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writes:I'm just wondering why it is that most men prefere big breasts as oppossed to small breasts, the women in porn and magazines reflects that men are more sexually aroused by big breasts and i'm just curious why that is? I'm more sexually attracted to petite women, and i've been with numerous partners in my time, big breasted and small breasted, and my current girlfriend who i've only been with for 6 months, is rather self conscious about her body, as she says men she's been with before have always preferred big breasts and she hasn't felt sexy enough. This came a shock to me, because she's the hottest girl I've ever been with. I know there's a lot of pressure on women to look good, and big breasts almost seems to be a fashion, people now go and get boob jobs like it's just a trip to the dentist! But I feel like I'm a rarety, in not liking that glamour model type of woman. Not to take things to a personal level here, but I've also noticed that petite women are often better in the bedroom. Are there other men out there that favour small breasted petite women? I don't know a great lot of men that do and it confuses me. Would just like some opinions and answers on this if anyone has any, thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): if you like petite there is nothing wrong with that i personally prefer the men who like petite because it shows the female there is more to her than breasts. good on you.
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (28 June 2010):
Too bad you're taken. You're my kind of guy ;)
I don't think it's weird at all. Different people, different preferences. Sure, a lot of guys like big boobs like a lot of gals like carved out six packs. That doesn't mean that's the 'right' preference.
Succumbing to the pressure of such imposed standards is unattractive to me. I have no respect for girls who buy their racks, unless they're really really flat-chested. Even then I'm still against it. I hope your gf gets over her insecurity and just accepts the fact you like her for who she is.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 No, you are most certainly not the only one.
I think perhaps bigger breasts look better on film but in the flesh I'd go for petite every time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): If she has a sexy body, who cares about her breasts. Love the rest of her like her sexy legs and ass.
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reader, seneca +, writes (27 June 2010):
You are a straight-up normal guy.
Men together will make smart remarks about the big breasts in porn films, but get them on their own over a quiet drink and most men who have actually seen (or felt!) huge big boobs in real life will go - Urrrrrgh!
Normal-sized or even rather smaller-than-normal boobs are absolutely gorgeous, especially the way they perk and just wobble a bit rather than slurp, hang and bang about.
'When I were a lad' we used to say - and mean it - "Anything more than a handful is wasted". And it's true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): it depends on the person and i doubt your the only person who likes petite women . im curvy with 34 dd with a ten inch difference between my waist and hips and though i get plenty of male attention even off my teachers ive noticed my petite friends get more boyfriends
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Oh, the number of questions by women on here who have wondered if there is any guy who likes smaller breasts.
It does seem like most men like big breasts, I guess there's just more to play with?
Whatever the fact, your gf is lucky to have found you.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (27 June 2010):
 No, you are not the only one. Everyone has different tastes, but the motherly figure is hyped up by the media. I'm not particularly curvy, 5'5", size 8-10, 32c bust, and I know for a fact my boyfriend thinks I'm gorgeous. He's been with curvier girls than me but says I'm the most beautiful with the best figure. I also read in a magazine about a guy who wouldn't date a girl with a bust bigger than a 34B! Trust me, you're not alone. Different guys do like different things, but ask a lot of guys, and not that many of them would go for the typical 34DD size 6 with a big bum! As long as you're not into unhealthily skinny girls, then it's all good =]
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 June 2010):
I've been out with curvy girls, thin girls, tall girls and shorter girls. I personally prefer a curvy girl who isn't too tall and is a bit older. I have a friend who is very tall and likes his girls to be tall (almost as tall as me, and I'm tall). I have another friend who likes thin girls, and another who likes his girlfriend to be taller than him. The point is, men fancy different women. The whole porn thing is actually a con and a cheap thrill. Women worry very much that porn influences a man's thoughts about her. 99% of the time, they don't. There is the off chance that a man is influenced by porn, and by chance they're the same guys that women need to avoid. Guys just fancy whoever they want to fancy. You like one type, another guy likes another, and another will like another.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Im not a guy, but bisexual, so here's my input on what you are saying... When it comes to porn, in my experience, the women vary quite a lot. I simply don't get it when people say they are all so beautiful and all the same.. I don't think they are. I find many of them ugly and I can't stand fake breasts. Unlike you I like a woman with curves, I don't think skinny is attractive.. but I can't stand the fake breasts. I rarely find anything I like while watching porn (maybe I'm picky?), but I found that it was difficult to find a naturally curved woman in porn. So I guess I experience the same as you only in a different way. You find it odd that there are so many big chested women in porn (although I have seen plenty of porn movies with flat chested women...) and I find it odd that there aren't many naturally curved women in porn.
So all in all, I don't think most prefer this or that. I think you will find something for everyone in both porn and real life. And enjoying a full chest is not the same as enjoying fake breasts. I know many men who like a handful but who wouldn't go near fake ones (me included).
As far as what can be considered big or small breasts, there are no clear definition are there? For the record I define "big" breasts as breasts that I can't completely cover with one hand.
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