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I have a girlfriend, but my work-friend thought our night out was the "wrong vibe"!

Q.   I'm stuck. I work with a girl at work and we have become quite close friends and recently went out to a concert, just the two of us. We danced, hands held and a bit of close dancing and hugging on the dance floor, all in the name of enjoying the ...

A.   24 June 2006: What you have done is quite wrong, to both women. What you were doing is basically a form of cheating, even though you havent slept with your 'friend'(I assume) you held hands and cuddled her, this crossed over the line of friendship. This ... (read in full...)

He persued me for 1.5 years now we hooked up for 4 weeks he's already gotten cold feet!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 weeks. We,ve known each other for about 1yr 1/2, everytime we saw each other he'd ask to take me out, but because he is 2 years younger than me i put off the idea. Eventually i agreed, and we had the best ...

A.   22 June 2006: Yos and Irish are right and it is best that you sever all contact with this man. I just had the same experience, once he had me he went off me!! I told him it was best we ended our friendship as he was confused and messing me around, you should do ... (read in full...)

I know he just wants me for sex, but when I see him I turn to jelly...

Q.   I have been seeing this lad on and off for about 2 months and I have really fallen for him, but he brags about how many girls he has been sleeping with lately. I try to hide the fact I'm bothered but really I am. Obviously all he wants me for is s...

A.   19 June 2006: He is not worth your attention. Delete his number from you phone and move on. There will most definatley be someone better out there for you... (read in full...)

I cheated by mistake with my Ex, now my man cant forgive me, please help!

Q.   Hello all, I ruined my life the other day by cheating on my boyfriend of 2 years. Ive never done anything like it before. Not that this is an excuse but I didnt consciously choose to cheat. I slept at my exes and woke up to him having sex with me....

A.   31 May 2006: What your ex did was technically rape! You should have reported him to the police, he might be doing it to other girls, he may have done it to hundreds of girls. I think you should move on, start afresh and learn from your mistakes. ... (read in full...)

I'm hurt because he called an ex gf just before ringing me. I found out by checking his cell phone. Need advice!

Q.   im in need of male and female advice here.so if you could just bear with me here. ive been with my boyfriend now 7 months its been both fantastic and so full of fun most times but we have had a lot ov problems too, we both have kids and x's. ...

A.   31 May 2006: Too be honest it seems he may have feelings for her and the question is do you want to be second choice? I may be wrong though. I am suprised you stayed with him after you found out he had texted her asking her to get back with him. You deserve ... (read in full...)

Did he lead me on?

Q.   I started dating a guy (37) 4 months ago. He took the relationship to the next level first. He said he loved me first. I still kept my feelings from him until he insisted on knowing if i loved him. We spent alot of time together either at his ho...

A.   30 May 2006: It sounds as though he did lead you on all though he probably didnt mean too. Ive had nearly the exact same thing happen to me, it's disheartening and very confusing behaviour, it also doesn't do much for the self esteem! He probably got scared, ... (read in full...)

Is he selfish when all he wants is to hang with his buddies?

Q.   hi, i have a problem....my boyfreind is always choosing his freinds over me where if we'er hanging out he'll leave me and hang with them. like once he was coming to hang out with me then he called and said he's gunna be late cuz he's with his ...

A.   30 May 2006: Hes definatley taking you for granted and is a bit complacent about the relationship. I think you should try being a little less available for him, for example one out of every three times he wants to meet say your busy, Maybe out with the girls, ... (read in full...)

Should I let my 17 year old daughter date a 31 year old man?

Q.   My daughter is a mature 17 with excellent grades and a good lifestyle. I've never had to deal with any problems with friends, drugs or school, and she is going to be an adult soon. She tells me all of her problems, but recently, she has told me ...

A.   30 May 2006: She seems to have a sensible head on her shoulders from what you have said but she is still only a teenager and not long past the age of consent. I think the main worry is why would a 31 year old man want to go out with a teenage girl? Perhaps ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend cheats on me, has a baby with her and i find out from someone else.. help!

Q.   what to do when the man of 6yrs. cheats on me with a girl that i met through my brother,and decides to have his child. we have a family together and i catch myself throwing this situaion in his face, which really isn't proving anything. he has no ...

A.   14 May 2006: You must be incredibly forgiving, I would never have put up with that situation and would have finished it. If you are not sure you can ever trust him again you may be better off with out him. That fact that he cheated on you was bad enough, but ... (read in full...)

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