My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly
Q. Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...
A. 12 September 2011: The first thing I noticed was that everything good you say about him is referred to in past tense. You need to ignore your families comments and be strong.
If you keep letting their comments come between you, you will find that this will keep repe... (read in full...)
Can this LD relationship work?
Q. I have fallen for a girl in another city, about 100 miles away, we both drive so I guess its not to much of a issue, the real issues are I work 60 hours a week, she has a ex bf who is always in the picture, she has a 2 yr old. she is 4 years ...
A. 12 September 2011: Can you both not agree to meet in the middle and move somewhere neutral? Or if she moves to you in the better area, you can ask family and friends for help with childcare.
You say she doesn't want to be that far from her family and I understa... (read in full...)
Can this LD relationship work?
Q. I have fallen for a girl in another city, about 100 miles away, we both drive so I guess its not to much of a issue, the real issues are I work 60 hours a week, she has a ex bf who is always in the picture, she has a 2 yr old. she is 4 years ...
A. 12 September 2011: I met a girl on Facebook 18 months ago and we are going very strong and plan to marry shortly. I am from Liverpool, England and she is from Barcelona, Spain. We maintained a long distance relationship for a while, chatting on webcam via msn or s... (read in full...)
I'm Too skinny. How can I safety build up my body without being muscles plus and not using scams? Safe only.
Q. hi guys i'm 18 and very slim. i have very thin arms thin enough you can wrap your whole hand around them, you can see my ribs sort of when i take my shirt off. I hate it and I hate taking my shirt off. i don't want to be really muscley or reall...
A. 11 September 2011: You need to hit the gym and eat right.
Plenty of potatoes, vegetables and chicken. Pasta is also a good source of the nutrients you need.
Register with a gym and speak to one if the advisers there who can set you a routine. You will need a general ... (read in full...)
I want to give my virginity to my ex, help!
Q. My ex-boyfriend/ sort of bestfriend, cheated on me when I was in hospital. He then broke up with the other girl after 2 days. For roughly 5 weeks me and him were basically unofficially going out. But at prom he tells me he is with her again, and now ...
A. 11 September 2011: To be honest, you need to keep this guy as far away from you as possible. The guy has no respect for you whatsoever, or for any other girl for that matter. You are only a young girl and have not discovered what love even is yet. I think back now... (read in full...)
My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly
Q. Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...
A. 11 September 2011: You both need to sit down and talk things through openly and honestly.
In fairness to you Avril, you do seem to care about this guy a lot. Maybe you can just offer him friendship and support. Then hopefully things will improve all around in the futu... (read in full...)
I want, need, to be more confident. But how?
Q. Hi, I would like to be more confident around my girlfriend. I always feel so needy around her and i always seem to initiate things from emotional comfort and for sex. Could anyone give me tips on how to be more confident? Thank you...
A. 10 September 2011: The other 2 have already touched on what I was going to say. You need to spend time doing your own thing and something you enjoy. Focus your attention to something other than this girl and just enjoy being you and rediscover yourself. Not many ... (read in full...)
My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly
Q. Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...
A. 10 September 2011: Well you need to be firm with him and tell him you want to break up. You also need to put your family straight and tell them to stop criticising.
It seems that he has a lot on his plate as it is and he needs time to concentrate on his own prob... (read in full...)
My child found a porn video!
Q. Please somebody help me I need urgent expert advice! I just walked in on my 6 year old son watching a porn dvd. The dvd was one my boyfriend gave me for a laugh lastweek, I tossed it in the back of a draw without looking. I left my son watching ...
A. 29 August 2011: Ouch. I think this is something that is best trying to forget. He will soon forget what he saw, so don't even mention it to him. If he mentions it to you, just say you will explain when he is older. This will soon be forgtten... (read in full...)
My boss and I text each other, now his wife is furious at me. Did I do something wrong?
