A.   23 November 2009: Porn stars have sex 3-7 times a day. I don't think that'd make them blush. I agree with satindesire and CaringGuy though.... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend AND my friend!

Q.   i have lived and been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years. in about the last few months i have developed feelings for one of my close friends. i have tried to forget about it, but just recently i have fallen in love with my friend. ...

A.   22 November 2009: Every relationship has it's up and downs. I've had the EXACT same feelings. You love your boyfriend but you want something exciting and new right? So I'm from the south right? So I have a song that will help you out (even though I don't think you're ... (read in full...)

Can anyone shed some light on this? I don't understand why he DOESN'T want to break up...?

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend of 6 months recently told me he needed space because he said our relationship was moving too fast which was his fault. However he cheated on me with my best freind and another girl which before he was trying to hide he was talking ...

A.   22 November 2009: insecurity. You're probably his fall back plan. It's harsh but it's true. Babe, once a cheater always a cheater. I think it's best that you start looking for a boyfriend who appreciates you. ... (read in full...)

Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?

Q.   Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it ...

A.   22 November 2009: eh. It's really sad that women have to go through this. Pornography is just another way that women are used as sexual objects by men and you should feel affronted by it. I'm not going to get into a huge rant right now but if you ever want to talk ... (read in full...)

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