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Do guys find black hair attractive in girls?

Q.   i know this is a random question but i just want to see what everyones opinion was, mostly from a guys perspective. Of course a lot of guys like or "love" blondes then theres the burnettes and red heads. what about the girls with black hair? in my ...

A.   28 December 2011: I have blonde hair but i dye it black every month, i like black hair better it suits me cuz i av dark eyebrows and blue eyes but also i'm tanned colour skin so it looks good on me, blonde makes me look stupid!... (read in full...)

Advice for responding to this text?

Q.   Merry Christmas all! I met a girl on the train the other day and, although incredibly unlike me, I started talking to her and asked for her number and if she wanted to go for a drink. She gave it to me and then immediately started texting me when ...

A.   26 December 2011: That's just friend's text, she's texting like she's friends with you. nothing more, that's why she doesn't always reply, she leaves it days before texting!! ... (read in full...)

Can I operate to become a virgin again?

Q.   Can i have my virginity back by doing an operation?...

A.   26 December 2011: Yes, you can!!! I know a few people who have done it x... (read in full...)

Verbally abusive boyfriend keeps saying that I'm dumb and good for nothing

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf used to abuse me verbally once in a while before and now he started doing it almost every day. He says its getting difficult to even hold a conversation without getting angry with me, nowadays. He often says i dont know anythi...

A.   25 December 2011: I agree with other person!! Pack ya bags or pack his!! Nxt will cum the hittin n then it gets worse!!! Leave while u cn ... (read in full...)

I want to wear my bikini, but my Bf gets teary and upset at me doing this. Is he over-reacting?

Q.   My boyfriend gets all teary and upset when I express interest in wearing a bikini. He hates the idea of someone looking at me but I'm proud of my body and sometimes I just want to show it (most of the time however I like adequate coverage...) Is ...

A.   25 December 2011: Hes sayin that cuz hes insecure!! If other blokes take intrest he thinks ul run of with em, just wear it, if u got it flaunt it, thats my sayin x... (read in full...)

I've only met him 3 times. Is accepting his invitation to a party potentially dangerous?

Q.   I've been invited to a house party on New Year's Eve, and i'm not sure whether to go or not. I recently met this guy. We have met up in public three times so far ( including the night we first met each other ). And now he wants me to go to the ...

A.   24 December 2011: Id go, but im a gate crasher lmao i always go parties n stuff at strangers houses, i always go home before 11, i will always text my parents or my mates at half 10 that way they no where i am and what im doin, so i no if anyfin happens and i dnt ... (read in full...)

I'm worried I'm in love with a guy I grew up with. What will I do about my boyfriend, who I don't love now?

Q.   I grew up on a rough estate, and I hung around with the bad boys. That was 7 years ago, and since then i met a lad through college and we got together in 2009. He cheated and lied constantly, i forgave him, Though I don't know why I did forgive him,...

A.   24 December 2011: Just a update, i broke up with my boyfriend, and i told my friend how i feel, he feels the same, however we aint going to rush it and i've just come out a long relationship X... (read in full...)

I love her baby like its my own, but recently she has been acting weird and the good times are few and far between. What should I do?

Q.   Ok my girlfriend had a baby about 7 months ago. I've been with her for almost 9 months. The first couple months were great and when she had her baby it still was amazing to be with her. Even though it's not my baby I do love him like my own and only ...

A.   23 December 2011: Maybe she likes me, i say i don't want a hug, when really I just want a hug, without asking. It's nice to just have it done, not have to ask for it to be done... (read in full...)

10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex

Q.   Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...

A.   23 December 2011: I dont come having sex, it doesnt thrill my like my man going down on me, try harder, slower, deeper but start so its just the tip of him in u, it teases you and play at the same time, just a tip! I dont really no, i no its common, loads of women ... (read in full...)

Is there any difference between pleasing yourself and being pleased by someone else?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm 19 and pretty much completely inexperienced, generally and sexually. The only sexual thing I've done is given a guy a handjob. I have never shown skin before, and have never experienced anything sexual on my part with a guy. ...

A.   22 December 2011: Im thick, i read this over and over lol, i move my boy friend's hands, i have him do it how i like it, he moves his hand in the wrong place then I'll kick him off me, i control the whole thing, but you dont sound sure, you sound like you want us to ... (read in full...)

I love her baby like its my own, but recently she has been acting weird and the good times are few and far between. What should I do?

Q.   Ok my girlfriend had a baby about 7 months ago. I've been with her for almost 9 months. The first couple months were great and when she had her baby it still was amazing to be with her. Even though it's not my baby I do love him like my own and only ...

A.   22 December 2011: She grew up! Because she had to, play fighting is out of the question, its time to talk nappies and bottles and sleep!! Sorry but im 21 a mom of 2, i used to mess around a lot but then i had to grow up when i had my first child x... (read in full...)

How do you get a boy's number?

Q.   Okay i like this guy right, well we talk but not a lot. i really want to get to know him and get his number but thats just it, i dont know how to get a guys number! can sombody please tell me how to get a boys number? please and thanks...

A.   21 December 2011: Just ask him for his number, im normally talkin then say arrr i gotta go heres my number txt me lol works everytime, within half hour i get a text x... (read in full...)

