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How do I get rid of my stretch marks??

Q.   dear cupid, My problem is that i am 15 years old and i have strectch marks on my thighs and boobs. i am not very fat at all they have been there for bout 6 months now why have i got them and how can i gt rid of them ??? please some one help me!...

A.   16 August 2006: You get them if you gain or loose weight quickly. I've got them on my small of my back go to the doctors and they will give you sum cream.... (read in full...)

Am I just being Paranoid about him wanting to meet his ex for a drink ?

Q.   am i being paranoid? before i met my boyfriend he was engaged to a girl, he has told me that he never loved her and that it he loves me very much. the other day he was wearing his engagement ring on his wedding finger, i told him that as he was w...

A.   16 August 2006: cant u go wiv him wen he meets her?trust is the most important part of any relationship if u trust him let him go. if he loves u then he b comin bk 2 u!so don't worry!... (read in full...)

Hes still seeing the ex and is VERY much in contact! Should I stay or walk away ?

Q.   I have known my partner as a friend for 4 years. We became an item on New Years Eve then at the end of January he called it off to go back to his ex. he was back in feb and we gave it another go. We were happy and got engaged in June, then went ...

A.   16 August 2006: how ever much u love him his heart still belongs to his ex.if he means what he say call his bluff tell him not to contact her make him change his number etc if he cant or wont do that then show him the door u deserve better than that... (read in full...)

Am I right in thinking that a threesome would ruin us?

Q.   is a 3 sum out of the question??? my boyfriend has recently admitted he wants to see me with another girl, at 1st i was unsure but sed i would consider it. now he says he wants a 3 sum where he can join in. this has made me insecure as i fe...

A.   16 August 2006: a threesome would change everything in your relationship tell him no tell him how u feel.if he loves u he will understand if not show him the door... (read in full...)

Should I meet the MSN guy I've been chatting to?

Q.   Hi, I have been talking to this guy for a few months now on msn and now he wants to meet. I have seen a picture of him and him of me on msn but I'm not sure. My friend says if I want to meet him she would go with me. What should I do??...

A.   13 August 2006: it isn't safe u dont really no this guy. but if you must meet him.meet him where there is plenty of people around!!! but strongly think about it!!!it's dangerous... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I'm only fourteen!

Q.   I am only 14 and my boyfriend has asked me to marry him! I realy love him but how many people stay with someone that they started dating when they were 10? What should I say?...

A.   13 August 2006: tell him that when the time is right u will.your very young and you haven't tasted the whole world yet.just enjoy urself dont worry bout marriage yet you have got plenty of ime for that k... (read in full...)

Having feelings for my neighbor and we are both married!!!

Q.   I'm married and I do love my husband,but there's a man that lives next door to me that I have been attracted to for a few years and just in the past months I have felt as though I would like for there to be more, I get vibes from him that he's ...

A.   10 August 2006: if your unhappy with your marriage try and fix it rather then cheating it doesn't solve nothing at all the problem is wiv in.lust is a very powerful tool!don't cave in u could lose everything 4 a affair is it really worth it??... (read in full...)

Am I right for being upset he looks at porn?

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend over three years hes cheated on me before and let me down many times promising to change and not sticking to it, hes realy nice to me nicer than any other guy i know and our relationship has been great for a while. h...

A.   10 August 2006: av u asked him y??av u watched it with him??maybe he has fantasy.this guy loves u and u love him try watchin it wiv him... (read in full...)

Why are my parents treating me like this???

Q.   What to do about parents. They refuse to see who I am and constantly tell what I can and can't do. They won't listen to what I have to say, they think that they know everything and that they are always right. They treat me like an idiot especially ...

A.   10 August 2006: has ur parents ad a bad past?it could explain a lot.u need to sit them down and tell them that u need to get some indepence if oly its a saturday job.u have to make them realise that u need a life of your own and start standing up for yourself!ur ... (read in full...)

How do you cure premature ejaculation?

Q.   i have not been in a relationship for over three years and have been celibate ever since apart from masturbation. i have had many opportunities but am to afraid as i have not got the courage as i suffer from premature ejaculation. all journals i ...

A.   10 August 2006: u worry to much about it!!!i've suffered from i had a loving partner who was really supportive and helped me through it.try and avoid one nigt stands it creates a lot of pressure on performing.do u last longer the second time round?if so just have ... (read in full...)

I want to ask her out...Even though my friends say she's out of my league.

Q.   There is a girl i know that I have found attractive for a long time even while i fancied another girl. Anyway even though we haven't spoken that often she has approached me several times when i looked down and helped me cheer up. Soon enough i ...

A.   10 August 2006: just be her friend get to know her better then see how things progress... (read in full...)

Shes 18 im 17, shes had more partners and it gets to me, how can I be less concerned over it ?

Q.   My girlfriend is 18, I'm 17. I like her a great deal and would do anything to stay with her, but something that I keep being reminded of is the fact that I know I'm at least her sixth sexual partner. I'm not worried about diseases or anything, but ...

