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anonymous
writes:I'm almost three months pregnant and I'm 18 years of age my boyfriend is one year older. The problem is we are afraid to tell our parents and we aren't sure if we should or can mamage to have this baby. I don't believe in an abortion we have both finished high school but want to futher our qualifications. What's your advice, do you think that we should have an abortion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): If you go ahead with having this baby then you will have to tell them at some stage. They will guess when you start to show. You are both over 18 so there is nothing that can be done. So tell them now before someone does.
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (17 March 2008):
 I think you should talk to your parents. They might surprise you and be very supportive!
They probably won't be over the moon and might even tell you off, but they love you and should help you through this.
Personally, I am against abortion, especially if you don't approve of it. If you don't approve of abortion now, you won't change your mind afterwards and you might find it difficult to deal with.
You could always give the baby up for adoption or fostering!
But whatever you choose to do, the support of your family will be really important.
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, MT19 +, writes (17 March 2008):
Abortion is a major decision that you and only you can make. My advice to you would be to tell your parents, both of your parents although they might be angry at first they are still your parents at the end of the day and will eventually come around. Your parents may be able to think of something that you and your partner in a hightened sense of panic may have overlooked that could help you have your child and still further your education, or if you decide to go through with an abortion they can be there to emotionally support you. Trust me if you were my daughter i would be heartbroken at the thought of you having to go through this all alone. Good Luck.
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