Does Enzite REALLY work?
Q. Is there any way to make your penis larger. I hear about things like enzite and all these others that make it bigger but do they really work? Do you have to keep taking them to keep it big, does it just make your erection big, or does it make your ...
A. 23 March 2009: I do not believe that it does.
http://www.coreynahman.com/enzyte-information-review.html
Besides, how big are you anyway? Average penis size is 5-6 inches. If you're right around there, you have nothing to worry about!... (read in full...)
His friend Katie is getting to close to him for comfort!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I love him to pieces. I'm not a jealous girlfriend and I know I can trust him but he has this friend called Katie and she fancies him. She is all over him all the time. She tried to kiss him in front of ...
A. 23 March 2009: I don't think you have anything to worry about if he pushed her back when she tried to kiss him. Although, it would probably help to talk to him about this friend of his and tell him how you feel.... (read in full...)
Should I transfer to be with my boyfriend?
Q. Should I transfer schools,leave my family and friends (birthplace) just to live with my boyfriend that is in the Navy?...
A. 23 March 2009: Oh, and don't do anything until you finish school.
(I really wish there was an edit button, haha)... (read in full...)
Should I transfer to be with my boyfriend?
Q. Should I transfer schools,leave my family and friends (birthplace) just to live with my boyfriend that is in the Navy?...
A. 23 March 2009: Ultimately it's your decision. My story: I almost transferred across seas to be with my girlfriend. Yes, we questioned what would happen if we had broken up, but my thought to that was always: "It was right at the moment, so I have no regret in ... (read in full...)
Not having my period a week later mean anything?
Q. I am 19. My bf and I always use a condom when we have sex but about a month ago when we were messing around I sat on his lap with his penis in me for a few seconds, and we didn't think anything about it. But we started worrying when I didn't have my ...
A. 22 March 2009: Yup, same happened with my girlfriend. She took 2 and they both turned negative. We still had to wait another week before her period came.
Sounds just you're way overburdened with stress. Again, just try to reduce your stress levels someway.... (read in full...)
Using me??Guys?Are they all the same?
Q. About 2 weeks ago I met a guy he was gr8. I liked him I thought he liked me, well I did it. I had sex with him . We never went out on a date, after our first time together he brought up us being together. I was down with it so now he is my ...
A. 21 March 2009: Sad to say, it could be very plausible that he is using you if you always have to make the first contact. 2 days, however, may not be long enough to tell.
This is my suggestion to you (I'm not a girl, so this may not be the BEST thing to do, haha... (read in full...)
Not having my period a week later mean anything?
Q. I am 19. My bf and I always use a condom when we have sex but about a month ago when we were messing around I sat on his lap with his penis in me for a few seconds, and we didn't think anything about it. But we started worrying when I didn't have my ...
A. 21 March 2009: This sounds familiar to a situation minus what my girlfriend and I went through. Although, we have never had penetration without a condom (I'm sure you will after this, but always use a condom).
For starters: yes, it could mean that you're p... (read in full...)
3 days after period unprotected sex..pregnant?
Q. I got my period this month.I had unprotected sex 3 days later.He cumed. but I didin't feel any cum go in me.Could I be pregnant?...
A. 21 March 2009: Get a pregnancy test because, yes, you could become pregnant. Even if he pulled out, there is still sperm in pre-cum. Also, start using condoms. At the very least, get on the pill. You should not be having sex without some kind of protection an... (read in full...)
I feel I've got over her really quickly, is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 almost and my ex and I broke up like a week ago or so and she has hurt me a lot by cheating on me with her ex that cheated on her. She got drunk and didn't tell me and she smoked for over 3 years now and she just told me a couple weeks ...
A. 21 March 2009: Go have fun exploring your love for the new girl.
This other girl just sounds like trouble all around. Cheating with the ex who cheated on her, drinking heavily & smoking at 15, and overall just not interested in your care for her (in other wo... (read in full...)
First meeting...
Q. I am likely to meet a friend I have made and have been corresponding with almost daily for 7 months!Please help me. I am nervous about chatting to men informally and terrifed that I won't know what to say to him when I meet him in person. Our ...