A.   10 August 2006: did u ask how many guys she had slept with??y does it get to u?shes with you!!!enjoy it while it lasts!ur both young u both got a lot to learn.r u worried that ur not satifising her?dont if she likes u she'll tell u what she like in the bedroom and ... (read in full...)

We have only been together 7 weeks but hes a "bad boy" should I give him more time or move on ?

Q.   I've been dating my bf now fr 7 weeks which i know isn't very long, but things have moved soo fast between us that after 3 days he told me he loved me! i love him so much but he never tells me anything i always have to find out the simplest of ...

A.   10 August 2006: to say he loves u after 3 days is a bit of a joke.when did he say it?falling in love with someone in 3 days means that i dont think that he means it.seven weeks is a long time.u may not be his only lover.what sort of guy is he?if u think he's the ... (read in full...)

I don't wanna scare him off so should I tell him that I want to be more than just his bit on the side?

Q.   I was seeing this guy,and asked him out right one day if he had a girlfriend and he dumped me. I later found out he didn't. We still see each other now and then and always end up having sex.When we're together its great, but when i'm away from him i ...

A.   10 August 2006: i sorry to say kay but this guy only sees you as a bit on a side.wen you asked him if he ad a girl friend he dumped u that tells it all this guy might really like you but what is this guy really like??is a loving sweet guy or dont he ring u or see u ... (read in full...)

I know he's gun shy about relationships right now...should I worry that he hasn't contacted me in 2 weeks?

Q.   I am a shy 1 and find romance and dating really scary. I like this guy but i think he doesn't like me that way. A few weeks ago it was my birthday he rang up and wished me a happy birthday, we were talking mentioned i was going into London with my ...

A.   10 August 2006: you cant be shy. this guy could be the one that you been dreaming about all your life.don't let him slip away.if he's had a bad time in the past he might be relucant to get hurt again it might seem that all his relationships is doomed.u need to find ... (read in full...)

I've got this crush on a guy I'm never going to see again... what should I do ?

Q.   I have a crush on this really cute guy and we started to get closer and closer, but he moved away and now I'll never see him again. The worst part is that he was with someone else. He told me that before he left and now i'm mad plz help... What s...

A.   10 August 2006: hey.i think its better off you move on.this guy cant really be trusted if he only told b4 he left that he was in a relationship.the bases to a relationship is trust if he said when you both was gettin closer than maybe persue.was he leading u on as ... (read in full...)

The girl my BF cheated with works with us both!

Q.   My boyfriend and I work together. Two years ago he cheated on me with a girl at work who the left. We got back together and now she is back here working with us. I can't help but feel insecure. How do I get over it and move on? He said he does not ...

A.   10 August 2006:  this girl is jealous of what u and your boyfriend ad and wanted to come between you. she succeed the first time but you both love it other in the two years you been together since he cheated you've got stronger as a couple.listen to your bf. i no i... (read in full...)

The girl my BF cheated with works with us both!

Q.   My boyfriend and I work together. Two years ago he cheated on me with a girl at work who the left. We got back together and now she is back here working with us. I can't help but feel insecure. How do I get over it and move on? He said he does not ...

A.   10 August 2006: My boyfriend and I work together. Two years ago he cheated on me with a girl at work who the left. We got back together and now she is back here working with us. I can't help but feel insecure. How do I get over it and move on? He said he does not ... (read in full...)

I am having an affair and I don't know why he is doing it

Q.   i started this affair with this guy 8 years younger than me,he lives with his partner and 2 kids i asked him why he was doing it but he wont give me a answer,there was some guilt on his part so i said lets end it because of this but he still wants ...

A.   10 August 2006: i bet its not the first affair this guy has had.y are you still sleepin wiv this guy??how would you feel in his partners shoes???he's doing it because after 3 years in a relationship people are scared of what could happen such as they might a ... (read in full...)

Is our love strong enough???

Q.   Hi, i have sent in this problem at its earlier levels before, but now it has progresses i have left the country that my boyfriend lives in, we both have different religions. and it is very difficult for us both. we stay in contact by messenger ...

A.   10 August 2006: what is likely to happen if you became public?if the family support is there then i cant see no reason y u cant be together just ask your family what if questions and see how they react and take it from there k love will always win if you both ... (read in full...)

So was it good for you? err no!!

Q.   I have ben going out with my boyfriend 2years and im 17 we have had sex and he tells me that it s=is really good for him but it does nothing for me!!??? is there sumthink wrong with me????...

A.   10 August 2006: your young take time to explore each other to find whats good for the both of you.how do you feel during sex?of course there is nothing wrong with you!!!... (read in full...)

Engagement concerns related to moving

Q.   I want to get engaged to my wonderful partner of 8Yrs. The problem is I want us as a couple to move across the country. He says he is willing to move, but he says it just seems so far away from his family and friends. His parents are very backward...

A.   10 August 2006: hi.very tough problem.he loves you cause he is willing to move away.but u must understand that this is his family it must be really hard for him.he loves them in a sense he is the only one around as everyone has left.if anything did happen to his ... (read in full...)

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