What can I do to protect my sister?
Q. I wrote to you about my sister before. I saw my sister's (she's 14 and her bf is 17 my age) boyfriend hit her. It all started when he pressured her for sex. She told me about it and I just said break up with him she did it like a week later. Then ...
A. 20 January 2009: Please, Please, PLease tell your parents, tell his parents tell any adult figure who will listen!!! This guy is Bad and you need to keep your sister away from him. Your sister has basically 2 options with this guy be pressured into sex(which is ... (read in full...)
Can you give me advice on how to leave Brent?
Q. THIS IS WORTH READING. Please help me out, I'm in a VERY tight spot. Thank you for taking a look at my pitiful problem. This one is kinda messed up. The main problem here is, Ive always liked this one guy but he's been a kinda player(so to s...
A. 19 January 2009: Walk away from both of them, you have been at this for a very long time and perhaps it would give you a little perspective if you walked away from both of them and learned to be by yourself for a bit. At the very least it would give you time to ... (read in full...)
He's asking for topless photos of me? Is he using me?
Q. Hiya, well basically im 18 years old girl and i've never done anything with a guy. Im not allowed boyfriends and when i would get close 2 a boy my own age or older, they would always show their true colors sooner or later making me just feel like ...
A. 16 January 2009: You say this guy is in the army, it is possible that he wants these pictures as a saucy reminder of you when he's away with the army. On the other hand like you say he could be using you.
Saucy pictures can be a lot of fun but only if you tota... (read in full...)
How do I scare him-I'm NOT a doormat!
Q. in the time that i've been with my boyfriend which is nine months, he's cheated on me three times (only kissing) twice with the same girl, i've forgiven him obviously, not easily but he's still gone and done it again, he doean't think about the ...
A. 14 January 2009: The fact that he's cheated 3 times and that you want to 'scare' him suggests this is not the healthiest of relationships in the first place. The mature thing to do would be to sit him down & explain that his cheating is not acceptable that it hurts ... (read in full...)
My husband's ex charges her children when she does things for them
Q. My husband's ex-wife charges her adult children to do things for them. For instance, she takes one of the grandchildren to school each morning and they must pay her to do so. She also buys things for them and expects to be reimbursed. Her gifts ...
A. 14 January 2009: Stay out of it. You are not responsible for you husband or his ex-wifes behaviour. All you can do is be the best person you can be. If you comment to your husband you think he overcompensates or to the ex-wife that she is stingy, or even to your ... (read in full...)
Why can't I sleep?
Q. hey everyone, again.. i know i post these like everynight, but WHY CANT I EVER SLEEP!!!!!!!!! hopefully you have read my other questions and such, but if you haven't. i am 15. i am pregnant. i am having a boy. i am engaged (but nothing more, no ...
A. 11 January 2009: At 15 years old pregnant for the first time you have a hell of a lot on your mind at the moment thats why you cannot sleep. Make sure your evenings are as stress free as possible have a nice hot relaxing bath wind down do all the things that you ... (read in full...)
Suddenly he's pushing me out
Q. hi im 17 and ive been seeing my bf for about a year. We did have a rough few months that we were apart and saw other people then we worked out our problems and got back together....anywho...he is very clingy i guess youd say, and he always texts me ...
A. 4 January 2009: First of all take a deep breath if you try talking to him when your panicked and upset all you will do is see negative in whatever he says and probably cause an argument. Take some time to calm down then tell him calmly but firmly that 'you know ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex for only 1 second
Q. hi, im 14 and im terrified, i think my girlfriend might be pregnant. shes 2 days over due for her period supposobly.. we had sex, but used a condom, then once only for a second literally without one. please if anyone can give me relief about this i ...
A. 4 January 2009: The chances of her being pregnant are slim but not impossible. The stress of worrying about being pregnant alone could have made her period late. However the only way you are going to have piece of mind for sure is to get a pregnacy test. There are ... (read in full...)
Husband ignoring me masturbating to photos of Wes Scantlin
Q. I've found out that my husband has been looking at pornography online. However, it's not female porn, but pictures of Wes Scantlin (look him up on Google). I only knew about it having found a print-out with a picture of Wes and stained underpan...
A. 4 January 2009: What an unusual problem i can see why your so confused!!! I think that unfortunatly your husband is going to have to talk about this because sweetheart you need to know where you stand! Is he Gay? Bisexual? Or is it just a strange form of hero ... (read in full...)
What do GIRLS consider to be the size of a big penis and a small penis?
Q. Okay everyone asks what is the AVERAGE penis size. However I'd just like to know: 1)What do girls consider big or large 2)What do girls consider small I know the results will vary for everyone but I was just wondering. Post your thoughts a...
A. 4 January 2009: Just wanted to make you aware of a slightly different way to look at this. The average woman is only 5 inches deep so having a massive penis can sometimes do more harm then good!!!
Everyone is different men and women & as a woman i think its more... (read in full...)
What goes on in a man's mind???
Q. I was starting to see a man from my past, it's been 9 years since I saw him last. We had sex off and on for 13 years, never my boyfriend. We were just there for each other. Now he came back into my life and wants to be my boyfriend and said that ...
A. 4 January 2009: However much you like this man he is not treting you very nicely!!! I think you nedd to think more of yourself and leave him alone to figure out whats going on in his head! (Truth be told i don't think anyone knows whats going on in a mans head even ... (read in full...)
Is an affair ever justified
Q. A christmas cracker: Is it ever 'right' to break your marriage vows? I still love my wife, but I don't fully understand why I feel these feelings for my mistress. I know it's wrong, but why does it feel so right? My lover paid me so much attentio...
A. 24 December 2008: An Affair is never justified. I agree with Dr Vendetta you need to start thinking with your head. This is not fair to your wife have you tried to talk to her see what she thinks whether your marriage still has a chance? I doubt it pluck up the ... (read in full...)
