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I don't want to tell my boyfriend that my baby is not his. Help!

Q.   Im 15 and im 10weeks pregnant, i do have a boyfriend who i have been with for about a year but in febuary we had a break and i got a bit drunk and slept with another boy. And i know for a fact the baby is his. i got back with my boyfriend about a ...

A.   3 May 2009: well if you slept around you need to tell him, and since your pregant you need to get a std/sti test since you werent using a condom. you had sex with should shouldnt make a man who it isnt his child care for it thinking it is his baby if he chooses ... (read in full...)

Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends?

Q.   Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends? Including telling his friends some sexual things that they do together, (Not actually about having sex but fingering, making out, touching, etc.)? Do all guys do that? Just ...

A.   29 April 2009: i always talk about my girl to my friends, but not really that much with the sexual things, yes if a friend who hasnt had sex asks me a few questions about how to do something ill use what i use to explain it to him. but yes, it is a very guy thing ... (read in full...)

Need to know what to do next!!!!

Q.   Hiya, I need help. I need to know what to do to her next. We're madly in love! I want her sooooooooo bad, but don't know just how to make my next move. Like today held her in my arms and kissed her and had my hands all over her back. It made...

A.   28 April 2009: your 13, you shouldnt be wanting to have sex all the time, you should still be content with the kissing and holding hands stage, im sure she is. you need to stop thinking with the little head in your pants and think wiith the bigger head on your ... (read in full...)

What IF??????

Q.   Hello, Here are the facts - Man's natural lube (aka precum) may contain traces of sperm if he ejaculated previously. Me and my boyfriend get VERY intimate without having actual intercourse. We let our bits touch - his penis sliding on top o...

A.   22 April 2009: how about, just a thought, if you want to touch bits, why dont you have him wear a condom if you will keep freaking out that your pregant each time you are doing something like that? that or why dont you get on the pill or something? so you dont ... (read in full...)

How can I lessen my period pains each month?

Q.   Does anyone know a good remedy for period pains as I get it really bad. I'm no good with pills and that's all the doctor precribed but she didn't listen to the fact that I CANNOT swallow pills. It's just I'm on really heavy and for ages as well and...

A.   16 April 2009: I said the shot because it stops you from getting periods at all most of the time so the pain wont be a problem if you dont get them at all... (read in full...)

How can I lessen my period pains each month?

Q.   Does anyone know a good remedy for period pains as I get it really bad. I'm no good with pills and that's all the doctor precribed but she didn't listen to the fact that I CANNOT swallow pills. It's just I'm on really heavy and for ages as well and...

A.   16 April 2009: if you cant shallow a pill as small as a birth control pill its going to suck when you have to take something from the doctors. the side effects of the pill arent that bad for someone as young as you are. manily older people get the strokes, or ... (read in full...)

What would you describe as 'good' sex for a boy?

Q.   What would you describe as 'good' sex for a boy? My boyfriend responds to me a lot on that side of things. But not enough. Obviously to a large extent the answer needs to come from him himself. But I was wondering if, in general, there was anything...

A.   15 April 2009: yeah i would completly agree with denny. i love it when a girl is vocal and really enjoys the sex. it makes me feel great knowing that I am doing that to that girl. makes me feel like i actually know what i am doing but there are some days where X ... (read in full...)

Will he leave me if I don't want to be on top?

Q.   I am 27 i have been sexually active since 16 but i am still scared to get on top and ride my partner. do you have any advice to break me out of my shyness. also,do you think my man will leave me because of this issue?...

A.   15 April 2009: dont listen to the anon poster without a sex, its being a retard. why would someone leave you just because you dont know/like riding your partner? i saw somewhere (not sure how accurate this number is though) that 30% of guys can not have an ... (read in full...)

Sex tips for 2 females wanting to get randy!

Q.   I'm a female who is going to be "going down" on another girl soon, but I'm really worried I won't do it right, does anyone have any tips (from males and females is cool)....

A.   10 April 2009: well you need to stay on the clit and not in the vaginia as much. just move your tonuge around in a circle on the clit. sometimes moving back and forth over it. if you want a very detailed way on doing it , look up a member on this site called ... (read in full...)

Do men really know when they're are about to ejaculate?

Q.   do men really know when thier sperm comes out while having sex. even with/withot a condom?...

A.   9 April 2009: yeah i always feel it. why would a condom change that at all? its just a thin piece of latex over the penis. the only time i didnt noticed i was done was when my girl woke me up in the middle of the night after i worked a 12hr shift for sex. i was ... (read in full...)

Do you think I sould have sex ?

Q.   I am Only 13 and my boyfriend wants me to have sex i think i am ready for sex i have kissed some one an messed around on the bed but i am still a vigen i nee answers please x...

