A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. How can I improve my success with women?
Q. A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. Okay, I know that clubs are not a great place to meet women, but it has worked for me in the past and I know it works for a lot of guys. I just feel like women aren't att...
A. 30 March 2011: 'In recent weeks'...I think this could be your problem, you haven't given it overly long by the sounds of it. Women like confidence so continue on with this for a bit and see how it goes. If in six months+ it hasn't worked at all then you might have ... (read in full...)
Is he too shy or just not interested in me?
Q. so this uber uber uber shy guy I asked out at the end of the college semester (last may) is still on my mind. I had asked him out for coffee and a movie and he said "yeah maybe" in an optimistic way (if that makes sense) and I told him to call me ...
A. 30 March 2011: You may not want to hear it but he just doesn't sound interested. He's had a lot of chances and hasn't made a move in that time. It sounds like he thinks of you as more of a friend. Also if I'm honest you seem to be reading a lot into fairly mino... (read in full...)
Will my gay best friend ever want to date me?
Q. I know this is so dumb... but my one and only friend is gay and I really really like him and really wish he wasn't gay. He's everything i want in a person and I know he admires me and loves me, except he's GAY!!! has anyone ever heard of a gay gu...
A. 30 March 2011: If he's gay and not even bisexual then no, he'll never date you or be with you because he'll never find you sexually attractive.
So you'll just have to accept it and not let it affect such a good friendship.... (read in full...)
My step father is getting a bit too close! Does he just think I am a child? Is this part of his culture? Or should I tell my mom?
Q. Hello. I am a fourteen-year-old girl. My widowed mother just recently married again. My stepfather seemed very nice. She's attracted some sleezy men in the past. But he seemed great. I'm an only child and while they were dating, they'd often take me ...
A. 30 March 2011: Tell your Mom right away, I don't think this is purely because he's from a different culture at all.
Walking in on a 14yr old girl in the shower, tickling and kissing you suggests something more than just thinking of you as a child.
The fact ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of these stupid thoughts about something that happened over 30 years ago?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a horrible dilemma, probably more medical but I'm even beginning to wonder about that too. I have been married to the same beautiful woman for the past 28 years and been with her for over 32 years. We met when I was 17 and she ...
A. 30 March 2011: You've been through a lot in a fairly short space of time so the fact your suffering with depression is understandable.
You're just going to have to keep reminding yourself that it's the depression that's causing these thoughts to bother you and ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he called me yet?
Q. So I met this guy last weekend through friends at a bar. The next day my friend said he asked for my number and thought I was cute. ok, great, so I passed on my number on sunday. He then requested to be my friend on facebook yesterday and sent me ...
A. 30 March 2011: Could be that he's busy, not overly interested and asked for your number on a whim or for an ego boost. He might even be shy.
Or it could be that because he was the one that asked for your number, added you on Facebook, messaged you on Facebook... (read in full...)
She cheated once. Will she do it again if I forgive her?
Q. If your wife of 5years cheats on you w/her baby daddy. Would she do it again if I forgive her? She confess to me because she felt unhappy with her self. She said it only happend once and that she is sorry? Should I forgive her?...
A. 30 March 2011: Well no one can tell you for sure whether or not she'll cheat again but from what I've heard and seen people who cheat generally don't do it only the once.
Another thing that bothers me slightly is her wording (if it's the exact wording she used... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that his friend is in love with me?
Q. Hello! I been married for 7 years!! We also have the same friends... Last weekend we went to a party with our friends, after the party we got home and went to sleep. About 1am I had a text msg from my husbands friend and it said "I need to talk to ...
A. 30 March 2011: Have you spoken to him since then? If it was 1am in the morning then he could well of been drunk even if he denied it. If you haven't then ring/text him during the day and ask him if he meant it. If he didn't, write it off as drunken mistake and ... (read in full...)
I know that SOME disappointment is part of life, but it ALWAYS happens to me! No one has EVER returned my feelings!
Q. I want to be happy, and for the pain to stop but I've never felt so alone! I would like to share my life, and I don't know if there's any hope of that or if I just need to GET OVER that desire... furthermore, how do I get over it? I'm 29,...
A. 29 March 2011: Your post is very subjective, I can't really tell what's going on, but I'll have a guess. So I'm assuming at the end you're saying that you've had feelings for someone, they've not returned them and you think anyone else you try to date won't me... (read in full...)
Women in my family have given so much up to be a housewife, why do they?
