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writes:I met this guy on a dating site, im 64 and he is 52, he was into everything, ex heroin addict, women and children galore, cannibis, and lsd, but i accepted him as basically he gave the impression he was a kind guy, we split up last january, then we got back together in May, he has given up cannibas, but he is something else one minute i am the best thing he has ever met and he is "blessed" he met me, he is into meditation and spirituality, and was a disciple of Osho who i think wrecked his head, he has young children that he sees every 2nd weekend, thats no problem, but I am fed up of him talking about his past lovers, and when i get annoyed he thinks i am jealous far from it, last monday after he telling me he really feels relaxed with me and never knew it could be so good, we go to bed not that it is the best sex i ever had but he starts to tell me this story, about his last ex who is the mother of his two young children, how she chased him and how they planned a baby, then he tells me in the next breath that his previous ex who is also the mother of a son of 19 and this kid has told me he was emotionally deprived by both parents, my fella tells me he got her pregnant as well and as she didnt want children she had four abortions, i was amazed and told him did he never hear of the pill or condoms, surely you were just as responsible, dont get me wrong i think women if the case arises they have to have an abortion so be it, but to use it as a birth control method shows how irresponsible they both were, he is still in touch with this woman, oh we spoke all week on the telephone and then yest i rang and left a voice mail asking him did i leave my sports gear at his house, he didnt answer the phone, so i text him and said again about my sports gear, he then abruptly sends a text saying they are not here, i sent him one back saying they have got to be, and he eventually texts me and tells me he found them but he wants space thanks, i cant put up with this guy's moods, everyone here is going through a financial crisis cos of the country, but he thinks he is the only one, when it suits him he will ring me, but i am not allowed to ring him, many a time i get a text saying will ring you later but he doesnt and then he will text the next morning saying sorry i was so tired last night i just fell asleep or when he is high he will ring for hours, dont get me wrong i am not jealous of him or his past but i dont want it pushed down my throat, i text him today and told him i had enough of his moods i couldnt cope with this hot and cold stuff, and frankly i have had enough, but he never replied, i know i should ignore him but i have some more items of clothing in his house, what harm i have been good to this guy, cleaning his house, doing lots of jobs for him, even booking up some holiday which he got me to pay with my credit card and now he says he cant afford the hotel so that has had to be cancelled, he says he will get a drs note, but still he can go to sweeden to bond with a rhodesian ridgeback which he has bought, and i also booked up to go to my friends 60th for 4 days in sept, i now stand to lose more money, should i just cut my losses cos as sure as hell he does my head in with all this Osho stuff, he thinks he is so perfect, everytime we meet, he talks about this woman and that woman, and will sit in his house checking his emails and answering his mobile when he invites me to his house, or he never asks me what i want to watch on the telly, in fact as i write this he is a selfish bastard and i think i am well rid of him.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 You are very lucky to have gotten rid of him. This Osho stuff is bs...I know about it because in India, anyone who have half a brain, doesn't give a damn about it. It just basically glorifies and legitimizes random sex.
That apart, this man sounds like a nightmare. He is selfish and stupid, and good riddance to bad rubbish! You can do much better without him!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Sounds like you are lucky to be rid of him - I think you just need to cut contact and move on. Yes it is annoying that you have some clothes at his house, but you can easily get some more clothes so might be best just to cut your losses now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionstill havent heard from him either about picking my stuff up or even an apology.
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