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My penis is 5 inches and I'm too shy to have sex! Is that too small?

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Question - (2 January 2006) 33 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2010)
A male , anonymous writes:

i am a male and i have 5 inches penis and i am shy to have sex . is it very small ? does girls will run away because it is small.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010):

Sorry to tell you it probably won't "grow" to 8 inches but what matters is how you treat a woman. Sex is just an extension (no pun intended) of the whole relationship.

And if you're just out to have sex with someone, there are many many other ways to please a woman besides just the penis in and out. Learn to use your tongue, fingers and toys.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010):

Hey buddy don't worry about it my penis was 5.5 inches when I was only 16 but now in my 20's it has grown naturally to about 8 inches

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

Hy. i have this same problem. but it occures in every guy there first time. eg: we get shy because we think our penis is too small or we think it is ugly. but just remember that we look worse to ourselfs than other's see us. so dont worrie buddy. and if the girl say's that's to small then tell her it aint size and look's, it's what you do with it that count's. and if you get her in the right mood she should most probably not care about your size. 5 inches is still enuff to give any lady pleasure. so dont beat your self up about this ok. onece you show the girl that you can give her a good time with what you have she will honor you. but if she is shy or a virgin she will say that is tiny, and she most probably wont mean it she will just not know what to say,GARUNTEED. hope i helped. now show her what you have got.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009):

don't worry i have a 5 1/2 inch pecker and i make my girl cum often.

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A female reader, leo3 United States +, writes (22 September 2009):

leo3 agony auntone of my exes was huge, but thats about it. he had no idea what to do with it. my last bf was about your size, however he def knew how to use it and sex was wayyy better with him. so in my opinion its all about how you use it, and how adventerous you are. plus if a girls tight shes going to appreciate that you can fit her, when a guys too big for a girl all it usually hurts no matter how often you have sex. personally i would rather have a guy that fit me right.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009):

hey!!! 5inches is abso normal...i have had sex with both my bf's..the other an ex of course!...he had a penis size of 7inches and always thot of himself as a stud...sex with him hurt a lot tho...my current bf's soldier's size is 5inches and he satisfies me equally gud...so size doesn't matter for us...and i've come to realise that men with huge packages come with huge egos as well...so don't worry go out and meet women who wud appreciate your shlong!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

i myself have a 5 1/2 inch penis....and no woman has ever complained...its how you use it!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

Women are more impressed with a man who can use his tongue. Penis size doesnt matter.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

Anyway, you can search google to know your penis is average size. I have an averaged-sized penis, but there is some technique to it. Aside from the foreplay, make sure you don't go all out when you first mount a woman. Work it in slow and get more aggressive when she gets ready to orgasam. Women normally built up slowly to orgasams so just work it in slow, then more, then stead, then ride her like a horse when she gets ready to cum. Also, it's not a bad idea to rub your pelvic bone slightly against their clit.

Your penis is within the average range, I know it sucks cause you want a huge dick you have to carry with both hands, but you probably watched porn like me and assumed that was normal. Also some girls think they want a huge dick, but in reality they learn otherwise; mostly because you want what you haven't experienced.

One last though, did you forget it's not just about her ? What about your pleasure ? And who wants to be with a woman who's vagina is so big you need to put something a foot long into it to please it ?..aha..date your own species.

Best of luck,

B

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

hi i am married with 5" too, I loved and married with so famous girl for her sexy look my wife is also too tall about 5.11” in height . I worried about to make her satisfy . practically I was worried about the perfect sex position because –most of the stupid positions on internet west your 2 ,3 inches due to thai or hip come between penis and pussy . because we got little small we need maximum penetration without loosing 1 millimeter outside of her vagina. The position for this I found perfect is “Lay her on the corner of the bed pull her hips half bellow the bed come in between her legs . hold her legs anywhere u find perfect and spread it maximum look at her pussy hole you will find it like lotus coming outside to take you in now don’t think much dear push it in you will heard her scream or moon of pain and pleasure” I use only this trick for maximum penetration . you can invent more tricks but always keep deep penetration in your mind .

for my surprise my wif-e ma-de a- complaint that I got thick and big one it hurt her in the beginning but it is so good whe she fully wet . so man find exact position and go with it .

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

Same here mate

I looked on the net, apparantly the average size is between 4 and 5 inches for teenagers like myself but for the older population its 5 - 6 inches rougly? I have found contrasting info on the web. Remember, it is not how big it is, but what you do with it. The female vagina is only 4 inches long anyway so if its over 4 inches, who cares

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

I am about 5.5" Ive been dealing with the same thing all my life. I was so shy i just avoided sex all my life until i met a special girl that just made me feel so good about myself. We've been broken up for about 4 months and she still calls me up to have sex with her because she said i was the best lover shes ever had.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

no...actually that's the PERFECT size to have sex with. 5-6 inches is perfect. if it gets any bigger than 6 or 7 inches, then it will just hurt the girl, but if it's 5-6 inches, then it wil hurt at first,...but then just feel good the rest of the way =D .