A. 21 March 2009: You're very welcome.
Also, so you know, he'll be nervous too :D
hehe
Have a fun coffee/lunch/afternoon with him!... (read in full...)
Help me please... I'm so confused!
Q. My partner of two years broke up with me because he got addicted to his computer game, his computer in general his world was the game. His friend got him totally addicted to it as soon after we spent a night at his friends house in North wales. I...
A. 21 March 2009: Yeah, I hate MMORPGS because they can cause addiction so easily.
I would agree that it's a good idea to run to his house and talk to him in person. That way his friend can't stop you (obviously do it unannounced) or "delete" what you say. Al... (read in full...)
Libyan's problem!
Q. Can you help me mates? I'm so happy to have found such a helpful website. I'm 22, a hotty and sweet boy as I was told by loads of friends. One day it was pissing with rain outside. I went 2 my mate's room. I was feeling cold, so he brought me a ...
A. 21 March 2009: Sometimes you can't help. The excitement is just too much and you finish quickly. It's just like when any guy looses his virginity... we're always quick the first time and "normal" (if you will) almost every other time (there are times even now ... (read in full...)
First meeting...
Q. I am likely to meet a friend I have made and have been corresponding with almost daily for 7 months!Please help me. I am nervous about chatting to men informally and terrifed that I won't know what to say to him when I meet him in person. Our ...
A. 21 March 2009: Just relax, take deep breaths and just think that it's no different than talking to him online. If you just can't relax, tell him in a jokingly, funny way that you're really nervous. "Sorry, I'm really nervous" is all.
He'll think it's funny an... (read in full...)
Masturbation, brothel... or just wait?
Q. Hi everyone, Couple of days back I came to know about this forum and finally decided to ask my problem. Actually I came to London about 1 and half years ago. I am married but I am living without family here... and it's been same time without hav...
A. 21 March 2009: I'm pretty sure your spouse is definitely as lonely as you. Is there any possibility that she can join you in London, too?
Agreeing with anonymous, do not cheat!! It'll make things much, much worse! Brothel or not.
You should turn to m... (read in full...)
Help me please... I'm so confused!
Q. My partner of two years broke up with me because he got addicted to his computer game, his computer in general his world was the game. His friend got him totally addicted to it as soon after we spent a night at his friends house in North wales. I...
A. 21 March 2009: Sounds like he has an addiction. Yes, I am a huge video gamer myself (I play a lot, but only when I'm not with my girlfriend or can't talk to her).
My guess is that it's an MMORPG (World of Warcraft, Everquest, etc.) and people can seriousl... (read in full...)
What was he REALLY saying?
Q. Last night my best friend (and crush) and I were watching the movie Crank. There was a scene where the guy was high and his girlfriend didn't even notice so I commented that she was not a very good girlfriend to not notice the change in her ...
A. 20 March 2009: I think I'm going to disagree with everyone by saying that there is no double entendre here. To me, I think he was just challenging you to whether you could really be able to tell or not. However, that doesn't mean you can't capitalize on the ... (read in full...)
He won't take no for an answer, I'd really like to have a man's point of view on this one please.
Q. I have had a male friend for a few years now, he`s ten years older than me and married. All he wants to talk about is sex, he`s tried every trick in the book to get his way too. Although I want to stay friends with him I`m not intrested in ...
A. 20 March 2009: I'm too tired to read the other replies, but I'm just going to be blunt in my response: drop him as a friend. You're his friend because you feel you share interests at some level. He's you're friend because he wants to get with you. Considerin... (read in full...)
How long should I wait for a pregnancy test?
Q. hello. Please, I am a little bit scared. My period is late for 4 days. I am normally on time, and normally I get symptons that will let me know I will have my period soon, like a lot of small spots, get grumpy and abdominal pain. I have had none. ...
A. 20 March 2009: FirstResponse pregnancy tests are accurate within the first week, if not within the first few days. Other pregnancy tests are accurate at the 5 day mark plus. From personal research (due to a personal experience) I will tell you that it is prove... (read in full...)
DO men really love their girlfriends or wives if they are capable of treating them like that?
Q. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has spat on me, called be a whore, thrown a candle into the bathtub, he has accused me of meeting with someone during the 15 minutes that he was gone and I was sitting in the bathtub before putting on my ...
