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I want to ask her out, I don't know how

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Question - (20 April 2017) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2017)
A male United States age 13-15, anonymous writes:

I went to a school for 9 years, this year I switched for high school. I had a close friend at my old school. She is very nice and very pretty. I have not communicated with her in the last few weeks. I want to ask her out, but I am not sure she feels the same way. Any advice?

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A female reader, AnnalisaV United Kingdom +, writes (2 May 2017):

AnnalisaV agony auntHi :)

Call her, ask her how she is, what she's been up to since you last met and then ask her if she'd like to meet up.

If she says yes, either ask her when she's free to meet and what she might like to do or suggest something you'd like to share (a movie you'd like to see, a walk in the park, an afternoon at your home playing video-games, whatever).

Then see how it goes. Don't be afraid to be open and tell her that you've been thinking about her and would like to go out with her. Pay her a compliment when you see her, smile and tell her she looks pretty.

Simple, really, once you make the first move!

Best of luck x

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom + , writes (21 April 2017):

Denizen agony auntAsk her to join you for a coffee. See how it goes. If you find things to talk about you can ask her on the spot if she would like to join you for a pizza or a Sub' sandwich another day. If she declines the coffee then it's no big deal. But every woman likes to be asked so be bold. If you aren't brave enough to ask her then you don't deserve her.

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