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Is she over me and should I get over her?

Q.   The girl i like is actually my colleague. I started working with her in October 2005 till Feb 2006. At that point, there was no attraction, only a professional acquaintance. I rejoined the workplace in September 2006, and then the flirtations ...

A.   16 August 2007: I feel ya mate. From your descriptions, I think you hit the nail on the head. If she wanted a relationship with you, I don't see why she would wait 7 months to be ready to get into a relationship with you if she was interested. I think that you're ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?

Q.   Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?...

A.   16 August 2007: I would say no. You could drop it off to have it developed and tell him that you did so, but not develop with the intentions of snooping. Also, it's possible that it's not hidden but just forgotten. In my opinion, it would be like reading someone's ... (read in full...)

Should i change myself for him?

Q.   I am 17 years old and fell for a friend of mine (23 years old). i just recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i have liked him for a long time and would really like for us to start a relationship together. the reason i fell for him in ...

A.   16 August 2007: Honestly, the vast majority of people don't change. Even if you were to "act" more mature, it is just that, an act. A great many problems happen in relationships when people try to be something they're not and when they revert back to their old ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex, but i'm scared.

Q.   ok i'm 13 and me and my bf who is 14 have been going out for 3 in a half months i love him with all my heart but he wants to have sex in La in 2 weeks i want to but im scared i dont want to get pregnant what do i do HELP!!!!! plez ...

A.   15 August 2007: I did lose my virginity at 13. I did it not because I was horny and not because I loved the girl (I didn't), but because I was curious. I left me confused and it wasn't fun like everyone said it was. I tried again when I was 14 with pretty much the ... (read in full...)

Is he deliberately trying to make our marriage a sham?

Q.   hi, please help me, I have been married to my husband for 8 years we have two children. For the last two years my husband's behaviour has dramatically changed. My hubby isn't axactly the ideal man of my dreams he isn't helpful (he was a bit ...

A.   15 August 2007: It's hard for me to gage marital problems of this degree when you only hear one side of the story. I don't see how anyone can honestly answer these sorts of questions when they seem to penetrate every aspect of the marriage, as per your description. ... (read in full...)

How do i slim down my puffy cheeks?

Q.   how do i slim down my puffy cheeks? are there any certain foods i should eat or drink to make it slim down?...

A.   15 August 2007: Take this comment with a grain of salt... From what I remember when I was going through the health and body section of an anatomy class, the more athletic someone is, the less likely their cheeks will appear puffy. The less body fat, the less li... (read in full...)

This may sound silly, but is keeping your undergarments on a safe contraceptive device?

Q.   hay, this has been bugging me foe a long time, if u makeout with just your undergarments on, can you get pregent????...

A.   15 August 2007: If you're making out, no. If he ejaculates (cums) on your underwear than yes, you can and many already have. Ever pulled on cotton and seen the little holes between the threads? Well, sperm are much smaller than that and they can swim right past ... (read in full...)

Why would a guy lie and say he wasn't a virgin when he was?

Q.   Hey all, This isn't an urgent question or anything, I am just curious. When I first got with my boyfriend, we obviously talk about our past relationships, I told him how many guys I had been with, he told me how many girls he had been with. He sa...

A.   15 August 2007: I've heard of guys "playing the V-card" so-to-speak, but that's only been in situations where the guy was trying to pick up the girl and used it as a flirting mechanism, even though both of them knew the guy was lying. Playing a game where they ... (read in full...)

How do I handle an unwanted crush from a younger girl?

Q.   I am a babysitter of three kids. Ages 6, 8, and 10. The 6 and 10 year olds are boys and the 8 year old is a girl. Now I'm a male and it seems this girl has a bit of a crush. How do I handle it? She undresses knowing i'm around and even goes skinny ...

A.   15 August 2007: Tell her parents if you haven't done so already. Little girls get little girl crushes all the time and the behavior is not unusual. Remember that children don't always have a fixated concept of modesty as adults do and what's she's doing can be ... (read in full...)

What do guys think of girls who make the first move?

Q.   I need to know ..... what do guys think of girls who make the first move? Ive met someone I REALLY like, we exchanged numbers and have met up a few times. Each time, we get on great and theres a definite attraction between us. The only thing is, I...

A.   15 August 2007: I can only speak from personal experience, but I love girls that make the first move. I'm a passive guy though and it's difficult for me to make the first move since I've been burned by doing so many times. A girl making the first move make me ... (read in full...)

I just dont know what i should do, should i marry him?

Q.   I'm 18 and last weekend my boyfriend of 3 years asked me to marry him. At the time it seemed perfect - the way he asked, the place, everything he said, but now I had time to think about it and I am not sure I really want to be married so young. I am ...

A.   15 August 2007: Anytime I find myself hesitating about a big decision that should seem like it should have an obvious answer, there's almost always a good reason for it. If you think you should marry him, why post a question about it here? He's cheated on you three ... (read in full...)

How do people act when they are jealous?

Q.   Generally, could people be mean to you if they are jealous of you? Also could they treat you differently than other people? I encountered this before and am quite confused about it. How do people act when they are jealous? please help....

A.   15 August 2007: How do they act? Stiff, cold... inflexible? I was jealous over a guy over some girl in high school and I wanted him to just keel over a die, which started a moral conundrum in my head because I actually liked him when he wasn't around my object of ... (read in full...)

I hate myself! How do I stop feeling this way?

Q.   Ok, i really need some help here. Im always picking faults in my appearance and if i see something i don't like (which is nearly always) i get really really angry. I think that i should be prettier, thinner just like other girls i see. I absolutl...

A.   15 August 2007: I don't think it's a stretch by suggesting that you may have low self-esteem. It's alright, I used to be an ackward kid (still am in some ways) and I hated myself for it too. Suicidal at one point when I was pretty young, to be honest. I loved co... (read in full...)

I feel embarrassed because of my virginity

Q.   I use to go out with a guy a long time ago for nearly a year. we broke up and then he went out with my best friend - which hurt me alot. Eventually they also broke up. By no means is he a great catch or anything but he continues to get girlfriend ...

A.   15 August 2007: Darling, Why in the hell would you want to lose your virginity to some ignoramus simpleton like him? Get rid of him and don't be ashamed of your virginity. You see, guys use this ploy, making a girl feel ashamed of the fact that she has... (read in full...)

I always seem to get attached so quickly in a relationship, why does this happen?

Q.   I feel like I get attached so easily either in relationships or even meeting a guy for the first night and developing feelings. I don't understand how it happens but is there anyway that I can become not so attached. I'm really starting to think ...

A.   15 August 2007: Lovaaa, I'm the same damn way. I call myself a sentimentalist even though I don't express it right away, I feel it immediately and anything I feel only leaves if they die a hard, nasty death. As a few of the other posters have mentioned i... (read in full...)

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