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I feel bad for receiving oral and never giving it back!

Q.   My girlfriend is always asking for oral... politely, and she respects it when I decline, but I feel bad for receiving and not giving back, its just I'm inexperienced.... can anyone help me out? ...

A.   7 November 2010: I suggest you tell her that you're not giving it back to her because you're inexperienced. Otherwise, there will be some misunderstandings. Just try it out. :) She'll teach you along the way, don't worry. ... (read in full...)

Do you think we should have sex?

Q.   First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. Secondly, please don't tell me that I'm an idiot who is going to get pregnant. Now. My boyfriend and I hav...

A.   7 November 2010: "First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. " Honestly, just because that everyone else is doing it in their teenage years doesn't mean you have to be like that... (read in full...)

Help, Impossibly in love with my priest!!!!

Q.   hello, First of all please don't anyone judge me for this. I am a writing anonymously to guard myself and the person I'm seeing. I know it's wrong, in fact we both know it's wrong. I've gone to this church since I was a child. Years passed and I co...

A.   9 June 2009: I'm going to assume that he's a Catholic Priest. I'm sorry this all happened. Well, obviously, this isn't good. First thing, he's already vowed that he would be with Jesus & love him forever. It's like a marriage when he becomes a priest & vow his ... (read in full...)

Heart hurts for my teacher

Q.   I have the biggest "thing" for my teacher. I'm a male as is he, and it is probable that he may be gay as well. Not only is he my teacher (and will be for 3 years, including next), he is also a very respected and loved coach at our school. He is a ...

A.   9 June 2009: You don't "love" him. You can't love someone you don't talk to or know much about him. You don't even know much about his personal life. It kinda sounds like you're mixing up your "love" feelings with admiration. I think you really admire h... (read in full...)

My family is against our relationship.

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...

A.   15 May 2009: Because he's 12. He's still very immature. You gotta wait for him to mature and go through puberty. ... (read in full...)

My husband tod me that he has been lying to me and I can't trust him anymore

Q.   my husband told me that he has been lying to me...he has been talking to other girls behind my back...ive told him that he can have girl that are friends that he talks to but nothing more...girls that has feelings for him are not okay...which he ...

A.   14 May 2009: Uh, if i were you, I wouldn't. I mean, if you were so nice enough to let him still talk to his female friends, but he takes advantage of it? That's like, messed up. He's horrible. Maybe you married way too early. But anyways, I wouldn't trust hi... (read in full...)

Why are older guys attracted to younger women?

Q.   Why are older guys attracted to younger women. And why are some younger girls attracted to older men? ANSWER MY QUESTION........PLZ!!!...

A.   14 May 2009: I don't know why older guys are attracted to younger woman, because I'm not a guy. But I know why younger woman are attracted to older guys. It's simply because the older guys are more mature than the ones that are the same age as the woman. I'm c... (read in full...)

I think I'm ready, but how can I make sure that I will not regret it?

Q.   I was completely ready for sex just a little while ago. My boyfriend of 6 months is 17. I'm turning 15, but I was completely ready to have sex with him a little while ago. We had a good talk and decided it was time, I love him, but I feel like ...

A.   6 March 2009: You know, because you're already asking this question, it probably means that deep down, inside your heart, really, really, really deep down, you know that you'll regret this somehow and some way. =) Everyone else who answered are right too. ... (read in full...)

I think my mum is just trying to scare me to put me off having sex too soon.

Q.   hey, I'm 16 and thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. I'm on the pill and we're going to use a condom. The thing is my mum has made me really paranoid about having sex. We had a talk the other day about Sex and she said knowing my family's ...

A.   30 January 2009: I think she's trying to scare you because she cares about you. I would probably do the same thing to my child if she was thinking she was old enough to have sex. But anyways, she doesn't want you to drop out of high school just because of you bein... (read in full...)

My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her. It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs a...

