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I've had dreams about this boy I like, could they mean anything?

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Question - (3 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this boy that I've liked for awhile now. Like, we actually had something so don't think that he's just some random kid that I stalk lol. I haven't seen him in like forever because he doesn't go to my school. But lately, I've been thinking about him more and more. And the other day, my horoscope said: "This summer a former flame and his cute smile will be coming back into your life"...

Then a few nights later I had a dream about him where we went to see a play and he waved at me and smiled and stuff like that.

Then I had another dream just last night that we had finally gotten together as a couple and we were walking down a road holding hands. Then, something happened where it was the end of the world and we got separated for some reason. Then after the end of the world, there were a few survivors but he wasn't there...I cried in my dream because I wanted him to be there but he wasn't. So I assumed he was dead.

Do you think all these things could mean anything?

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A female reader, xcharlottex United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2008):

When you think about something or someone alot they're bound to pop up in your dreams. Seeing as how you're so hopeful that you actully want to believe that your horoscope is backing this up (trust me horoscopes are rarely true and that's only by chance...I mean look at horoscopes logically..how on earth is there anyway they'd know what was going to happen in your life? I'm going to go ahead and predict it's not going to happen, life's just not that good. Unless you're extremely lucky.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008):

I think your dreams are just a reflection of how you feel about this kid. Obviously you like him alot and you would like to be with him and would be very sad if you weren't together. But obviously you musn't take your dreams so so literally. I mean have you ever dreamt of monsters? They don't really exist, its just a dream oftentimes symbolic of something completely different.

As for the horoscope, its just a horoscope. I had a teacher who used to write for the local newspaper and occasionally he and his colleagues were asked to write the horoscope for the day. And he says that they would just make stuff up. Just like that. Sorry to disappoint you.

But it doesn't mean that you both won't possibly end up together. For all you know, he may like you back! You don't know what the future holds. And he may very well be in it. That's the good news. I do, however, think that you are looking for "clues" about what might happen between the both of you in all the wrong places. You might be better off if you just look for signs that actually exist in the real world.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (3 July 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntAbsolutely agree with Tremor. Dreams are just a semi-conscious recollection of all of the thoughts that you have been thinking, sort of a loop of your waking memory mixed up with a few extraneous ideas that make you try to rethink it all and make sense of it. I DO think that your wishes do propel you to go after the things that you desire, naturally, but I don't believe in horoscopes or fortune cookies. They are just hocus pocus and random. The only thing that has the power to make your dreams come true is focus!!! Go flirt with him!

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (3 July 2008):

Tremor agony auntDreams are basically the filing cabinet of the subconcious - while you sleep, your brain throws up images and thoughts that you may have been dwelling on. You mentioned thinking about this lad more often, so it's likely that he's going to make an appearence in some of your dreams. I doubt there's any 'deeper meaning' to the dreams you've been having.

As for horoscopes, I've never taken them seriously. The thing about them is that they are written in a very vague manner, which allows you to tailor them to your own circumstances.

All in all, you might be making too much of all this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008):

It is possible that you could be haveing prophettic dreams...but I doubt it. I dream about really, really strange things, and thank goodness NONE of them come true. Instread of letting things go in fate's hands, call him up. The worst he couold say is no...And if that is the case, you can move on to who you are ment to be with. Good Luck Love Bug!!

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