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008):

im only 6.5 an my gf still loves me to have sex with her i have no confidence in myself at all but she still believes me keep your chin up man =P i don't but find a good girl and will do it for you =P, just don't relay on them too much like I do the day she leave's me shall be intresting

but i don't think it will happan we been together for 4 years now

-Russ

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

Try not to worry about it. As has already been stated, it's the technique that really matters. I have a 5.5in dick, and because I have good technique, I've always heard/been told I was a good lover. Also, remember that all girls have different tastes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007):

I once had a conversation with a guy who told me he owned a 2.5 inch(when erect)-penis few months back. He didn't seem to feel shy or worry about his size.

U have 5 inches of it, u should feel good about it. There r guys out there with all sorts of sizes big and small, but one needs confidence more than just dick size.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007):

No, we'll not run away from you. You're quite average. Most sites exaggerate the average penis size in order to attract more man to buy their penis enlargement pills or other methods...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

hey i have too 5 nches but i can ride any women & i had got it many times

u can too do it,

then be horse with speed

be man with love

then u'r the only winner of herself

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

You dont have anything to worry about, im only 4.2 inches and ive been with alot of women and theyve never said anything about me being small

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

i don't think that it is small. wait a few months and it will probably grow.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

I'm five inches long by five around and I've never had a problem satisfying a woman. Pleasure is all in the mind, so make sure you're "connecting" with her before you get it on. And tease that poor girl awhile, she'll let you know when she's ready to have you inside her. Also, just because you're putting your dick to work doesn't mean your hands and mouth disappear! Then all you need is some staying power and you're pretty much set. If your size still gets you down, look at it this way; Even the biggest penis in the world can't satisfy a lesbian, it's all about what you like, and who you like to enjoy it with. ;D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007):

Never be ashamed of your penis. Think of all the pleasure he brings you. Is your orgasm any smaller than it would be if your penis hung out of your pant leg? Start complimenting your penis on all the fun times he has given you. If you think that you or any other male will ever have a penis big enough to stretch out a vagina, consider the size of a babies head.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007):

Ladies don't place as much imortance on penis size as do we fellows. However, some very small men might be rejected. At 5 inches or so, you are about equal to the average size and have nothing to worry about, even though most guys are around 6 inches or so. Ladies are more likely to like you for lots of other reasons than what you look like without your towel. To gain effectivity and the appearance of greater length, keep your abdominal fat to a minimum. Remember to be patient and considerate enough to let the lady orgasm first, and also remember that her vagina is only about 3 inches deep anyway, so what difference does it make how much extra you have? Your size is inherited from your dad, and his seems to have been fairly effective.

Ed, 65 years young

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007):

hi i have a smaller penis and i was wondering if doggysytle is still an option.

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A female reader, yourstruly United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

yourstruly agony auntSweety have you not heard of the expression it's not the size it's how you use it!!!And thats the truth there are some men that are gifted with a bigger penis but then when it comes too using it they haven't got the first clue!!!Things such as sexual positions or great foreplay can heighten the pleasure it really isn't all about the size have confidence in your self and be happy with what you have been given sweety!!Hope this helps yourstruly .x.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007):

[laughs] This one cracked me up. I was thinking if 5 inches was really that small, then I'm guessing foot long penises would be about average? I say, if women ran away from 5 inches, wouldn't that simply mean your penis is too monstrous? At the least, if you're shy at 5 inches, then the bulk of Asian-ethnic men would all be virgins! Where did all the Chinese come from?! [shrugs]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007):

hellow i'm a 18 year old male and i have a small penis i'm afraid if any girl would see it they would laugh and i would never have sex i will not try any pills because they are not 100% efective and mast of them take about 4 month to kick in i need help is there something i can do would jackingoff more help it get bigger or smaller i need help i dont want to be laugh at because of the size of mt small penis

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006):

mines 5 inches and yes it is small, i feel inadaquote, but hey chin up you not the only one.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006):

Dont worry about it, all blokes worry about the size of their dicks, mine is only 5.5" and I have never had any complaints. You do not have to do anything differently to anyone else, women don't want a ramrod!! Like Brandi said its all about the motion. Just gauge what a woman likes from her breathing or moans etc or just ask her and then keep doing that. If you are making them orgasm, (preferably before you!) then you've got no problems.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006):

hey, I wudnt b shy, as the other readers have said, use foreplay! honistly girls love it if you spend a bit of time on them, Go into WH smiths or any book store, buy a book or somthing ie, guide to the kama sutra, some good stuff! girls will b impressed

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

Don't worry, size really doesn't matter, there is way more to pleasing a woman than a large penis. If you practice foreplay and are in-tune to your partners needs she'll be almost there before you even GET to intercourse.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

Ok buddy they do say it doesn't matter the size but it's all in how you use it. I have been with men with small penis's and they were fine in bed. If you do find the right girl she won't care cause she will love you for you not the size of your penis!!!Best of luck

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A female reader, Brandi134 +, writes (2 January 2006):

It is in my experience that men with a slighty smaller penis such as yourself, tend to be much better in bed. Men with inferior penis' often think that that is all they need to please a woman. Men, we crave far more than a lick, stick and done. My advice to you is to practice a technique and ignore the size question. Size doesn't really matter. It's the motion in the ocean honey!

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