A.   30 January 2009: I think he's trying to look like a jerk to you so you can break up with him. I think it's actually quite nice of him to do that... Maybe he fell out of love with you and doesn't want to use that excuse. My answer obviously isn't the best. So, don'... (read in full...)

Do all girls squit?

Q.   i have seen girls in videos squirting and some of them squirt as if they are a waterfall and it gushes out... do girls always squirt when they have an orgasm? and if they do is it just water?...

A.   28 January 2009: http://www.answers.com/topic/female-ejaculation Click the link and read. ... (read in full...)

What do girls enjoy watching?

Q.   do girls enjoy watching heterosexual sex as much as guys? do they enjoy watching other girls please themselves?...

A.   28 January 2009: I wouldn't say "enjoy it", but it's interesting and fun to see a couple make love together in their way. XD As long if it's not porn or hardcore sex. ... (read in full...)

Need guy's advice about bj's

Q.   ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out. me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once. but lately he's been doing down on me alot. and i wanna like return the favor, and he...

A.   20 January 2009: Sorry that my advice didn't help. But please don't say "life is miserable" because your boyfriend cheated or dump you for whatever reason, because you made it miserable. ... (read in full...)

My parents are splitting up...help!!

Q.   My Parents have been married for 21 years...ever since they were teenagers themselves but my dad was offered a job which meant he would be away a lot coming back every 2 weeks but after about 4 months of this he started coming home less often and my ...

A.   2 January 2009: I'm very sorry that's happening to you right now. I wish I can give you good advice but I've never been through this situation myself. I'm sorry. All I can say is that... Even though I don't know you personally, I hope that you will live through ... (read in full...)

Need guy's advice about bj's

Q.   ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out. me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once. but lately he's been doing down on me alot. and i wanna like return the favor, and he...

A.   26 December 2008: That's good that you're both virgins, but you're still too young for this. You'll most likely regret doing this with somebody you're not deeply in love with. And yes, you are too young to be in love. Even I am too young to be in love. I'm only 14. ... (read in full...)

Need guy's advice about bj's

Q.   ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out. me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once. but lately he's been doing down on me alot. and i wanna like return the favor, and he...

A.   17 December 2008: Well, I agree with people who says you're too young, but they're watching out for you, you know? I mean, you don't want to catch HIV or STDs.... It'll be a miserable life if you do. ... (read in full...)

Husband is a liar and a cheater, I do believe he loves me but I doubt his ability to do the right thing, any advice?

Q.   I met my husband 6 years ago. We had the most wonderful 2/3 years together and we both felt we had found a love that was very special and rare. He had an affair 1.5 years ago and I threw him out, the pain was almost unbearable, he had become in...

A.   17 December 2008: Well, why did you kick him out in the first place? he cheated on you, right? So why can't he do it again? Think about it... You've said he was unfaithful in his previous relationships. He's probably doing it again. ... (read in full...)

It is a true love with my student?

Q.   Hi.. I am 24,working as computer lecturer in an institute. I am fallen in love with my student, age 17.. as well as she started to like me at initial stage.. she likes to have friendship with me. She and I talk over the phone and sends text mes...

A.   17 December 2008: If you don't understand her reasons why you can't talk to her until after she goes to college and why she doesn't want to have sex yet, then it isn't true love. Why? Because you don't love her enough. If you can't understand her reasons, then you... (read in full...)

He already trashed my reputation! Does he still want to go out?

Q.   ok, so i just recently found out that a senior at my highschool told people that he slept with me! i already no he likes me and i know that bye telling me and becuase of female intuiton. now when he sees me its like he looks at me but not at my ...

A.   17 December 2008: He wants to sleep with you, that's what. I suggest you get away from that creep. That's like... Well, just not right. Honesty, if he's looking at you like that, then maybe the way you dress at school invites perverts like him. If he asks you out,... (read in full...)

My older hubby wants kids but I'm not ready for parenting!

