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writes:Hi, i have sent in this problem at its earlier levels before, but now it has progresses i have left the country that my boyfriend lives in, we both have different religions. and it is very difficult for us both. we stay in contact by messenger emails messages and phone in every way possible. But what next? i will b lucky if i get to go there once a year and when i go my family will b with me restricting me from spending the whole holiday with him because they dont know. i cant tell them because of the religous differences. how can i keep this relationship strong and is there a way around this all? please our love is so strong it should b written about but problems keep hitting us in the face harder than rocks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): What are your religions? Not that has a lot of significance, if you both believe in God, do you? I think that maybe you could say God is trying to tell you something, do you really think it is possible to continue a relationship without seeing the person frequently to establish regular contact face to face? I know I couldn't no matter how in love I was with the person. You say your love is strong, but based on the lack of good contact on a regular basis and not being able to see him, what are you basing your feelings on? You are basing your feelings on the written word - e-mail, and speech - phone calls, but you can't guage poperly what the other person is thinking and feeling this way. If there was a way you could be with him on a regualr basis..great, but that doesn't seem likely. And if your parents found out, well they might not as you say like it, they could be right, just remember don't put your life on hold for someone who may never be accesible to you. And also remember mostly parents are right and want the best for you, just like God, He wants the best for you so maybe by not allowing you to have a proper realtionship with this guy, he is allowing you to try and break free to be with someone so much more suited and better for you in the long term. Ok, you can't see this now, but you will, I sincerley hope you can get through this, keep strong. x
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reader, unclerich +, writes (10 August 2006):
what is likely to happen if you became public?if the family support is there then i cant see no reason y u cant be together just ask your family what if questions and see how they react and take it from there k love will always win if you both believe it!!!
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