Is this a guy problem
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 5 months now. We dont' have it very often, but when we do most of the time he lasts pretty long. Recently though he has been cumming a lot quicker than before and he's starting to worry that there is ...
A. 3 April 2009: I think you need to fill us in on how long "pretty long" is. 15 mins, about right... 45 mins? Long time. If he's at the 45 minutes and getting quicker, than he's becoming more comfortable. If he's at 15 mins and is getting quicker, then he's just ... (read in full...)
Should I just do something he's "forbidden" me to do so he'll break up with me?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over a year. We do everything together. I'm not in love with him and never was. I'm not attracted to him at all, and there's no sex to speak of anymore. I love him as a friend, though, and we met through mutual friends ...
A. 3 April 2009: I agree with jezebel: don't do something harsh just to get him to break up with you. If you're looking for a way out then you need look no further than saying, "This is over" to him. If he refuses to let that be the end of it, then stop talking to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is my cousin!
Q. My 3rd cuzin and i have met recently and we have fallen for each other.. hard... and last night we found out that were 3rd cuzins!!!!!!!! D: He feels that our likeness for each other is now forbidden but he really wish it wasent. I feel that it ...
A. 2 April 2009: 3rd cousins are pretty removed family members. It's no surprise to me that you guys didn't even know you were remotely related. I mean, I don't know _any_ of my 2nd cousins even, let alone 3rd.
3rd cousins are really not even blood related ... (read in full...)
I don't think the whole sex thing is going to work!
Q. Good day, a small bit of help... Firstly, i have been good friends with this guy for a while now and we do spend a lot time together, as he says we are only friends which could be true, no matter how much i love i can give it time, he has just come ...
A. 2 April 2009: First off, I don't think sex is a good gift ;) You should maybe get him a custom patch for his jacket since he's in a motorbike race? He probably already has endorsements on his jacket and/or bike, so you might be able to get him a sticker or pat... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: I think I might beat you... I've tried calling my girlfriend back up to 12 times within 30 minutes. But that's because I know she was ready to pick up the phone. Oddly enough I had a similar thought that you're having: I know I desperately want to ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? He's got me wondering
Q. Is he gay? My boyfriend wants anal sex a lot, but I don't want to give it to him. He has a lot of male friends but is a "guy's guy" - athletic, sociable. But, he spends a lot of time with a particular friend behind closed doors and has even made ...
A. 2 April 2009: This is, odd enough to say, normal behavior for some guys. Some guys will make weird and even homo-oriented comments to their male friends. It's just the bond that they share, as odd as it may seem. It does not, however, mean that he is gay. ... (read in full...)
Porn good for my guy?
Q. Is porn good for my boyfriend to watch once in a while, even though we live together?...
A. 31 March 2009: Your question is fragmented... however, I will add this: majority of guys watch porn!!! I have had a gf of a year plus that I have essentially lived with... yet still I watch porn. In short: yes, it is normal for your boyfriend to watch porn once ... (read in full...)
He says he was on the sex register for verbal abuse to a teenager..do I still see him?
Q. iv met someone he told me he was on sex register for verbaly abuse to teenager it ends in may but i dont know weather to trust him ,my family would not aprove if they find out im so worried...
A. 30 March 2009: I will throw out there that in many states you can be placed on the sex offenders register/list for something as drunkingly stupid as peeing in public. So don't be too quick to say he's done something horrific. However, that being said, can't you ... (read in full...)
What can I do to tell her to stop?
Q. my friend had failed.we became friends.she always talk behind my back and call me names. i call her names she gets mad. i told her it upsets me when she talks about me the same as it do to her.she says i say around other people same as she do.a...
A. 28 March 2009: I think you ought to take the higher road and find a new friend. Ditch this girl as she isn't a good friend. Friends are always there to support not tear down (to your face or behind your back).
You wont be able to say anything to get her to s... (read in full...)
He's not handling our break up well
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months yesterday and he didn't handle it very well at all. I said we can still be friends, and the next day he tried texting me again because he's upset still. Should I keep talking to him as a friend and console ...
A. 28 March 2009: I think you pretty much answered your own question: you should keep talking to him and console him as a friend would do. However, make sure that he understands that you're only friends.... (read in full...)
She knows I love her, why does she keep going on about her ex to me all the time?
Q. About 2 weeks ago this girl told me she loved me and it felt genuine. We have been talking for a while and been talkig on the phone every night and hanging out and we still talk on the phone every night, but she went out with her ex, and she's ...