Q. This is a strange one I'm having mixed opinions about. Basically my boss is 20 years older than me, and married... and male also! However we text back and forth just silly jokes, general day to day stuff, and sometimes just to see how each other are ...
A. 28 August 2011: I think the texts were just honest fun, but put yourself in her shoes for a moment. How would you feel if your husband was texting a much younger woman?
I think she is probably worried that she may lose him and feels threatened by you. I text my f... (read in full...)
My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?
Q. Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were pla...
A. 28 August 2011: You need to cease ties with her and walk away with your head held high while you still can. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
Only she knows why she said those things, but it's probably not even true. It seems like she just wants to hurt... (read in full...)
Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?
Q. She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...
A. 28 August 2011: Could you be in a relationship with a porn star? I know I couldn't.
Money is a huge attraction for porn, but I think she would be making a huge mistake and one she will struggle to live with. She seems to already have emotional issues and self loat... (read in full...)
I want to be happy being single. Any advice?
Q. DC, how does one lead a single life? I am 30 years old and I can say I have failed to get a partner. Now, I know, I will remain single. Please give me tips of how to live a single fulfilling life. Please, don't tell me where to find the guys coz I ...
A. 27 August 2011: Enjoy being you. Do the things you love to do and spend time with the people you want.
If you are not happy within yourself, you will never be happy in a relationship. I find that it's only when you are happy being single, then it means you are ... (read in full...)
Does this dream mean I could be pregnant?
Q. I dreamt i was with my high school friend that i haven't seen in 7 years. In the dream she told me "wow you're pregnant congrats!" when i woke up i was excited, but now i'm feeling down. Do dreams have any meaning? Am i pregnant? ...
A. 27 August 2011: Unfortunately, the only thing that means you are pregnant is a positive test or an ultrasound.
Dreams can express many things. Fears, desires, etc, but very rarely do they tell you the future or that you are pregnant.
See your GP or take a test i... (read in full...)
Dominating moves? Or is this his version of passion? Should I ask him to vary his moves?
Q. Well, I've been having some boyfriend troubles. Whenever we kiss, he always tries to be on top. He'll stand on his tiptoes, and try to press down. When we're sitting, it seems like he trying to move onto my lap, or he tries to knock me down so it ...
A. 27 August 2011: It is not generally a normal thing to do.
However, if he makes you feel uncomfortable, then he should know and respect how you feel.
It seems he is very inexperienced, or has watched too much tv.
Talk to him and find out what you both like and dis... (read in full...)
Did he break thorough....will I be ok?
Q. I just turned 20(never done it)and im about close to getting my period but i saw my boyfriend and well he fingered me but when he stopped i saw blood..at first i thought i got my period but i havent, how should i say this, i havent really continued ...
A. 27 August 2011: It is very normal to bleed after a first penetration, but it could also have been fingernails causing it.
If you do have concerns, then you should visit your GP... (read in full...)
Would starting smoking affect the fact I'm taking birth control?
Q. Dear cupid...im 17 yrs old and i've been on birth control for about 6 to 7 months. I never smoked anything before but i've been tempted to lately since im always surrounded by people who do that. So i was wondering if i do smoke a cigarrette, how ...
A. 27 August 2011: As the others have said, don't start smoking.
I was 11 when I started and continued until I was 21, causing many health problems. I saw sense and quit, which was the best choice I ever made.
At the moment, you are contemplating smoking, so leave... (read in full...)
I'm broke and in debt, and have been offered money for sex
Q. I've been talking to a friend of a friend. He is 19 (I am 18) and we've never physically met. Recently he offered me £1000 to give him anal sex for two months. I REALLY need the money. I am broke and have a lot of debt to pay off. I've tried g...
A. 27 August 2011: It depends if you are willing to become a prostitute or not.
I would strongly advise against it, as it will be something you have to live with for the rest of your life.
No amount of money can replace lost self respect.... (read in full...)
Spring V Autumn. Does she like me? she's 19.
