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A girl with bad luck! A tale about two brothers...

Q.   I really need help... and God knows I cant talk to anyone about it. Pleas help me :( I started out going out with this guy for 8 years things I was little and things were too cute and too good to be true. I lived in the U.S all my life. and he was...

A.   23 April 2010: personally i think you should stay well clear of them both and move on chick ... (read in full...)

Will I ever move on from my infatuation with a work colleague? Or should I continue to pursue him despite our marriages?

Q.   For almost two years I have been attracted to a married colleague at work. He has 3 kids. I myself am also married with 2 kids. My husband works in another country so I only get to see him other every 2-3 months. It initially started just a ...

A.   19 April 2010: i know how you feel on this situation. in fact i am in that situation right now, i am due to be married and i have fallen for a work colleague who is married. we text each other and stuff, he knows how i feel about him but he doesnt express his ... (read in full...)

He loves another girl! But I can't leave him!

Q.   I am loving my cousin brother and he is also in love with me.for the past one and half years, we enjoyed as like other lovers. Trust me, he truly loved me. But now he says that he is loving another girl. I couldnt leave him. what can i do?...

A.   29 March 2010: your cousins brother? so basically he's your cousin...?? you are going to have to elaborate on this question cause i don't understand where your coming from hun. i think you need to sit and with him and talk it through ... (read in full...)

Secret affair with a married straight man

Q.   Hey I've known this str8 dude for 10 years now. As kid we've done things together. Sexually and even as adults. There's been a few time I had pay him but it still happened. Now he knows I love him and I know he uses that to his advantage. He has an ...

A.   29 March 2010: i'm confused?? you said you have done things sexually.. but yet you have not had intercourse or kissed or anything like that?? and you have had to pay this "straight" married guy to do what...?? can you elaborate cause it's not very clear and ... (read in full...)

Is there some way I can get him to miss me?

Q.   I am currently madly in love with someone who isn't speaking to me. Brian and I dated for over 5.5 years, and I wanted nothing more than for us to get married. In December he (while extremely emotional and in tears) told me he needed time apart. ...

A.   26 March 2010: i think you need to message him and tell him exactly how you feel. just email/text him and tell him you'd like to talk to him. tell him exactly how you felt, and how you are feeling now. if he doesn't reply within a couple of days you know he does... (read in full...)

Will he get in trouble for having sex with me?

Q.   I am turning fourteen this year, my boyfriend is turning sixteen. We've had sex, but im worried about when his finally legal. Will he get in trouble for having sex with a fourteen year old? PLEASE HELP! He turns sixteen before i turn fourteen...

A.   26 March 2010: yes, he will get into trouble... i can't believe your having sex at 13. its illegal to sex with a minor.. you want to be very careful what your both doing and certainly don't get spreading the word around!... (read in full...)

Questions about dating and talking on the phone......

Q.   This is a two part question. When I am talking to my boyfriend on the phone at night, if it gets to be maybe 12 or 1 in the morning he insists that I go to sleep and get some rest, but I almost feel like he's trying to get rid of me and I'm a lit...

A.   23 March 2010: well i dont think it's because he doesnt want to talk to you, i think its because its 1am and he's probably knackered and wants to go to sleep! so yeah i think you are being a bit over sensitive chick, theres no need to talk that late anyway, you ... (read in full...)

Married and still wanting to be with my abusive ex boyfriend.

Q.   I had been in an off and on relationship with my ex for over three years. We and everyone around us from the beginning said that there was a powerful connection with us and it made those in our company always feel like a third wheel. However he ...

A.   23 March 2010: its a tough situation you have. but it's only been 4 months since you broke up, and now your married to another man? is that a bit rushed?? you havent given yourself enough time to heal from your ex-boyfriend before starting a new life. if your... (read in full...)

Which of these texts seems more natural and effective? I want to set up a first date but I'm not sure how to go about doing this

Q.   Hello, So 5 days before spring break (about 15 days ago) I met this girl in my ballroom dancing class. We talked for about 15 minutes while the teacher got there, and I ended up getting her phone number. I just got back from home, and was...

A.   22 March 2010: definitely the second text. it leaves it open for conversation.. :)... (read in full...)

Completely in love... but is that enough???

Q.   I have been with my Fiance for 3 years we have an 18month old daughter and due to be married next year. i love him very much and he treats me like a princess. i have recently started a new job under the same sector as my fiance and i have to come in ...

A.   22 March 2010: Hi everyone, thank you so much for your comments. they are really helpful and you are all right!! i just needed to hear someone say it, and all of you did. so thanks for your help and i'm going to work on my current relationship and not contact the ... (read in full...)

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