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She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!
Q. so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...
A. 29 August 2009: My oh my, sounds like a sad situation. It is messed up that she would do something like that behind your back and lie about or she probably lied when she said she was going to tell you. Many women are bad natured and the thought of doing something ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 4 July 2009: Female reader anonymous, I have been very observant, she has noticed. She has given me reason to inquire her of some issues thst have been pressing me. Well everyone, I have found something out. I asked her about the hotel again I believe yesterday ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 1 July 2009: Female reader, anonymous: Third party involved? I would hope not on that level but I know recently she has been talking to her ex. Whenever I'm away from her of course. How do I know? For one, she seeked him out on MY Myspace account. I checked my ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 30 June 2009: JasonX, you bear a good point. No, I'm not that kind of man I prefer to be more gentle in nature. I'm a Taurus, so sometimes I can be stubborn and aggressive like in nature; but I do like to please my cancer and shower her with gifts whenever I get ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 30 June 2009: SirenaBlusera, even though it hurts me to talk or think about, I'll tell you. It may be long, probably will. I'll explain it in some detail. The first time I remember, she was talking on the phone in the kitchen(cooking), inappropriate conversation ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: I have talked to her, SirenaBlusera; but when I did, she got way too offended as if I was acusing her of something. I wasn't; just wanted to let her know how I felt when she did that but she got too mad to care of my feelings. It sure seemed like ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: That's good info everyone. Thanks alot!... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Well it worked Sincerely Yours, lol! I feel better already:)) Thanks.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thats a thought to consider a female reader, anonymous. But I don't want to leave her so I'll try my best to make things better. Even with that, I don't deserve such disrespect; not when I don't do anything crazy like that.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Sincerely Yours, I never have tried that. You asking that makes me smile for some reason. She likes chocolate, so maybe that's a good idea. I think I have a more better plan now, thanks!... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Yes that situation is frustrating to me Sincerely Yours. And yes I agree with you as you are right. I wanted someone's else opinion about it as to see what other people think. It helps, so thank you. I still have yet to talk about it to her again ... (read in full...)
I worry about how I taste!
Q. Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean my...
A. 27 June 2009: You obviously taste good enough if your boyfriend wants to do it. As long as you really aren't a nasty person down there, if he wants to, why not let him?... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thanks Sincerely Yours, SirenaBlusera, and JasonX. I agree with you, I know she is not snooping around or anything, SirenaBlusera; but that kind of thing hurts. Also, that's a good pointer, JasonX; I'll try that.:)... (read in full...)
Having problems with my girl - I need your help!
Q. My girlfrien has been acting funny, we went from talking and texting like crazy to no it seems like she is just talking to me, to make me happy. She went on a 3 day trip for work and said "don't know if I will have time to call during the trip" What ...
A. 27 June 2009: This sounds like she just wants some space from you. Did you do anything recently to make her mad? Even so, if you are together then she should be able to have the time of the day to talk to you. What kind of job does she have? I know for a fact ... (read in full...)
For the guys: If you were showing all the signs of being into one girl, would you be likely to see others too?
Q. Out of curiousity for all you men out there- If you met a girl and are seeing her for a month, and you text her everyday and you ask all your friends (that are friends with her) about her and you mention her to your close family, are you likely t...
A. 27 June 2009: If he is really interested in you then his focus will be on just you. Keep him interested but it should be a 100/100 type of thing if you both really like or want each other.(Sex doesn't mean somebody actually likes or wants to be with you). Don't ... (read in full...)
Hopelessly in love...with a player.
Q. Ok first of all, i'm a 22 year old virgin. i've never had a boyfriend and i had my first kiss just last year at 21. i've always been pretty shy especially when it comes to talking to guys. this is gonna be long, but please help me. here goes...ab...
A. 27 June 2009: Just like Tupac Shakur said, "Sucka for love." From what I read you really don't need to be involved with that kind of person who will treat you like that. You can do alot better and find someone who is more into you and ONLY you. And of course he'd ... (read in full...)
My wife has left me after her mother's death!
Q. My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she ...
A. 26 June 2009: She needs to realize that everybody is going to die some day and that she claims she wanted to spend the rest of her life with you. I understand she is upset with her mother's death but you two were married or still is and you're suppose to be able ... (read in full...)
Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?
Q. Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incide...
A. 26 June 2009: She needs to get over him he not doing anything for her is he. I know I would be insulted my wife going to see another man. And then alone? If she can't handle you going with her then she's definitely up to something. Could be no good. But hey, just ... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: I can understand that, if it was before. This one was while she was with me, so what's up with that. Thank you a reader, anonymous... (read in full...)
Why did I feel horny instantly when I saw her?
Q. i have a girlfriend and we're both bisexual. we had sex for a couple of times already, and we just love doing it, every time she comes to our house, we go straight in my bedroom and start kissing and touching each other and have sex. now, we barely ...