A. 26 March 2009: Tell her something along these lines because this logic should hopefully strike a bell in her head.
She said she wants to lose her virginity to someone who cares. Granted her ex did care about her at the time they were dating, but obviousl... (read in full...)
So what else can I do in place of giving him oral sex?
Q. Hello! I posted a question yesterday evening, but only recieved one response. And, well to be quite honest it didn't really answer my problem. So I'm reposting in hopes that someone can help out. Here is the question in it's original form. "My bo...
A. 26 March 2009: Honestly, I would have him go to an internist and have them check it out. It shouldn't hurt unless
a) he has an infection
b) he overly masturbates/finishes (it can start hurting after multiple times)
c) he has really dry skin and that include... (read in full...)
Popped cherry questions
Q. hey im 15,I recently did it with my boyfriend and it was my first time and it was his2nd time.I really like him a lot and I wanted to loose my virginity to him cus I really like him and he really likes me 2,I think I won't regret it because I am ...
A. 26 March 2009: Pulling out does NOT work. Make him wear a condom next time! You can get pregnant even with the pullout method. Sperm doesn't go "on you" to get pregnant, it goes inside you and you will not see it in small quantities (ie if only precum went ... (read in full...)
Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy?
Q. Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy? i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, which im 15 and hes 18, and even though i break up with him when he leaves brozes on me, i ALWAYS go back. my mom was in a domestic violence relation...
A. 26 March 2009: For the sake of you knowing that there are MANY people out there that agree with this: I completely second what Jessica said!!
Summed up: kids tend to mimic what they see in their parents growing up. It's a nature vs nurture thing.... (read in full...)
What kind of girl blows your mind?
Q. Hi guys what's up ii just have a quick for all of the guys!! What are you looking for in a girl? What kind of girl blows your mind?...
A. 26 March 2009: I'm going to cut to the chase: there are way over 6 billion people in this world and every girl and guy are attracted differently to the opposite/same sex. The question you are asking implies that you are looking to see if you have the qualities ... (read in full...)
Does masturbation makes a penis smaller?
Q. hello good people! does masturbation makes a penis smaller? and does weight play a role in as far as the penis size is concerned?...
A. 26 March 2009: So you know, Milo, there's really not much more to add to it than what Old Guy said.
I will add that, seeing as you're in the 18-21 age group, your penis has not fully grown yet. Penises usually keep growing until about the age of 23, on average.... (read in full...)
I took back my husband after he cheated on me twice
Q. Hi, It's me. You know, my husband cheated a 2nd time. Well I went with my heart and took him back. I know that it's crazy but that's where my heart is and I know that I have to live with that decision. We have agreed to go to see a counselor and ...
A. 26 March 2009: You can't have a passive attitude. Having a passive attitude shows that you are OK with him leaving, and you really are NOT! You want this marriage to work out or else you would not be back to him after he cheated 2 times. What you need to do is ... (read in full...)
Opinions please... Should I go for it and ask her out when I see her tomorrow?
Q. So I met this girl today in an outdoor extra credit thing for my environmental studies class. We were talking for a little while and worked together on a few things we had to do, and I felt she was showing a bit of interest but can't be positive... ...
A. 26 March 2009: Yeah, I think it would be actually very suave of you to go up to her tomorrow and ask her for a number. And then after you get it and have it in your phone say, "Great, we should hang out sometime!"
Then, after a few days (most people say 3 da... (read in full...)
He lied..he still checks girls out!
Q. Ok.....so in the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship I said that I dont like when he checks girls out because I find it to be disrespectful to me...and he said "ok, but iv been doing it my whole life, but if you give me some time I can ...
A. 25 March 2009: Almost every guy is going to look at other girls. It's about as common as girls going "ooo, Brad Pitt is hot", or "McDreamy really is dreamy", or "that guy over there is cute".... (read in full...)
I don't understand what's going on, was he just using me?
Q. I meet this lad a few month's ago on a night out, we exchanged numbers and that was it, He was texting me for a while after but I started to back off as I had just come out of a realationship and he was getting a little too serious for me, telling ...
A. 25 March 2009: He sounds like a player. I would let it pass. You don't sound like you are really heavily into this guy and this guy is just playing the field. In my opinion, it's not worth your time and you should try to find someone who's more open to ... (read in full...)
Child porn located on his computer! Now what?
