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writes:I have known this guy for several months, we are on the cycling team together he is 22 and I'm 20. Last week we danced together and made out at a party. He came over to my place the next day and we kissed, cuddled and made plans to spend time together. The next day, he texted me and said that he cant make it because he has a lot of school work to do.I called him that night to see if he wanted to join my friend and I for dinner but he said that he is going to his friends for a beer and then home to do more work. The day after that, he messaged me and said that he had a ton of work to do and thats all he has been doing but now he is back home for the weekend (five hours away from our school) so I said to call me when he is free. Its been almost a week and still no call. When I looked at his fb, I found out that he went to bars so I guess he lied to me. I dont understand what happened, I know he is single, we have so much in common and he doesnt seem to be one of those guys who only wants sex so I'm really confused. Does he just want some space or is he really not into me?
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (24 January 2010):
 It really sounds like he isn't into you like you'd like him to be. It could also be that he wants some space. He's young and maybe he just doesn't want to be tied down.
It is too bad he didn't have the courage to tell you the truth of the matter but guys don't generally like confrontation, especially if it means hurting someone.
Move on to someone who wants to be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010): He said he'd call when he was free and hasn't-but found the time to go to bars? Maybe give it a couple more days as he might have been catching up with friends but any longer...I would say he isn't interested in taking things further. He might just want to be single at the moment, some people just aren't ready for the commitment of a relationship .
Best wishes for finding someone
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