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writes:Hiya, Bascially... I have a boyfriend of around 2 months, we met at university, but we've bascially liked eachother from the start. We saw eachother practically every single day and i'm really in love! When we're together its perfect, we get along so well, have lots of fun and are really happy! However, he's really awful at communication, as in text/facebook etc... We've been off for christmas for a week now, and he never replies to any of my texts or on Facebook and it's really making me feel unloved and down. I know it sounds silly, but it really feels like he doesn't love me, although when we we're at uni he said he constantly... I know deep down he loves me etc etc etc, but it makes me worry as hes back home and he's bascially ignoring me? I'm going to see him in 2 weeks time at his home town, but how can i reasure myself that everythings okay? I'm just being parinoid i know, but i just love him that much! It really does affect me :( Thanks! XOX
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): I can definitely understand that you don't want to seem clingy, I said to my man, that if I do message him and he is busy or can't talk, to just say to "a bit busy atm" or "sorry can't talk". He does that and then I know he isn't ignoring me he is just busy doing other things. I didn't want to feel clingy either, but I had to do something so that I didn't keep thinking he was ignoring me, and feeling unloved. I hope it works out for you. Good Luck and Happy Holidays.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I just don't want to seem clingy or anything :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2011): The only way is for you to tell him how you feel and how it affects you honestly. I know how terrible it feels, I went through a period of this with my man, and I explained to him how it made me feel, and that I deserve to be treated with respect and consideration. Just be honest with him.
Good Luck
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