Q. Hi i recently found numerous videos of child pornography (VERY VERY GRAPHIC TITLES AND HORRIBLE FREEZE FRAMES, NEVER WATCHED BY ME I CAN ONLY STARE AT THE SAVED FILES)on both my boyfriends computers, both of which the children use and his profiles ...
A. 25 March 2009: Call the police now! Call them before he has a chance to delete them and, yes, data can be recovered on disks even if he does delete them. But it can be costly to prosecutors to do so. So, please go call the police now.... (read in full...)
Why does my friend have 2 boyfriends when I cant even get 1??
Q. My friend has had 2 boyfriends for over a year now and its really not fair because I cant even get one. I've been told that I'm really attractive but guys just want to sleep with me and nothing else. And I dont sleep around, I make the guy wait a wh...
A. 25 March 2009: First off, your friend does not have two boyfriends... she has two people she is involved with. A boyfriend (or girlfriend from my perspective) is someone you are loyal to and, when given that title, you are saying you are solely with. Therefore ... (read in full...)
Should I sit down and talk to him?
Q. Well tonight he said "we need to stop this because I am starting to get to attached to you, and I'm afraid what will happen if I actually do get attached." SO now what I think I need to sit down and talk to him, what do you think? To all those wh...
A. 25 March 2009: My 4 words, literally: he's afraid of commitment.... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if a guy touches your vagina with his erect penis?
Q. I've looked everywhere but I cannot find the answer to this question. Can you get pregnant if a guy does not get an erection but touches your vagina with his penis? ...
A. 25 March 2009: The reason you probably haven't gotten an answer is this: it's hard to tell.
It's pretty sure that an unerect penis can't get you pregnant because it hasn't produced any precum yet. However, if he got aroused enough to produce precum, then, ye... (read in full...)
Should my baby have my last name?
Q. I have a baby with my boyfriend he doesn't plan on getting married to me. In fact he's already married to another woman. Their relationship is rocky and he wants a child to have his last name even though we're not married. Should my baby have my ...
A. 25 March 2009: I'm going to be blunt: screw the guy wanting to have the baby to have his last name!!!!! The baby should have your last name.
I say this because this guy is NOT your husband (in fact, he's NOT your boyfriend... he's married). He has no claim on... (read in full...)
What's after the 'honey-moon' stage?
Q. What is a relationship suppose to feel like after the initial "honeymoon" stage?...
A. 25 March 2009: I have had only one serious relationship, so I don't feel quite qualified to answer this fully. I will say that the "honeymoon" stage is only a reference to the point in a couple's relationship where they don't really fight and just absolutely love ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend always makes me jealous
Q. So my girlfriend is always making me jealous..and she knows it. I hate that feeling i get, she knows i don't like it, yet she keeps doing it..i don't want to keep feeling this... And i've never made her jealous before.. What can i do? If anything....
A. 25 March 2009: Feeling jealous sucks. Especially when it's explicitly to make you feel so. However, I don't think you're telling us enough information to properly dissect the situation. Either she's doing stuff that would make any man jealous or you could jus... (read in full...)
Do I just like sloppy seconds or what?
Q. I just found out my girlfriend lost her virginity to a player, and this same guy has had sex with all 3 girlfriends I've ever had. I don't care that she has a past, thats her business. What is bothering me is that this guy, A.J. had had ...
A. 25 March 2009: You know what? In recalling my last post, I'm going to add this:
To anyone who has no right (no right = anyone other than family and good friends) to talk crap about your relationship with this girl: #(*%#@$%)!(*%)# them!! Seriously tell the... (read in full...)
Do I just like sloppy seconds or what?
Q. I just found out my girlfriend lost her virginity to a player, and this same guy has had sex with all 3 girlfriends I've ever had. I don't care that she has a past, thats her business. What is bothering me is that this guy, A.J. had had ...
A. 25 March 2009: Having someone talk trash/crap about your girlfriend, let it be something small or big, is always very irritating. However, you should take solace in the fact that she also gets very hurt by the comment. This means that she regrets that it ever ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with a friends' wife
Q. I have fallen in love with a friends wife. The problem is she has fallen in love with me. From the very beginning we both knew the attraction was ther. After 8 months of nothing but talking we finally got together for passionate love. This ...
A. 25 March 2009: Please fill in one detail for us: are you still with your wife?... (read in full...)
What do you think I should do about what this guy (jerk) said about me?