A.   9 April 2009: dont have sex. if he pressures you into have sex, get rid of him, its not worth it to give it away so early (you WILL end up hating yourself for giving it to someone who you will break up with at some point). you may think you are ready to have sex ... (read in full...)

How can I ask her in a special way?

Q.   i have these unbearable feelings for my close friend. How can i ask her in a special way so it really means something? I want to make it as special as possible, up for anything no matter how much planning, effort or money required! ...

A.   8 April 2009: take her to her favortie activity, or do something thats all about her (i dont know her so i cant tell you what) if she likes to go swimming take her swimming if she likes fishing go fishing if she likes kicking midgets (i dont know) go kick some. ... (read in full...)

Will he expect more?

Q.   This guy and I have been seeing each other for a little over a month. We are both in college, I am 19 and he is 23 and neither of us is a virgin. We havent done anything sexual yet (even thoough he is dying to lol) and Im ready for the next level. I ...

A.   6 April 2009: personally, i hate handjobs. from my experience girls who think they know what they are doing (my current girl has done a few and thought she was pretty good at it) have really no idea on how to make it feel really good and it takess a while for me ... (read in full...)

When should we start being romantic at all?

Q.   I'm a 15 year old female and a sophomore in high school. I've always been very careful with how I interact with males, and have never dated any guy, although I've been asked out once. According to my friends, guys may just think I might say no to t...

A.   4 April 2009: theres no rush really you may be friends for year and it slowly works into a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. if you want to date him, why dont you start something with it? Shy guys wont make the move (took me a long time to do something cause im shy) so ... (read in full...)

I am worried that when I actually meet up with my chat friend, he wont like me.

Q.   I met this guy on msn and hes done some bad things to me but ive done some bad things to him as well. i really really really like him [kinda sorta love] he loves me too, but we have never met. i cant imagine life without him to be very honest, but i ...

A.   4 April 2009: yeah i agree, it is very bad to meet some random person online. you never know who they really are. Im a 21 year old female from China. I have one child and was married for three years untell i was widowed when my husband was shot in a car jacking ... (read in full...)

What is the normal sex range in a month?

Q.   Ok so me and my husband have been married foer 4 yrs. He acts like he loves me he takes care of and our 3yrd.old son. He always tell me he loves me and our son but he don't show it he always too Bussy to spend time with us. he either to sleepy r to...

A.   4 April 2009: honestly i only looked at about a third of your problem because of how you typed it like that, but the problem is your husband wont have sex with you anymore right? it could possibly be because he doesn't want you to die giving birth again, he coul... (read in full...)

I need help!!! I'm on birth control but don't use condoms... is this bad!

Q.   Ok.. so my boyfreind and I have been together 7 months and we are sexually active.. I'm on birth control and we don't use condoms.... he cums in me every time. We are protected with the birth control but are we still at risk??? I need help!...

A.   2 April 2009: yeah the pill is only 98% effitive if used correctly so its a small chance. little to late for the risk of stds though...next guy, make him wear them to avoid the risk of you (or him) getting stds... (read in full...)

Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl?

Q.   Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl? Sometimes my bf treats me really bad, especially when he has been drinking. So last time we went out he was flirting with a girl at the bar and I confronted him and he turned around and snapped at me. ...

A.   2 April 2009: (in the us) it is still abuse and men do report there wives for abusing them (it happens) but not as much as women do when a guy hits them. the women do get treated the same as an abusive man would be treated with booking and detaining. not sure if ... (read in full...)

B/f bored with me in bed?

Q.   Lately I've had this feeling that my boyfriend is bored with me in bed, he only likes to get intimate once a week and it's always on a saturday night, always at the same time and I want it more, even twice a week would be a good start. I'm open to ...

A.   1 April 2009: most important rule a couple should know : communication is the most important thing you could possible do. why dont you ask him why its only one a week? tell him how you want it more than that. tell him you are worried that he is getting bored with ... (read in full...)

We met in an online game - he's 8 years older but I think we are in love!

Q.   Ok so my life is messed up... completely. last year in my spare time i played this on-line game, never spoke to anyone it was really just something to pass the time. One day some random person came up to me and asked if i would help him fight...

A.   29 March 2009: i think its cool. i used to play this game called Tibia and i met a feww friend s near me that i still hang out with even though i dont play anymore. i completly understand how you can fall in love on a game. the age gap doesnt make a big difference ... (read in full...)

Can he know about my past sex relationship?

Q.   i had sex with my four or five time but i am getting married to another man.so can he know about my past sex relationship? ...

A.   29 March 2009: no unless you tell him. if he asks why you didnt bleed just say you broke it doing sports, horseback riding, anything like that. only way he would know is if he knows one or more of the guys or you tell him. but do you really want to already start ... (read in full...)

I was told that I have camel toe!

