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writes:Well When i Was 14, i Was havin trouble with my mum and eventually left home and went to stay with my uncle miles away...anyways my uncle had an adopted son which was 15 at that moment (lets just call him bob) and was originate from colombia he was so cute and as soon as i saw him i was attracted to him i never showed it though because i know its not "right" .. i never really pictured him as a cousin, he was always a friend, nothin like a normal cousin to me...anyways time went on and i got really close to bob, i would tell him anythin, he would tell me anythin..we were best friends and things were great, i also noticed he doesnt like it when i flirt with other boys, i didn't know why until he told me that he liked me n of corse i would never reject him! so we started datin... i turned 15 he turned 16... my uncle must have been dumb not to discover anythin between us or maybe we were too good at keepin it a secret....one night my uncle was out to his gf, n left me and bob alone in the house, me and bob got up to some cuddlin, i was never plannin 2 go another step further but i couldnt resist him we ended up havin sex, he took my virginity, was also his 1st time too, we used the "pull out" trick with no protection, he did pull out, happy days... By now i me and bob was madly in love....later we had sex again and done it regularly, my uncle didnt have a clue....one day at a sleep over my friends house.. we had it but he pulled out too late, i took a test and i was out of my head when it came back positive im 6weeks pregnant right now and my tummy is not that big yet im wearin baggy clothes jus so it dont show, bob doesnt want an abortion neither do i but how on earth am i going to tell my uncle or any1 else they would think im disgusting even though we're not bloodly related i personaly see nothin wrong with it but i know my uncle too well he would probably chop bobz head off if he finds out, im so scared, when my tummy would grow bigger and my excuse going to be im gettin fat theres no way he would fall for that he would have to know anyway But howw?! HELP ME! :( SORRY for Long Story..
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reader, lily13524  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 thats great!!
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reader, adjc? +, writes (27 February 2010):
thats really good the hear. im glad things are working out for you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers it really helped i managed to tell my uncle but he nearly strangled me to death, but he did come to a decision, he wanted me to have an abortion to keep this away from my mum, but i didnt agree he went even worst and left home for a few days, didn't look like he cared until i told my real brother about it and he talked to my uncle and also told my mother, they werent that angry, bob just got a job, and i'm having home schooling, so i'm happier i guess thanks a lot :)
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reader, Lottie4 +, writes (21 February 2010):
Now your having a baby your going to face many obstacles, but you need to start facing up to your actions in order to protect the baby's welfare aswell as your own.
If 'Bob' loves you then he will stick by you no matter the outcome of telling your uncle about your goings'on, and thats the main thing that matters, a mother and father who love their child.
You are 6 weeks pregnant now and nothing can detract from this fact, pluck up the courage to tell your uncle and you may be surprised by what he says, if not then tell him the truth...
If you and Bob love eachother your uncle should realise true love lasts a lifetime!!
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reader, Lottie4 +, writes (21 February 2010):
Now your having a baby your going to face many obstacles, but you need to start facing up to your actions in order to protect the baby's welfare aswell as your own.
If 'Bob' loves you then he will stick by you no matter the outcome of telling your uncle about your goings'on, and thats the main thing that matters, a mother and father who love their child.
You are 6 weeks pregnant now and nothing can detract from this fact, pluck up the courage to tell your uncle and you may be surprised by what he says, if not then tell him the truth...
If you and Bob love eachother your uncle should realise true love lasts a lifetime!!
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reader, adjc? +, writes (21 February 2010):
well you are in a tight siuation. if i were you id sit your uncle down with you and "bob" explain whats going on, hope that he undestands. you should also go to the doctors. maybe you could call your mom? unless you guys are still haveing troble, you need to talk to someone you trust and can help you. this isnt something you can just put to the side so id go with telling your uncle
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): K well you have a really hard sisuation. Some may say run off some were far away but really do you have the money to do that. I would say to put the baby up for adoption but your delama is how are you sopose to diliver when you can't tell well for that try to talk to your uncle he could be understanding. I hope I helped.
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reader, lily13524 +, writes (21 February 2010):
Honey,one way or another he will find out,so it would be mature enough if you and bob get your uncle in a room and easily explain what is going on.It would be better if you tell him than he find out for his self cause this might just get as bad as you can think!
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