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Am I only good enough for him when he is in the mood?

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Question - (7 April 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2012)
A female Namibia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this is going to be one long message with spell errors sorry.. haha and please read and answer

oky so there's this boy his name begins with an F so lets call him F. so i've liked F ever since the first day i met him in 2009. (its 2012 now lol) and i know for sure im in love with him. last year july 2011 he kissed me for the 1st time we made out and he was in the mood and i was to.. so i went to my bed and slept.. december 2011 he asked to see my boobs so ofcourse i showed them to him.... stupid neh but thats what love does,, and in February 2012 me and F finally started chating he sent me kisses etc.. (he lives in windytown and i live in henty bay 400km away from each other) then he asked me if he can see my boobs again so isaid yes he asked me if he can finger me i said yes (i know i sound cheap but i aint) and on the 23-25 march we went to windytown (me and my parents) to visit and stay at their house for the weekend on the 23 we were still at their house and he asked me to follow him and so i did he finally made out with me again and he touched my ass later we went to the movies and F kept touching my boobs and down there but through my close... and then when i left to go to the bathroom he asked my friend if they could make out i was really really hurt and i cried..

when we went home he ignored me when she (my friend) was in the room and when we were alone he kissed me again and he didnt ignore me and then she comes back and its back to square 1.. so we went to the room were sleeping in all 4 of us (F has a younger brother) so F's brother and my friend was in the one bed watching a movies while me and F were in another bed and he asked me to show him my boobs so i did then he asked me to losen my bra so i did we were both really tured on then he stared rubing me through my pj shorts i got really wet then he fingered me.. and my hand went to his umm dick but not in him pants outside his pants, then he started rubing my boobs and asked me to move to my side so i did then he did me from behind in clothes dont worry didnt sleep togheter...(spelling again sorry) then suddenly he got up went to my friend told him brother to go o me and lay there...

i was hurted once again then F went down stairs so i followed and i looked at him and asked him whats him problem he said nothing and then i told him yeah im only good enough when shes not in the room he said no and made out with me again (grabbed my ass again)and then he ended the kiss and said happy? we went upstairs and he ignored me again so i asked then to leave we wane sleep then F's brother said wait and he kissed my friend (just a normal kiss) and we went to bed.. next day 24 we got up dressed without spaking he kept ignoring me went to the mall me my friend and my mother and him mother (F, my dad, his dad and F's brother went to the rally) when we got back from the mall me and my friend stayed at home and they also went to the rally later they returned he still kept ignoring me ect... with her you know... much later that night we also went to the rally for the prize giving then he ignored us both.. at home he ignored me and went to sleep....

25 we went to china town ( another mall in windytown )and everybody went their own way (i was with my friend) nothing happened we went to the casino (later to eat) he was into her and then i told him shes actually fat he was like eww and didnt believe me so i told her what i told him and she didnt care.. few hours later we went for a swim when i wanted to dress he didnt leave so i dressed without him seaing anything he leftan my friend swam in a t-shirt and i in a bikini and he was giving all his attention to he again until i climbed out and then climed back in he was looking at my good sexy body lol.. and in the pool he pulled my bikini top open and looked at my boobs again.... when we were done i got dressed and we packed got into the car and we were about tto leave then everybody greeted ecept he didnt greet me but her and his brother greeted me but not her??!!! few days later easter 2012 the 6 (today) he ignored me again but this time he brought a gf i was like wtf! and so i also ignored F and he was mean to me again and the i found out the monday (26 march 2012) they stared daiting i was like wtf wtf wtf what sort of guy does that!

we dont chat anymore etc please just help me does he like me or does he just like me to get into my pants and am i only good enough for him when hes in the mood??? and how can i get over him and make him beg for me please help! im sick of crying!!!

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A female reader, answerfromtheheart United States +, writes (8 April 2012):

answerfromtheheart agony auntHe only likes you because you let him "get in your pants"

Sorry, but this is not the kind of guy you want to be crazy about.

And for the future, learn how to say no, even when you really want the guy to like you, because when you say no, if he really likes you, he will wait and treat you properly, when you give him what he wants, he'll go somewhere else, because you are no longer interesting for him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012):

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thanks guys when i was done reading all these replys i actually started crying... your right i just have to move on.,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012):

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hehe thanx you guys means alot...

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 April 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthe is a slimeball honey he is just USING YOU for sexual things

he does NOT like you only what's between your legs...

just go NO CONTACT with him

IGNORE HIM

you have my permission to write him a really long letter and tell him EVERYTHING you want to tell him. Tell him the same things over and over... this letter should take you several days to write... it might be as long as 20 pages...

then you must seal it in an envelope and put it away in a drawer you never use... in a few years you can read it and eventually you will go "OMG was I that YOUNG"

it's always helped me get over someone I cared about that did not care that way about me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2012):

Im sorry but the loser is using you, he just wanted in your pants. You need to evoid this guy, he is no good for you. The only way to get over this is time, and getting out with friends and doing things you love. Sorry if this hurts but you need to move on, youll get through this. There is plenty of guys out there A LOT better than this loser.

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