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Are there any telltale ways to see if he sees me just as a sister/friend?

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Question - (21 April 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2017)
A female Canada age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, first of all, thanks for stopping by, even if you don't plan on answering.

I will cut to the chase: I'm a 20 year old girl, and I really like this 25 year old boy, whom I met over the internet. Our locations are too far away to go see each other in real life, so our messages are unfortunately limited to being online. We've exchanged photos of each other and have talked through Skype. Even though we met about a few weeks ago, I'm having fun talking to him and vice versa.

However, I'm really worried that he sees me as a sister, not a potential love interest. His youngest sister is 23, and as I've mentioned, I'm even younger than that. We've told each other about our ages, so he knows about how young I am.

Are there any telltale ways to see if he sees me just as a sister/friend? Thanks!

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (21 April 2017):

N91 agony auntIf you're never going to meet then why are you even wasting your time?

Even if he does see you in a romantic way what can you do over the Internet?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (21 April 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntHave you actually saw live footage off this man? You can't possibly like someone from never meeting them. Surely you need to realize how dangerous this is? Have you video called each other? Are you friends on social media?

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy + , writes (21 April 2017):

Anonymous 123 agony auntJust stop for a moment and think about what you're doing and how naive you're being in today's day and age when you know the pitfalls of the dark underbelly of the internet.

There is no way, absolutely no way for you to know who you're talking to. For all you know it's a 50 year old man who's involved in human trafficking and is looking to trap people like you. Don't believe who you talk to, people and situations can be set up. Young kids are set up by pedophiles to trap children their age so you never know where and how things work.

Don't fall for anyone over the internet. That could be the biggest mistake of your life. This guy could be anyone, he could be lying his ass off, he could be circulating your pictures online, even the harmless ones. Why are you doing this and how can you not realize how disastrous the consequences might be?

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