Q.   I’m 28 and my husband is 46, The problem is that he desperately wants to have kids but I don’t feel ready, I’m not even sure that I want to have kids at all but I’ve decided that if I do choose to get pregnant I’d rather do it when I’m well int...

A.   17 December 2008: I think you should re-think about this. I understand that you don't know what's the first thing about kids, and all that stuff, but try to think about your husband more. You've been married for 4 years already. When my parents got married,... (read in full...)

How do I stop thinking about my teacher?

Q.   I am a girl of 16 and I think I am in love with my teacher who is a lot older. Is this just a stupid crush and if so how can I stop thinking about him? We hardly talk anymore and he has never said outright that he likes me, but I read to much into ...

A.   17 December 2008: Yes, it probably is just a little crush. I suggest you get over it before you become emotionally scarred, like I am. I liked my teacher too... Well, let's say things happened and I still can't get over what happened. ... (read in full...)

The too nice older boss that you need to avoid.

Q.   This is a little bit of a story and a how to on how to not be taken advantage of. I was given a job right off the bat by a man who owned a shop. At first i was young(17) and naive to think, maybe it is my personality and knowledge that got me the ...

A.   17 December 2008: Thank you for sharing us this information. ^__^ That has never happened to me before, and I hope it won't, especially after reading this. =)... (read in full...)

Dating for a week and he's already sexual. I'm not used to this and feel weird, any advice?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i ...

A.   17 December 2008: To be perfectly honest, I think he is using you. He's taking advantage of the age difference. Your 6th sense is telling you the truth, he's just pretending to like you, so he can use you. And a week is so short... If one begins a relationship too ... (read in full...)

He confessed he had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip!

Q.   We have been married for last 6 years and I would like to say happily until last week when my husband confessed that he had sex with a prostitute recently on an official trip. I have sort of forgiven him and have been trying to come to terms with ...

A.   8 November 2008: If he confessed that he had sex with someone else, then that already shows that he feels really guilty & sorry about it. Once a man is feeling guilty, it might take him a while to get over it. I don't think that he'll do something like this again ... (read in full...)

My 12 year old is masturbating and I don't know how to react.

Q.   hi im a lil worried about my daughter, she's only 12 and she masturbates a lot, she does it everyday maybe more than once, she hasn't got her period yet. how can i make sure she doesn't hurt herself? should i stop her or face her? how should i rea...

A.   7 November 2008: Look at the bright side, she's not pregant with a baby. Don't worry, she's only 12 years old. It's probably going to be a short addiction. She'll probably get addicted to something else. It happens to kids around that age. It's all normal. Don'... (read in full...)

I am truly in love with my teacher. How can I become friends with him?

Q.   I am truly in love with my teacher, and it's more than a crush. He is about 20 years old than me, happily married with two kids. Obviously it's never going to work out, and I know that, but I am always day dreaming about him and have actual dreams ...

A.   26 October 2008: Hey, I've had a crush on my teacher before, too. (When I was in 8th grade) He was very old, like 60-something. Even so, I really love him. I knew that it wasn't a crush because I couldn't get over him. Even though many people told me to get over ... (read in full...)

Are there many who are "saving themselves for marriage"?

Q.   How many Christians who go to church on a regular basis do you think are saving themselves for marriage these days?...

A.   25 October 2008: I'm Catholic, but it's a branch of the Christian religion. I'm saving myself for marriage. I'm 14, still young but, I know that I will save myself for marriage because I'm not interested in any guys at my school or anywhere else (so many gangster... (read in full...)

"Love" your teacher?

Q.   There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

A.   25 October 2008: Yes, you have a lot of points there. It isn't the teacher's or student's fault. No one is at fault. It just happened. And yes, no one can tell another person that they don't know what love is. Because do we really know what love is? We don't kn... (read in full...)

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

Q.   I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles...

A.   24 October 2008: I don't want to be more than "friends", with him. All I want is to be like... how it was before. Before he found out & stuff. I just want it to be like it never happened. I want to be friends with him at least! ... (read in full...)

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