A. 26 June 2009: You really like her, apparently.... (read in full...)
Her ex is around a little too much!
Q. This is my problem. Me and My Girlfriend have been together since early april, we 'paused' our relationship until may 2nd because she was having problems with an ex of hers. He keeps luring her into his car and kissing her, grabbing her ass...
A. 26 June 2009: That's not cool with her ex doing that to her and she is allowing it. Both she and he need to realize that is her ex; and she needs to start acting like it. If she can't give you respect that you suppose to get, then maybe you should reconsider your ... (read in full...)
Why does she go out late nights away from her husband?
Q. My wife seems to enjoy going out late at night alot. That's without me. I guess her so called friends are worth spending nights without me. The thing is, I really don't trust those people. On top of that, we're in a newer environment and she likes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Thank you, Ginalolabridga. I only spoke to her about it once but she didn't even want to discuss it. I'll approach the situation like I should have in the first place but I will be a man and be civilized about it. I just know I wouldn't go to a ... (read in full...)
How do I forget this girl he cheated with?
Q. i have been with my bf for 2 years.6months back he cheated on me with this girl i would like to call "k".the minute i found out about them my bf told me he cant dump "k" because he loves her like he loves me,and the sad part is that he compared me ...
A. 26 June 2009: That's messed up on many levels. If he did that to you while you was with him before, he may do it again. Yeah, it might seemed like he's changed, but in all reality...does he even deserve you. You shouldn't tolerate that kind of disrespect towards ... (read in full...)
Can I love two people?
Q. Hi, Theres two guys, one of them is my ex boyfreind, we were together for about twwo years, and shared soo much together. I broke up with him, because i felt that we went getting along, and i wasnt happy at the time. When we broke up, i started ...
A. 26 June 2009: It's up to you but if you with somebody be with that person and don't half step with it. You may feel that strongly about it but he may not feel the same as you do. He is your ex for a reason, after all.... (read in full...)
DO men like to be woken up to a blow job?
Q. My friend said she gave her boyfriend a blow job in the morning just as he was about to wake up but she didn't tell me about his reaction and I was too scared to ask because he might think I was being too nosey. Is it annoying to be woken up to a ...
A. 26 June 2009: Duh and duh. If a man doesn't like that, something must be wrong. I know I would like that, though I doubt I'll ever get that. It's not fair.... (read in full...)
Lesbian - but afraid to lose my husband. Please help!
Q. Hi everyone, I'm in a horrible situation... where I have to choose. Making a decision so big is always scary and difficult... Well, here's my story. I'm married to the best man in the world, who truly cares about me and wants to make me ha...
A. 26 June 2009: I have read what you wrote and I'll say this. You and your husband obviously vowed to each other for better or worse and all that good stuff. If you knew you had those other kind of feelings already, then why bother with marriage with the man in the ... (read in full...)
Why does she go out late nights away from her husband?
Q. My wife seems to enjoy going out late at night alot. That's without me. I guess her so called friends are worth spending nights without me. The thing is, I really don't trust those people. On top of that, we're in a newer environment and she likes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Thank you rcn... (read in full...)
What should I do when my friend sees me as a slut because I don't wear a purity ring?
Q. So me and bff have been friend for 12 years but recently she's been looking at me like slut cause i dont wear a purity ring and belive in sex when ur in love instead of marriage and though i plan to wait until i am truly in love and hopefully until ...
A. 26 June 2009: Just because you don't have a purity ring doesn't mean you're a slut. You know how you are and what you do. Tell them how they make you feel thinking that and stay tactful. You'll be fine.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Thank you MANswers, that's good advice.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Male reader, anonymous; thank you too. She should have more respect as I honestly do like to treat her with it.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Female reader, anonymous; thank you as well. positivity is good for relationships.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Thank you, TheAgonyAunt. To be honest, it was only about 2-3 months after they had broke up because he cheated on her. But you're probably right, so thanks.... (read in full...)
Worried about going to the pool with my boyfriend because of my weight!
Q. okay so i have been with my boo for like a week now, school is done and he called me and asked if i want to go with him to the pool. but i am 13 and 210 pounds. but i look 160 pounds since im 5"5. but i am highly highly emberassed to go in the wate...
A. 26 June 2009: If this person you're with thinks you look good enough for it, then do it. Even if he didn't, you shouldn't be so insecure about your looks. People will like or not like you no matter how you look. It's true.... (read in full...)
She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!
Q. so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...
A. 26 June 2009: First off, it's only natural you feel badly about that as she is suppose to be with you and not that other person. The fact that she did that does say something and she should apologize for disrespecting you like that. If you two wanted an open ... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 25 June 2009: The thing is her ex cheated on her why would she think about him in such a way? I don't know but I guess it's hard to just not completely love someone that you have for a while. I'll be cool about it but approach the situation in a good way.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 25 June 2009: Thank you.... (read in full...)
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