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female
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30-35,
*ebeccaa
writes:Hello,I have a bit of a problem and dont no how to get rid of it. I have this new boyfriend not been together for long. But my ex who i split up with a year ago is so interfering. I split up with him because he cheated so many times and just put me through loads of stress. Anyway this new boyfriend, were getting on great, all his firends are nice too but my ex sticks to him like glue ever since we have been together, all my friends have noticed what he is doing. He wont let me go near him whenever i try to he just pushes me away, and they hardly ever spoke until my ex found out i was dating him. Today i was walking out of class, and he wouldnt even let me get out the door because he was outside! My friend asked him why he so clingy to my new boyfriend all of a sudden, and he just said you cant stop me from hanging out with my friend. The worst thing is he does this everytime i have a boyfriend. Its so annoying and it upsets me so much. What can i do to make my new boyfirend realise what he is doing? How can i get rid of my ex? Please help! Thankyou.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (7 April 2011):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou :)
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Then stay strong and try not to let your ex bother you too much. He will go away eventaully when he realizes the new guy is here to stay or he finds someone else. My ex's never got along and I would always hear what they thought of each other. Eventually I showed them that I was moving on with my life and they faded out.
I hope all goes well with your new bf.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (7 April 2011):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou. :)No i havnt dated any of his friends infact i try to date people he doesnt know because he just interfears. The new boyfriend isnt exactly his friend they talk but ive never realy noticed them be close, and this new boyfriend kept asking me out at first i turned him down but i didnt realy no him then, i got to know him a bit better and acctually realised he is realy nice. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): are you dating your ex's friends?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (7 April 2011):
Don't be friends with or be nice to your ex. He doesn't need to be part of your life at all if he is going to be like that. Tell your new bf that you have cut this guy out because he has cheated on you and want his support in pushing this guy away. Make sure everyone knows that you want nothing to do with your ex and that this is what you think he is doing so that they can call him out on it and he will hopefully go get a life of his own. The main thing is that this doesn't leave room for you to be friends with your ex, I am not saying be rude but be strong and reserved in that you do not want him in your life anymore.
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