Baby fever
Q. I don't know if this is normal or natural, but I really want to have a baby. I'm only 18 not financially stable, I have a flat to pay for but I can't stop thinking about babies. I haven't been with my boyfriend all that long but my broodine...
A. 27 November 2008: Do you have any friends or family members with young children or babies? If so i suggest you offer to babysit for a weekend so they can have some time for themselves. Being the person that a young child or baby is soley dependant on night and day is ... (read in full...)
What's the easiest way to get out of this without having to deal with his crap?
Q. I am currently in a relationship. I have been in this relationship for a year in December. I moved out with this guy in March - as we clicked so well, and it felt as though it could work. While we have been living with each other we have had lots of ...
A. 27 November 2008: I would go one step further than the above answer i would actually get my stuff out during the day while he is at work then wait for him to come home, lay in on the line to him, then pick up my keys and walk out the door. Once you make the decision ... (read in full...)
Her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly. How can I reassure her I will be gentle ?
Q. my gf has been giving me blowjobs in replace for sex since shes not ready but is prefectly fine with that but i know shes afraid because her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly she soon broke up with him and fell for ...
A. 25 November 2008: I agree with the above two answers completely,
1) Its very important for you to start giving her pleasure in return for what she does for you
2) When she does finally decide that she is ready take it slow and stop immediatley if she says you are ... (read in full...)
My fiance of 6 years lies about porn problem, then blames it on me.
Q. Hello everyone. My fiance and I have been together for 6 years. We have a beautiful 13-month-old daughter together. Just yesterday he admitted to me that he was using my computer to look up internet porn. This is after months and months of lying to ...
A. 24 November 2008: This is not all your fault!!!! Do not let this man make you feel bad about yourself it wasn't like you were ignoring him on purpose your were ill!!! He should have been looking after you and your daughter not on the internet downloading porn. You ... (read in full...)
He sent his gal pal a picture of his penis!
Q. ok so me and my boyfriend have been together right at a year and been living together for 6 months. He's 26 I'm 22.. I've dated way more guys than he has girls. He's been in 3 serious relationships his whole life me being one of them and the one ...
A. 11 November 2008: There are several questions you need to think about here.
1) Why is your boyfriend cheering her up instead of her boyfriend?
2) If there is nothing between them why does a naked picture of him cheer her up?
3) Would your boyfriend like it if y... (read in full...)
Should I get intimate with her... even although I'm attracted to men?
Q. I have a very dear friend - a girl who I have known many years. I feel scared of getting intimate with her though I know she cares a lot for me. I also think I am attracted to men. I am in a dilemma. She has had one boyfriend in the past but it came ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think the best thing for you to do would be to take some time to explore your own sexuality before you are intimate with anyone. You say she has been hurt before so she is not going to be happy about it happening again.
I suggest you are upfr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me!
Q. hey, Well I had a problem with my boyfriend last night. He said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me (plus I am trying really hard in school). At that moment I felt like nothing and I felt unsuccessful because it's enough that my ...
A. 10 November 2008: In his own warped way i bet he thought he was being helpful! In his brain he probably thought that not losing him would be a great insentive to work hard at school.
However that being said it is not helpful in the slightest it has only made you ... (read in full...)
My husband got his school girl mistriss pregnant
Q. I'm still crying over my husbands affair. He had a six month affair with a school girl. I was pregnant they both knew that. He didn't use precautions and slept with both. I've had councilling but feel my life is tainted by them. I have three lovely ...
A. 10 November 2008: You poor thing!!! I'm not going to tell you what to do in the end the descision has to be yours, but if i was in your shoes, i agree it is hard to leave but i would do it simply because i want my children to grow up believing that you should be with ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, and experiencing bleeding...I've seen the doctor but want advice too!
Q. Hey everyone, was just wondering if i could have your help and advice once again! I am now experiencing what every pregnant woman must fear.............bleeding. I had a bleed on friday for about half an hour, and a bleed for 8 hours yesterda...
A. 25 March 2008: Hi,
You poor thing you must be terrified, trust me i've been there!!! When I was 8 weeks pregnant with my daughter i had a bleed that lasted for roughly 10 hours and was convinced i'd lost my baby. The doctor was an evil man who said bluntly to me '... (read in full...)
Got caught masturbating!!!!
Q. I love to masterbate and love porn. I've been in a relationship for 2 year with my girlfriend and things are great but I feel she does not trust me because I masturbate. I tell her it is just a fantasy, I'm being truthful with her, we make love 4 to ...
A. 17 March 2008: I think there is a solution to your problem. Good on you for being honest with your girl wish more men were like you. Your girlfriends reaction is normal, she is probably somone who has not has a huge amount of expereience with porn. Why not try to ... (read in full...)
We're afraid to tell my parents I'm pregnant!
Q. I'm almost three months pregnant and I'm 18 years of age my boyfriend is one year older. The problem is we are afraid to tell our parents and we aren't sure if we should or can mamage to have this baby. I don't believe in an abortion we have both ...
A. 17 March 2008: Abortion is a major decision that you and only you can make. My advice to you would be to tell your parents, both of your parents although they might be angry at first they are still your parents at the end of the day and will eventually come ... (read in full...)
How do I separate her from her friends?
Q. hello,ive got a problem... im going 2 canada (school trip)and on the way there (9 hours) im sitting with my best friend. on the way back i want to sit with my girlfriend so does she, but her friend "controls" where she sits. help! also her ...
A. 31 January 2008: Ask your girlfriend to talk to her friend and tell her she wants to sit with you on the way back. Youre not being unreasonable as you are both sitting with friends on the way up you just want to sit with eachother on the way back. Tell her not to b... (read in full...)
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