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Having problems with my girl - I need your help!

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Question - (27 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, *orried71 writes:

My girlfrien has been acting funny, we went from talking and texting like crazy to no it seems like she is just talking to me, to make me happy. She went on a 3 day trip for work and said "don't know if I will have time to call during the trip" What I heard is that you are not worth making 5-10 minutes out of my day to call and say hi. I always send her a good night text which she used to reply with the same, hasn't done that for a week now. Also I text her every morning saying good morning, whic again she would either call or return my text with the same. She said she likes the morning texts it makes her happy. But I am now thinking if I am not worth a 5 minute phone call or a 1 minute text. Then is she worth a 1 minute text at night and in the morning? I am thinking about not texting her tonoght or tomorrow morning to see what happens. Is this a good idea? Also we are plannong on going away for the 4th of July weekend, so would a better idea be see how she acts then? Or could her behavior be realted to pms? or we been having unprotected sex for the last 3 weeks so is it possible that this could be a sign of her being pregnet?

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (27 June 2009):

Your friend agony auntTexting hasn't been working so leave her alone for a while, don't text at all and see what happens. Pretty soon you'll get an idea about what to do next.

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A male reader, Tbonex United States +, writes (27 June 2009):

Tbonex agony auntThis sounds like she just wants some space from you. Did you do anything recently to make her mad? Even so, if you are together then she should be able to have the time of the day to talk to you. What kind of job does she have? I know for a fact unless she is out there fighting in Iraq on the War On Terrorism or something like that, she should have time to talk to you. Even deployed people are actually able to call and talk to their loved ones depending on where they are deployed. Since she wants to be funny, do the right thing and don't text her or try to call for a while. I bet you she will get back to you after that. You'll see what I mean. It may not feel right but you'll see.

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A female reader, par221991 United States +, writes (27 June 2009):

I think either shes's busy with work or shes not interested anymore.....i dont know how close you guys are but maybe you guys need to spend more time together , like a romantic weekend.....my boyfriend and i do the same thing every once in awhile.....it keeps the spark alive. i would get her a rose or something that says you love her

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