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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really need help... and God knows I cant talk to anyone about it. Pleas help me :(I started out going out with this guy for 8 years things I was little and things were too cute and too good to be true. I lived in the U.S all my life. and he was back in my country. when I finished high school he told me to come back to our country and be with him. that he wanted to get married to me. so me being stupid packed my bags and left everything i love and care about and flow 1/2 way arrowed the world to be with him. when I got there things started to change he didn’t talk to me as much and he said it was because it was his last year in the University and that he had to finish before he did anything. So I said I understand. when summer came and everything seemed to be ok, my mom come to me with a heavy heart and told me that he was going to get married...when she said that I thought he asked for my hand...she said what her name was and that she was in the same class as him. I was devastated! I felt so low and used...that’s not where the story takes place..That summer I left the country to get away from it all just for 3 weeks. When I came back I had someone tell me he likes me and who else other then his little brother.. who is 1 years younger then me.I felt so shocked! I was not expecting anything like that to happen. at first I thought it was a joke that my ex was playing with me, so I didn’t give his brother a chance to talk. after sometime. Don’t ask me why I did it. I let him into my life, is words make me feel happy again. he would say stuff like I would never hurt u the way he did. and someone like u should not be a toy to use and through away.even though i would still feel like this was something that was 100% not right, and made me bothered, I let him into my life. I guess I needed someone to be with me after leaving everyone I know and love back in the US and he was there for me when I needed him. That’s what got me closed to him.After 3 months he started to not act normal. He was supper jealous about everything. he would question me about my past and scream at me for just talking to guys. I fell more hurt then be for...I feel like there is no way out of this one. I want to leave him because its just got too much. he cries and screams . when I tell him ur not happy with me we should end this he says he’s going to kill him self.that’s not all...My ex got dumped by the girl he liked. turned out she was using him to help her with her final projectand I still have feeling for my ex, and I feel that he still has feeling for me too.God, I really don’t know what to do? what do I do? please help me!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (23 April 2010):
 From what you've told us, I don't see a life with either brother being happy and stabile for you. Take Sarah's advice and stay clear of both of them.
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reader, Sarah_87  +, writes (23 April 2010):
personally i think you should stay well clear of them both and move on chick
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