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What goes on in a man's mind???

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Question - (4 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female United States age , *ebbie2807 writes:

I was starting to see a man from my past, it's been 9 years since I saw him last. We had sex off and on for 13 years, never my boyfriend. We were just there for each other. Now he came back into my life and wants to be my boyfriend and said that he thought of me all these years and I said me too. At first we started calling each other and now he's ignoring me. I have not seen him yet I saw a picture of him, but could I have acted needy and if so will he come back and what to do I like him a lot. What goes on in a man's mind, I'm confused, I waited one time 6 weeks for him to call. What is he up to?

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A female reader, debbie2807 United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

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could he be a player or womanizer, he say the things i want to hear. i am puzzle.

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A female reader, debbie2807 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

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these answers are great, like some more,i was wondering why he playing hard to get. he said all he thought about all these years was me, then why isn't he here. he lives 3 hours away but he comes to his parents house almost every weekend to help them with things.across the street from me.i am going to leave him alone and see what happen. sometimes i call him and ask him to call me rarely he call me. i feel he not into me , he leave me hanging.i left my boyfriend of 9 years because he treated me like a friend, and i had a chance to be with the guy i always love and he does this to me.the guy i left was not affection but gave a lot of attention.i love him but was not love with him, he never wanted to commit.

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A female reader, MT19 United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

However much you like this man he is not treting you very nicely!!! I think you nedd to think more of yourself and leave him alone to figure out whats going on in his head! (Truth be told i don't think anyone knows whats going on in a mans head even the men!!)

You deserve someone who will treat you with the love and resect you deserve. not calling you for 6 weeks is not showing respect!! If he comes around again i would be completely straight with him tell him he either goes out with you properly and treats you with respect or you want him to go away and leave you alone.

Be strong you deserve more!!

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