My life is a reflection of the movie "The Notebook"...I'm torn between my ex and my husband
Q. My ex and I had a child together and were together for 10 years. We divorced for stupid reasons and neither of us felt right about it but for some reason we went through with it anyhow. We were on again off again for 3 years until he finally married ...
A. 3 November 2010: That was a good response! I did not take into consideration that at the time you gave up on the one you loved. Love is very complicated.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he has stayed when he has no love in his heart for me.
Q. Hi I am in the strangest relationship i have ever been in. This man is married but please no telling me i am a home wrecker because that is not the case here, I have been in this relationship for many years this man doesn't love me but he knows i ...
A. 30 October 2010: He is selfish and knows he can get away with it. If it has been years its not going to change.... (read in full...)
Is my logic here correct?
Q. Recently I has a conversation with the man I've been involved with for quite some time. The topic was as to why he disappears for extended periods of time for no apparent reason. The end result was him telling me that when things got too emotiona...
A. 30 October 2010: If I were in your situation I would definitely let him do most of the work, calling, making plans to see you etc. It sounds like maybe he felt you were getting to close and he was not ready. Let him be the one to come closer to you.... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in me for the sex?
Q. hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing...
A. 30 October 2010: You seem to have acted like all you wanted was sex. Next time, with the next man, try to really have conversations and outings before you get physical with him. Act like a lady and like you deserve a relationship, no demands or ultimatums. With ... (read in full...)
My best friend wants the boys when I like them!
Q. This all started a year ago when I meet this boy I really liked him We became good friends and he liked and we made out couple of times but then my best friend said she liked him too and she also made out with him and she told me to stop talking ...
A. 30 October 2010: I had to laugh at this one. I am sorry, it is kind of cute and comical, not in a rude way. This seems like pretty normal things somge girls go through. She may feel she is in competition with you or has to show you up. Anyway...you know what you ... (read in full...)
I have a sinking feeling that my bf is in love with another girl!!
Q. I have a question, my boyfriend last night told me that he was sorry about being snippy at me the last couple of weeks. He then went on to tell me that he has been snippy because he is confused. He went on to say that he didn't want to tell me about ...
A. 30 October 2010: It is probably another woman so you need to take action now if you want to keep him. He has to come clean to you about what he is confused about. All you can do now is work on your relationshi[ mainly independently. take stock of what you may be ... (read in full...)
She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...
Q. Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...
A. 30 October 2010: I definitely understand your reasons. I would not like that at all and would feel very disrespected but she has different views so that is a tough one.... (read in full...)
My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!
Q. I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...
A. 30 October 2010: You really truly need to see someone about your self-esteem. That is very important, it is very low and I am sure he has made it that way. You will get over being broken-hearted but you must take yourself out of that situation. He is a real loser ... (read in full...)
Should I give him an ultimatum?
Q. I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we ...
A. 30 October 2010: Do not give an ultimatum. Be understanding and figure it out rationally. Never give and ultimatum, they are controlling and demanding.... (read in full...)
My life is a reflection of the movie "The Notebook"...I'm torn between my ex and my husband
Q. My ex and I had a child together and were together for 10 years. We divorced for stupid reasons and neither of us felt right about it but for some reason we went through with it anyhow. We were on again off again for 3 years until he finally married ...
A. 30 October 2010: Make sure your ex is really on the same page as you. Make better more mature decisons in the future please.... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but I love him!
Q. dear cupid, i am in love with a guy who is in a relationship and i don't know what to do. we can call him J. we went to high school together and spent the second half of our last year together all the time. we kept in touch during our first y...
A. 30 October 2010: The truth is, he has a girlfriend not a WIFE. Therefore, if you love him as much as you say then stay in his life. Get to know him if you can, on a friendly basis. You have to be able to handle it though. If you think you have a chance with him ... (read in full...)
I've been waiting for my husband to grow up
Q. I've been married for seven years have have two children with my husband. He recently told me that he's been thinking about separating. I never believe in divorce unless there was abuse or infidelity involved. We have had a hard marriage. Lot's of ...
A. 30 October 2010: Why did you get married so young?? You are 25 at the most right? Maybe you two need a break to figure out where your head is at.... (read in full...)
Torn between my ex and new dude
Q. I was with my boyfriend for four yrs and we have a 4 yr old son. unfortunately he moved abroad (not by choice)and we were separated for two yrs. In that two yrs, he found a new girlfriend abroad and messed everything up. My heart was broken and I ...
A. 30 October 2010: Give it some time. You are not married yet, if he loves you he should not make any demands on you and he should wait patientely until you decide. But do me a favor and do not make him wait long. A few months tops. You cant make a decision in a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend physical with me, it always involves alcohol
Q. I love my fiance more then anything! We plan on getting married and having babies together. We have been through so much together and I know he loves me dearly! I have never been in such a loving relationship but the other day he beat me up quite ...
A. 30 October 2010: I would definitely recommend counseling and he has to stop drinking. Love can be blind, I am not going to sugar coat it, this is definitely unhealthy. On both sides. You say you are also aggressive, or have been in the past? The counseling may ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I'm scared of everything
Q. Hello. I am 13 yrs. old. I am in the 8th grade. I dont have many friends. I dont really like people, and people dont really like me, but I want friends. I hope it will get better in high school, but I dont think so, and I dont know why I think ...
A. 30 October 2010: Yes you should definitely go to talk to someone about what is going on with you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing that. It may help you to stop feeling paranoid. No one is "crazy," people are different. Everyone goes through ... (read in full...)
I think I'm ugly
Q. Well,I think Im ugly,,,,,,I have a flat but,bushy eyebrows but that all wrong.But guys where I live hate flat butts.:( Then the girls I hang with are all really pretty,and have all been in a relationship,had a kiss or whatever,but me?Nope.The guy I ...
A. 30 October 2010: The best advice I can give you is build your self-esteem. Go to different websites with advice on bulding self-esteem. Be yourself!! Also, work with what you have. If your eyebrows are bushy, go get them waxed. I think it is that you just have ... (read in full...)
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