Q.   One day I was at shool I notice people looking between my legs and I ask my friend what was going on with people looking between my legs and she said I have a camel toe I bein tring to hide it but I dont know how to please help....

A.   26 March 2009: you can try wearing your undies lower or wear looser fitting pants, tighter underies like a thong instead of regular undies. if you dont want thongs get undies a little smaller than normal so they wont bunch up..... (read in full...)

1 of 2 guys could be the daddy

Q.   Ok im 15 years old im goin to be 16 in november. My boyfriend is 24 whom will be 25 in october. Come to find out im pregnant. The thing is, is that im not so sure who the father is...It can be one out of two people.... my boyfriend that i have been ...

A.   26 March 2009: your boyfriend could go to jail for having sex with you... dont know where you live but im pretty sure that a guy that old having sex with a 15 year old is pretty bad. anyways back to the advice. do you use proection with your boyfriend? how long ... (read in full...)

Can I make it not so sensitive?

Q.   i am 22 years old and the tip of my penis is really sensitive. and around the bottom of the tip. like the bottom ring part of a mushroom. :). but i was just wanting to know if there is anyway to make it not so sensitive. ...

A.   26 March 2009: nah dont try the creams, some work while some work so well that they numb the penis so you have no feeling. how bad is the feeling? like does it hurt to have sex or masturbate? mine is just naturally less senstive than others dont get much feeling ... (read in full...)

What would a guy do that would make a girl think he's sweet?

Q.   hi well I'm just curious but girls what does and guy have to do for you to consider him sweet or nice or whatever is the best adjective out there. thanks bye....

A.   26 March 2009: females are (for the most part) very into the idea that they are fat, ugly, whatever. you just need to say that she is pretty, wonderful, whatever you think is right. my girl is, as i call her, "My Pretty Lady". i call her it all the time. there are ... (read in full...)

He loves and cares about me but just wants to be friends

Q.   I recently entered into a relationship 3 months ago with a really great guy, and he told me that he felt a lot towards me, the time we spent together was just heaven and I was convinced that he was in love with me so I allowed my guard down. He bro...

A.   26 March 2009: he broke up with you two weeks ago and you said you were in the realisnship three months ago, that means you were dating like 2.5 months? not really that long of a time for a guy (i know since i ammmm one) to fall in love with a girl and seriously ... (read in full...)

He always likes the lights off when we make love...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have known each other since second grade but every time we have sex he turns out the lights, he says it's for a dramatic effect! What should I do?...

A.   21 March 2009: i will agree with satindesire, if you want them on ask him to leave them on. not everyone likes this on though, my girlfriend doesnt like them on either. if he has a self esteem issue about himself with the lights on, why not try doing it in the ... (read in full...)

I'm not getting pleasure from masturbating any more. Help!

Q.   Hi, I've had no problem masturbating in the past but lately I've noticed I'm not getting intense orgasms. This has been happening about 6 months now and I get nowhere. I'm basically not getting any pleasure from it whatsoever. I have went on one ...

A.   19 March 2009: try changing how you do it. do you finger or play with your clit? try changing it around. use a toy (almost anything penis shaped will work for a girl) but please dont use something to wide of big, it can cause serious problems if you hurt yourself, ... (read in full...)

Last night I cheated on my boyfriend...

Q.   Last night I cheated on my boyfriend and right after, I told my boyfriend what happened and now were having a talk today, and I don't even know what to say other than I'm sorry. We've been dating for two years and I don't want to stay away from him...

A.   18 March 2009: The talk today (if he has an respect for himself) will probably end you two. If he doesn't end it you should, because you shouldn't play around like that. (I have a thing against girls cheating so Im probably going to be really harsh). He doesn't ... (read in full...)

How I can overcome this problem and avoid masturbation?

Q.   Hi I have a habit of masturbation. At times I do it some 3 to 4 times in a week. I cannot control it. In daily life when I see sexy girls or scene full of sexual content ... then when I am alone ... these scenes go through my mind then slow and st...

A.   17 March 2009: why would that be a problem? i just dont get it. 3-4 times a week is nothing. before i met my girlfriend and had sex pretty much daily, i used to take care of myself daily..sometimes more than once daily depending on how bored i was, what i was ... (read in full...)

Any way to make my penis grow faster?

Q.   Okay i know you guys get frustrated hearing this type of question but...it's a world wide problem and issue that most guys face in there lives..." ihave a small penis" and it really sucks...i know your going to say im still going through puberty ...

A.   17 March 2009: You're 14 (middle of your age range so your 14) you shouldn't even be worrying about the size of your penis. You shouldn't be having sex right now anyways and if you do the girls aren't delevoped yet so they are still "weird" down there also so a ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?

Q.   I am 13. Me and my girlfriend have kissed already. But she doesn't seem to want to makeout with me. I know not to rush her. And I'm not. But we have a strong realationship and we love each other. Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?...