Is beauty a blessing or a curse?

Q.   Do extremely attractive people have a more difficult time maintaining a relationship? With all their options and the multitudes drooling over them does it make it more difficult for beautiful people to stay in a relationship....

A.   21 December 2011: Im gona sound like a big head now but im gona b honest, ive bin with 2-4 guys that have only bin with me cuz of my looks and my figure, they liked the fact that blokes thort i was hot, however, i dont look at myself how blokes do, ive bin told that ... (read in full...)

Found out my fiance has been cheating....should I go ahead with the wedding or not?

Q.   Im about to get married with my bf of 2years. Ours was a long distance relationship for a year as we are both working abroad. Communication had been constant, almost everyday we did get in touch. Never did i doubted my bf's love and sincerity ...

A.   21 December 2011: You will never trust him, if you get told hes cheating you will believe it, i would not marry this man!! He cheated, once a cheat always a cheat!! He had a affair how could you ever forgive him for tht? Marryin him will just make him think he can ... (read in full...)

I have trouble choosing the right guy for me...please help!

Q.   I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now. I use to be really happy with him but I don't know if I love him anymore. We never do anything together except sit around and home , and we have completely separate social lives. He is an amazing ...

A.   21 December 2011: Just be straight with him, yeah i have, i told him that i dont feel the same anymore and bout my male friend, but i aint going to start seeing him straight away i dont want to rub my ex boyfriends face in it, but best thing to do is be honest with ... (read in full...)

I have trouble choosing the right guy for me...please help!

Q.   I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now. I use to be really happy with him but I don't know if I love him anymore. We never do anything together except sit around and home , and we have completely separate social lives. He is an amazing ...

A.   19 December 2011: Im the same situation!! Only i havent had sex with my lad friend, oh i thort about it tho, i think about him, im endin it with my bf cuz if i wanted to be with him i wouldnt be thinkin about another man! I went off sex, it annoid me when he touched ... (read in full...)

Is this the end of the road or do we still have a chance?

Q.   Hi all, I was recently seeing a guy that I went to school with. We met up again after 15 yrs and had so much in common. We were together for about 7 months. This was quite a serious relationship and we both fell in love and would text and call ea...

A.   19 December 2011: Move on, he cnt have you but he doesnt want anyone else too!! Move on for your kids sake!! Dont let him keep u on a peice of string, you and your kids deserve better than that!! X... (read in full...)

I am no longer religious, but the girl I am interested in, is. Is this a bad road to go down?

Q.   For 4 years, I attended a small private Christian college and in my last year, ironically enough, I slowly became an atheist. Well fast forward 8 months after graduation and I'm just working day to day and seeing friends on the weekends. Most ...

A.   19 December 2011: Duno if that sent but honesty is the way to start a relationship ... (read in full...)

I am no longer religious, but the girl I am interested in, is. Is this a bad road to go down?

Q.   For 4 years, I attended a small private Christian college and in my last year, ironically enough, I slowly became an atheist. Well fast forward 8 months after graduation and I'm just working day to day and seeing friends on the weekends. Most ...

A.   19 December 2011: Be honest with this girl, if she likes u then the whole religon thing wont matter! U just gotta put it all out there and if shes not intrested then put a full stop at the end and start a new chapter, good luck hun x... (read in full...)

B/f was cheating on me with his best friend's sister and I'm afraid it will keep happening!

Q.   hi i just recently found out that the father of my kids was seeing somebody else last year i seen everything what they wrote to each other about them sneaking around and seeing this other woman mocking me askin my bf if my bf would take her to my ...

A.   19 December 2011: I wouldnt be able to be with him, cheatin while carryin his kid, na not a chance, id kik his ass out!! ... (read in full...)

My new boyfriend gets upset that I can't orgasm each time we have sex!

Q.   Hi there, I'm 19 and have been sexually active since I was 15.... I've been with 3 guys and all of those I've been in long term relationships with. I enjoy sex but it doesn't make me orgasm and my clit is normally to sensitive when I'm having sex so ...

A.   19 December 2011: I dont threw sex, but when my boyfriend goes down on me then i do, sex just doesnt tickle the right places for me, try doing other things that u enjoy, ur man needs to learn ur body x... (read in full...)

How do I break away from my abusive ex and stay away from him? He confuses me.

Q.   i have been with this man for five years, this is our second break up. what led to our break up was he started doing more drinking and smoking weed. he has never done this before. it seems like when we got back together for the second time is when...

A.   18 December 2011: I was in same boat, but he didnt smoke weed or drink, best thing i eva did was cut all ties and start ova!! He stalked me so i move frm my hometown to 70 miles away and he followed, i got the police to remove him, then i moved bk to my hometown and ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend's PMT Stresses Me Out, Help!

Q.   Ok i've just met a wonderful girl, and i'm madly in love with her, i know this because it's diffrent than the feelings i've had with ex gf's, i am 17 and she is 16, shes slept over a few times now, but recently she has come on the PMT it really ...

A.   18 December 2011: I have pmt but i dnt act that way, if i flirted or txt ex bfs like that i wuda bin single soon as i replied or flirted with someone!! That girls taking the p outa u and ur lettin er!! Dow get treated like a fool and man up!! Put ya foot down and put ... (read in full...)

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