Q. Dear Ladies or should I say dear ladies only as I want only women to answer this question. I am asking these questions to you all as I quite obviously cannot ask this questions to the ladies who have forced me to ask these questions. All m...
A. 28 March 2011: Well to be honest, I wasn't actually basing my ideas on India specifically, I was trying to explain the many different reasons why some women would choose to leave their careers to have a family and to then see if you could identify with any of ... (read in full...)
I've not had sex, but I think I have an STI! Help!
Q. I am only 13 years old, I have never had sex or done anything sexual apart from masturbating but I have an sti! I don't know what to do and I'm to embarrassed to tell my parents what should I do?...
A. 27 March 2011: Whatever it is, it's not an STI. If you haven't done anything sexual, then you can't of caught a sexually transmitted disease it's impossible.
It is possible though to get certain infections naturally, for example bacteria/viruses that many peo... (read in full...)
Women in my family have given so much up to be a housewife, why do they?
Q. Dear Ladies or should I say dear ladies only as I want only women to answer this question. I am asking these questions to you all as I quite obviously cannot ask this questions to the ladies who have forced me to ask these questions. All m...
A. 26 March 2011: I can't really comment on the women you've mentioned as although you've described what they've done in their lives, I don't know them well enough personally. Keep in mind that you are only describing 3 women, whereas there are nearer 3 billion ... (read in full...)
I don't think I want to go to college anymore, I think I want a baby
Q. I'm 20 years old and in my second year of college. My dream career is to become a veterinarian but ever since I started college, I've been questioning what I want to be when I graduate. And because of this, I don't feel like I want to continue ...
A. 26 March 2011: You are most definitely not alone in wanting that lifestyle, it just sounds as though you've been unlucky in not finding anyone (as of yet) who shares it. If you feel alone now though, then you would probably feel a whole lot worse being stuck in... (read in full...)
Am I just not ready for sex? Or am I asexual?
Q. I am a 20 year old female who has never had a desire to have sexual intercourse. When I had my first boyfriend when I was 14, we did everything sexual but intercourse. We both agreed we weren't ready for it yet. Then I had another boyfriend and I ...
A. 26 March 2011: At the moment I think it's impossible to be able to even guess at whether or not you're asexual as you have built up sex to be a very stressful almost negative thing. If you were pretty much indifferent to sex and just felt no desire for it then I ... (read in full...)
Are all men after tall women?
Q. I'm 22 years old, less than five feet tall. i am as pretty as any other girl and healthily thin so will any guy be interested in me?its not my fault or anyone else's why i am the way i am. I'm in college for 2 years and no boy has even dared talked ...
A. 26 March 2011: Well I have 2 friends that are both 4ft 10. In college one had a couple of boyfriends, one of which she ended up marrying a few years later and now has 2 kids with. The other would usually have a new boyfriend every few months....not that I'm saying ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and sex is daunting!
Q. I am 19 years old and i am still a virgin. I am ready to finally have sex but i find it very daunting and being that intimate with someone is rather scary. I have someone i would like to be my first but i keep avoiding it because of this. How ca...
A. 16 March 2011: To be honest you're sounding as though you're not actually ready. In one sentence you write 'I am ready to finally have sex' and then soon after put 'but i keep avoiding it'.
A certain amount of nervousness is normal, but having to write into an ... (read in full...)
I feel trapped in my relationship. Please help me move forward.
Q. Hi, I am gay 20 year old. I have had a partner for 3 years now. Over a year ago I found someone online and went to his house wanting a friend. He made a move on me and I pushed him away and left, 3 months later my partner found out from this other ...
A. 15 March 2011: I can see why your partner would be suspicious but if he's still not able to trust you after you've stopped seeing friends/deleted social networks then he's never going to. You'll just continue to feel more trapped and miserable. I think it's bet... (read in full...)
I dumped her 8 times and now I'm fuming that she has found new love?? Any thoughts??
Q. Last year I casually dated a girl on an off for 10 months. She fell head over heals in love with me and worshiped the ground that I walked on. LSS I took her kindness for a weakness and abused the hell out of her and dumped her for the 8th time in ...
A. 15 March 2011: So let me get this straight....you 'abused the hell out of her' and told her to get lost 8 times. Then she does leave and finds someone else and yet it's YOU who needs to forgive HER?
You have no reason to be fuming, she probably did love you at o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...
A. 10 March 2011: Sorry but no, that's not what true love is about. True love isn't one favour for another, it's a lot deeper than that. It also can't work without trust and mutual respect. If he's cheated then he's broken both of these things.
I think a single k... (read in full...)
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