A.   16 March 2009: when it happens it will happen. you are 13 your body is 1%normal and 99% hormones (not really but you get the idea). you will have many years to make out with pretty girls. listen to the big head not the little one that hides away all day ... (read in full...)

Why do guys turn into womanizers?

Q.   I know this guy and we made out a couple of times. He wanted to have sex but I said no. I like him but it turns out he is a big manwhore who sleeps around. I heard that he was in a 3 year relationship not too long ago. I dont know the exact details ...

A.   16 March 2009: i have to agree with Denny here. you are assuming every man is a "manwhore" which is not true. im not one im almost 19 and only had sex with one girl (my current girl) and she plans on getting married and im ok with that. damn if anything im a ... (read in full...)

He's already got 4 kids, but I want a child of my own

Q.   So I've been in a relationship with a 35 year old man for over a year. He has 4 kids from a previous relationship, but I love him with all my heart. Being that I'm only 19 years old. I want a family of my own, but I've been having a strange feeling ...

A.   16 March 2009: ok saw your followup. your seeing a guy and your a guy and you want your own baby? i dont know how you learned about sexual intercourse in schools, but you need an egg and a sperm together. not sperm and more sperm. but offically or unoffically ... (read in full...)

He loved anal stimulation but won't do it again for fear it's 'gay'. What should I say to calm his fears?

Q.   My boyfriend and I enjoy taking turns masturbating ourselves while the other stimulates elsewhere. We were doing that a couple of nights ago, he was masturbating while I was massaging his testicles. I started lowering my fingers slightly to his ...

A.   16 March 2009: he probley talked with someone about it (probley a guy). we guys are very immature as a rule (not all of us) but if hes talking to his buddys about his sexual encounters and said it turned him on really well, they probley went "haha bob likes it in ... (read in full...)

Being led on hurts so much!

Q.   I'm 19 and was with a girl for two years. I was getting kind of bored and wasn't sure what I wanted. I met this other girl and started getting feelings so I left my girlfriend because I didn't want to cheat. This girl had a bf for 4 years and he ...

A.   16 March 2009: she broke your heart just like you broke your girlfriends heart to be with this bitch? ever hear of karma? or whatever you believe in. what goes around comes around? now you have nothing and if i was your girlfriend i wouldnt take you back since you ... (read in full...)

He wants me to give him oral sex, but I've never done it before and I'm a bit nervous. Help!

Q.   Hi, i have a bit of an embarresing question. im seeing this guy and we have slept together quite a few times and he wants me to give him a blow job. iv told him im not sure i want to do that and he said its fine he wouldnt make me do anything i wa...

A.   16 March 2009: you should do as doublem says (one of my favorite posteres) his post go in to so much great details that you may think he was once a man hooker (just kidding dm) he teachs a lot... (read in full...)

He's already got 4 kids, but I want a child of my own

Q.   So I've been in a relationship with a 35 year old man for over a year. He has 4 kids from a previous relationship, but I love him with all my heart. Being that I'm only 19 years old. I want a family of my own, but I've been having a strange feeling ...

A.   15 March 2009: its normal for you to go crazy over a baby at your age. your programmed to reproduce as young as possible when your more fit and able to run away from the giant bear thats about to eat you. hopefully you dont live where a bear will eat you daily, ... (read in full...)

I used a dildo & now I'm bleeding heavily...

Q.   Ok this is going to sound stupid but i used a 6 inch dildo today and ever since i used that i have been bleeding alot and i mean alot, i have always been loosing like blood clots things as well and its really worrying me do any of you no whats wrong ...

A.   15 March 2009: like everyone said and if you havnt left yet, and if you havnt your pretty stuipd, get to a hospital now and dont use that large of a didldo (or one at all!) from what i have seen women can only normally handle 4-7 inchs in them. use a smaller one ... (read in full...)

I love to have sex all day and all night

Q.   Hi, I'm 19 years old and i have a problem. I love to have sex...all day and night. I tend to scare many girls off...... at first they tend to like it and then get annoyed by it and they just end up leaving me. what different can i do to keep the...

A.   15 March 2009: mr41 if your going to ask for help and then msg me later why even ask for the help if your going to argue with what i suggested? you want them to stay stop trying to have sex all the time like everyoone else said. or you could just ignore us all and ... (read in full...)

I love to have sex all day and all night

Q.   Hi, I'm 19 years old and i have a problem. I love to have sex...all day and night. I tend to scare many girls off...... at first they tend to like it and then get annoyed by it and they just end up leaving me. what different can i do to keep the...

A.   15 March 2009: so the problem is they leave when your always asking them to have sex with you all the time? and you want to know how to keep the from leaving? ummmm maybe you should not ask them for sex all the time. just my guess but who knows what the real ... (read in full...)

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