Q. There is this girl, she's 19 i'm 57. she always calls me sweetie when she sees me. The other day at the gas station she called out at me to get my attention. Does she like me or am i just thinking this?...
A. 26 August 2011: I call people babe, love, hun, darling, but does it have anything flirtatious? Of course not. She is just being nice to you, so next time, just smile and return the gesture. Nothing more to it than that. Take care... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with teacher...I want to know if he loves me back
Q. I'm 15 and this teacher is almost 40.But i think I love him.I'm going to be a Sophomore this fall,and I met him the fall of my freshman year,he was my science teacher for 2 sememsters.I have alot of emotional baggage in my life including my mother ...
A. 26 August 2011: No he does not love you. He is a caring teacher who is doing his job. He asks questions about your personal life so he can possibly find links to any behaviour and to get a better understanding of you, so he can help. You need to put the idea of ... (read in full...)
How do I act around him? I do not want to deal with him. would be rude to ignore him?
Q. Ok so last year there was this guy who really liked me. I would catch him staring when I talked to other guys and about 15 people (some of whom I didn't even know. They knew my name though) told me he liked me. I was asked various questions like "do ...
A. 26 August 2011: I agree with the others, but I think he may well have moved on to another girl now. Things change rapidly at school, so do feelings. Just be yourself and act normal. Don't let it worry you or distract you from your schooling... (read in full...)
We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?
Q. I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel...
A. 25 August 2011: I get the feeling he is trying to make you jealous. It seems he is playing with your head to try to find out how you really feel about him. I would tell him you will give him the space to work things out with the other woman and say to get in touch ... (read in full...)
How much information could he have gotten about me?
Q. Hey, sorry this question is'nt really a relotionship question but i'm really worrying. i added this random guy on msn and we were talking for a while. Then all of a sudden when i was trying to help him out with his comp...
A. 25 August 2011: I think he is bluffing really. If you are really worried, you should speak to your parents, and possibly even the police. He has made a serious threat, even if he is not capable of following up with the threat.
Be very wary of adding random guys... (read in full...)
Could this mean anything other than the fact that my GF and this other guy slept together?? What else could "I got up after you left" mean?
Q. A question, tho I think I know the answer. Girl I have been seeing for a few months told me on Monday night she was going to visit an old friend (a guy). I was very suspicious. It was eating at me. We have not been dating so long and I dont know the...
A. 25 August 2011: As for reading her text, I'd never advise doing that. However, I think you were proved right on this occasion. Something seems to be making you not trusting her in the first place.
I think you should tell her outright that you had doubts and read... (read in full...)
I had a great one stand and I want it again. How do I ask him?
Q. Hi, should I contact this guy or not? We hooked up a few weeks ago(a one-night, no-strings-attached thing), and it was the best sexual experience of my life, and I dont want it to be the only time it happens, but how do i go about suggesting we do ...
A. 25 August 2011: Best sexual experience of your life? You are a young girl with your life ahead of you. You should concentrate on respecting yourself more and not giving yourself away so casually. It seems that this guy would happily have sex with anyone anywhere. ... (read in full...)
I only see this girl on facebook and I can't get her to reply
Q. so theres this girl...and i really like her...i havent seen her all summer...last time i saw her was when i graduated...really sucks how i havent seen her n i barely talk to her...im always trying to talk to her through faacebook or text but she ...
A. 24 August 2011: I would stop messaging her. It seems like this is becoming an obsession. She could be afraid and want you to stop messaging her... (read in full...)
He acts like he's interested in me but he hasn't finished with his girlfriend
Q. The other night i went a party and we were ment to be sleeping be there also, I knew people that were going but not that much and as soon as i got there a boy started flirting with me, he's lovely and gorgeous but the only thing is he has a ...
A. 24 August 2011: To be honest, I don't think he has any intention of ending things with his gf. I get the feeling the guy is a player and you could be one of many. Steer clear of him and let a guy deserving of your heart find you. You deserve more than him. ... (read in full...)
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