Q. This guy I work with is very nice and friendly to me when I visit him at his office (I am a contractor to his company). He treats me like he likes me as a friend. I encountered him last Friday at the mall and he was making a move on a girl in a c...
A. 25 March 2009: You are a contractor, so be weary of loosing your job. I'm a consultant, so I could get "rolled off" by the client if they don't like me. They really don't have to have a reason.
Seeing as our lines of work are close, I would probably assume t... (read in full...)
He is going to ask me out tomorrow but I don't know if I like him... Help!
Q. Okay there is this boy that is on my bus and he likes me but I don't know if I like him back. What do I do? Tomorrow he is going to ask me out but what do I tell him? I have no clue what to do??? Help! ...
A. 25 March 2009: Just say no. If you don't know if you like him, then it's probably better to just not start a relationship.... (read in full...)
Teacher Love?
Q. ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...
A. 25 March 2009: Great, Olive! You are brave for emailing your counselor and you definitely did the appropriate thing! I am giving you a standing ovation. :)... (read in full...)
I'm so confused... Does he like me or what???
Q. Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and I have a student-teacher(you know a person in college training to become a teacher), he acts like he like me. He is 22. Here are the things that he does: 1. When he was supposed to be watching the whole class to s...
A. 24 March 2009: I second what kellyxxx said entirely...
Also will throw out there that if he begins to do anything more than he is already doing, then report him to your principal or your real teacher immediately! Right now he is just being annoying and creepy..... (read in full...)
Teacher Love?
Q. ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...
A. 24 March 2009: Everyone who has already posted has some very good insight for you. Read it and take it to heart!
I am also going to say one more thing that will be harsh that I'm sure the other posters were also thinking: he's taking advantage of you and your... (read in full...)
I'm really confused would he still wants sex with me yet he has a girlfriend
Q. HI guys, ive just started talking 2 my ex again, i said id lend him money which i have done before, i said 2 him he can give it bk 2 him when ever he can, but then he goes and replys yeah im sexually favs, i mean yeah i still like him, and have slep...
A. 24 March 2009: I agree with CrazyMine... don't stereotype us. I am strictly a 1 girl man and there's not anything you could do to get me to change that. :D... (read in full...)
Why can't I get wet during sex?
Q. i had sex with my ex boyfriend, actually he was my first. we had sex multiple of times but i could never get wet for him.when i masturbate i get really wet so i dont get it .i have a new boyfriend now and we've been dating for awhile and i want to ...
A. 24 March 2009: Alright, no one else has, so I need to comment on your age. You are in the 13-15 group and anyone in that age really is too young to be having sex, in my opinion. The clearest reason why is being highlighted here and called out by the previous two ... (read in full...)
I was too drunk to remember what I'd done!!!
Q. I'm 14, my sister is 15. She's dating a 16 year old who has a 14 year old sister, 24 year old brother and a 26 year old step brother. My sister's bf had a massive birthday party for his 16th and I was invited as I'm friends with his younger her ...
A. 23 March 2009: Go talk to your parents. Just be forward and tell them what had happened in detail. They will be supportive of you. They will also help press charges against these two sleazebags!! And you'll need them to get the morning after pill as you have ... (read in full...)
Recently I have started having feelings for my friend's gf and iI don't know what to do
Q. my best best friend has a gf. they have been dating for quite a while now. a year and a bit in fact. they are very happy and are intimate. i myself have a gf but we never talk and the love just isn't there. recently i have started having feelings...
A. 23 March 2009: Just don't act on them or express them in any way to her or to your buddy. You will go through life and will always have crushes and the like on people, and sometimes you just have no choice but to not act on those feelings.
If you do choose t... (read in full...)
I really want to get over his cheating, but I don't know how...
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me back in October, two girls in two nights, and I still haven't gotten over it. I told him I forgive him, because I love him, but since then it hasn't been the same. I really want to get over this, but I don't know h...
A. 23 March 2009: 2 girls in 2 nights?
I'd say ditch the man and find someone who respects you!... (read in full...)
Does Enzite REALLY work?
Q. Is there any way to make your penis larger. I hear about things like enzite and all these others that make it bigger but do they really work? Do you have to keep taking them to keep it big, does it just make your erection big, or does it make your ...
A. 23 March 2009: I do not believe that it does.
http://www.coreynahman.com/enzyte-information-review.html
Besides, how big are you anyway? Average penis size is 5-6 inches. If you're right around there, you have nothing to worry about!... (read in full...)
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