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writes:Is my teacher's behaviour really unprofessional?I like him he is a really sweet guy but my mate has recently said that he fancies me? which i dont believe to be true, but is what he doing suspicous and prehaps the reason why my mate thinks this?He always has a joke with me and whenever I tease him he'll laugh and tease me back but when someone else does it he shouts and threatens them with detention, if I can't be bothered to work in his class I'll simply say to him I can't be bothered working, quite frankly I've done enough this year and he'll say ohh have you know, and laughs and lets me do what I want but he is constantly pulling my mates up about not doing any work? He also gave me a pressie at xmas time but it was because it was my last year and he gave pressies to the other girls last year when it was their last year also, but he waited till my mate left the room so it was just me and him and he gave me it, then he walked out and my mate came in and asked who it was from then I said my teacher then she said eww that's seriously pervy but I don't think it is? Then during my free periods I sit down in his classroom and have a laugh with him and we throw paper at eacher other and tease each other constantly and he always says that when I'm gone that he'll miss me, he always does lots of things as well like he'll let me just walk into his department at lunch and sit down and chat with him when no one else is allowed, and my mates aren't allowed to leave there bags in his classroom coz they'll get moaned at but I'm allowed coz my mate said sir can I leave my bag in here it's so heavy, I'll hide it so the other teachers can't see it and he said no, but I had already put my bag in his office, for sakes of not carrying it about the full day! Then she kept asking him and he said no! I'm not allowed if mr ***** catches me letting your bags sit around in here I'll get into serious trouble, and then I turned to him when we were leaving and I whispered to him I've left my bag in there already then I smiled and he laughed and smiled back and went ohh okay Lynda! Another thing is that he teased me once and I wanted to totally kid him on so I pretended to care and I shouted at him and stormed out and then other girs in the room said ohh I think you've really upset Lynda then he came through to my room and appologised A LOT! He wouldnt leave, he kept going on and on about how much he was sorry and that he feels bad coz he thinks that I'm hurt, then he helped me find my book for no apparent reason and then when he gave me it I shouted at him and he just stood there looking sad then I said omg I'm kidding! then he said seriously? coz i felt so bad there, then he ran after me all that class time, he suggested that I could study another classes work coz I don't need to worry about my art exam in his class, then he said I'll open up the art room, which is this room no one is allowed into because it's full fo expensive stuff, it's only for teachers, he doesn't let anyone in there, then I said ohh can I go get that big couch? then he said no... and I said why? and he said coz I'm gonna get it for you, then he went and got it, although it's a big giant chair thats so heavy?? and he had to pure push it along from the other classrooms then he went to the dinner school for me and got me sweeties coz I asked him to which you aren't allowed to do during classtime and then I said ohh sir you're my little slave today aint ya? He said well I feel awful that I coulda hurt you?Is this really uinprofessiojnal? coz if my mate is pickin this up as liking me then it must be? What do you guys think?x
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reader, wrexham +, writes (21 March 2008):
Could anyone give me some advice my sons teacher has be talking in class about how his wife puts chicken fillets down her bra to make her breasts look bigger,and also about his full sack and things that he has done with a transvestite.i have been into the school and the head teacher said he has sorted everything out which i am still not very happy about is there anything else i could do regarding this teacher please help me
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reader, nicole5178  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 It sounds like he's just a nice guy. I mean, if he had a friend who was a teacher and did the same things with him/her, would you think he was flirting or just being friendly? It sounds like he thinks you're nice... he could think of you in a romantic way, but it sounds like if he was going to act on it, he's had plently of opportunities he's passed on already. At the very least, he favors you, since he lets you get away with so much. And if you were upset, he would want you not to be regardless of how much he likes you... I mean, who wants someone to be upset with them?
This could just be friendship. Is he flirtatious, like will he complement your outfit or your hair? Or is he just friendly and cuts you some slack during class? Maybe it's a tad unprofessional, but I don't think that's necessarily a horrible thing. From what you've said, it sounds like you enjoy his treatment, so what's the problem really?
...Hope that helps you. Message me if you want to talk to someone. I'm in a similiar situation with a teacher, so I could try to give you some more specific advice. Good luck!
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reader, love-him +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Hey hon, he certainly sounds like he is trying to impress you.. ur friends could be right, alsthough he is trying to be kind to you.. it could go too far.. let him know your boundaries if he pushes you too far.. let me no how u get on hon, mail me if u want =] xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmmm... he may jst be a friendly guy! i dont know :Perm.. mail me. we are in a similar suituationAmyx
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