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At my first attempt of sex I did not penetrate her properly, should I worry?

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Question - (14 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2008)
A male South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My penis size is 35mm width, 9cm length and I don’t know whether it is enough to satisfy a teenage girl. I only had sex once in my life with a virgin girl and the problem is that I did not penetrate properly is like my penis just entered 3cm.Please give me advice so that I can increase my penis or I just need to try sex again?. Female readers only PLEASE.

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2008):

hannah76 agony auntHi,

Don't worry about your size! All OK! It will satisfy all women. Next time....ask her for help!! hannah xxx

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A female reader, shandygirl United States +, writes (14 August 2008):

shandygirl agony auntIs your girlfriend using birth control? Because whether you penetrate all the way or not, she can get pregnant. Do you want a baby?

As far as size is concerned, it really doesn't matter.

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A female reader, Deema United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2008):

Deema agony auntAaah, I feel for you darling. Don't worry. Us girls are really not that scarey and we are a lot more understanding than you realise. The girl in question was probably relieved you only got a small part in before if she was a virgin. Its quite uncomfortable for us girls first time so I don't think she would be complaining. Listen, there are many reasons you never got any further - first you were both very nervous - that sure as hell stops any lubrication from coming naturally, and that makes it very difficult to have penetration - not just for you but for anyone. Second when girls are scared the vagina literally clamps shut - and unless you were particularly brutal or harsh, you wouldn't attempt to go on shoving in because it would be too painful - that shows me you're a caring guy. Third and most important - I don't understand cms and mms, I think in inches (I'm old :)))) ) but I have to tell you - and don't tell my new husband this - the BEST sex I ever had was with a guy who had a penis no longer than about 2 inches - well cms or not, I'm telling you that is veeeeery small, but my God did he know what to do with it, and he wasn't embarrassed about his size, he was confident cus he knew he was good. So why worry? Whatever the size is really doesn't matter, and the right girl will tell you that. Now rest easy. You're normal. Enjoy life and stop worrying. Sex wil come when it comes. You won't be without forever. Lots of love and luck.x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008):

What I can't understand is why you only used a third of what you've got.

Used correctly, you have plenty to satisfy any woman. Long and thin, slips right in, short and thick, does the trick.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (14 August 2008):

Honeygirl agony auntSweetie, you must relax and not put so much pressure on yourself. The next time you have sex make sure your partner is ready for you, dry sex is very uncomfortable and not pleasant for either party. Alternatively use some lubricant to help with penetration. Oh... and there is no need to start looking for options to increase the sixe of your penis!!!

Honeygirl

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