A. 20 March 2009: MOVE ON....
that's all I really need to say... please, move on from him and find someone else!!!!
I will add this: it sounds like he's repeating what he learned from when he was young. Most likely his father was very abusive to his mother/th... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he ask me out? Is he only after one thing?
Q. I am currently dating this guy that I have know for a couple of months. We havent been on a real date yet because he doesnt have money right now but he promised to take me out once he does. The first night we got together (granted he was drunk) he ...
A. 20 March 2009: The anonymous writer below (starting with "sounds like") makes some pretty good points. And I call that out to just reiterate them. I will add this: my gf of over a year and I started dating no more than 4 weeks after we first met each other (... (read in full...)
We have only ever had dry sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, ...
A. 19 March 2009: Guitarist makes a good point... he also made me remember of another condition guys can have: delayed ejaculation. Basically it boils down to that it can take forever if never for some guys to finish. Just chemistry.
Also, the condition of what ... (read in full...)
What kind of woman/girl would you go for?
Q. For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to ...
A. 19 March 2009: For starters, I will say there are exceptions to my likes below, but here you go:
1) Brunette (you'll find it interesting that I tend to lean away from blonds -- I just don't like the hair color, before anyone starts making assumptions)
2) Curv... (read in full...)
His ex's anniversary is coming up and I don't know how to handle it...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for like four months. I know he was in a 4 year relationship a year ago or so, his and his ex's anniversary is coming up and I don't know how to handle it, like do what, take him out or leave him alone or what? ...
A. 19 March 2009: Don't even acknowledge it... he wont (or shouldn't), so neither should you. It's not longer an important date to anyone involved here because they aren't seeing each other anymore and it isn't your guys' anniversary date :)... (read in full...)
We have only ever had dry sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, ...
A. 19 March 2009: Well, if he really is finishing (believe me, you can tell when a guy finishes typically), then he might have a condition where the semen is actually traveling into his bladder instead of out the front. Some guys are unfortunate to have this defect.... (read in full...)
Why won't he take my clothes off or touch me?
Q. i like this guy, ihave been the one to ask him to have sex when we do it he won't tkake my cloth off, he will alwys do it from the back and won't evene take my underwear off. he won't touch my body, he ...
A. 19 March 2009: Potentially it's a fetish of his? Making love fully clothed? Why not just straight up ask him why he doesn't undress you?... (read in full...)
I don't know what to consider this? Sexual assault?
Q. I'm trying to figure out what happened. There is a bar that i frequently go to and yesterday, St. Patrick's Day I met one of my friends up there for a little celebration. We began bar hopping on the strip and i we both ended back up at the bar we...
A. 19 March 2009: Also, it is always better to take a taxi than to get a ride home from a stranger! Even if it costs you $30 or $50 bucks... (read in full...)
I don't know what to consider this? Sexual assault?
Q. I'm trying to figure out what happened. There is a bar that i frequently go to and yesterday, St. Patrick's Day I met one of my friends up there for a little celebration. We began bar hopping on the strip and i we both ended back up at the bar we...
A. 19 March 2009: He took advantage of your drunken state, it sounds like. In other words, he raped you. You could probably press charges, if you'd like. I know that where I live that this scenario actually classifies as rape and people have been charged with it ... (read in full...)
Why has he not got back to me?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for about 4 months. We have been calling each other more and more often now. We even discussed on going out, but we have never been on a date. He called me last friday while I was over a friend's house and I answered. ...
A. 19 March 2009: For starters, don't push so hard. Calling him every day might be setting him off a bit. To be blunt, you might be giving off the impression of being clingy if you guys have not been calling on the phone every day before this.
Judging by your age... (read in full...)
Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?
Q. Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front ...
A. 19 March 2009: Ok, I spoke out too quickly. I still standby my initial rant of no you shouldn't take him back, but you shouldn't exile him for your child's life. I would suggest you two to consider getting council and/or therapy together.... (read in full...)
Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?
Q. Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front ...
A. 19 March 2009: NOOOO!!! Please no. You should find a man that will treat you... verbally, physically, and mentally. You shouldn't have a man that constantly harasses you.... (read in full...)
Kissing someone else considered cheating?
Q. Everytime i asked him if he found someone else he told me i was crazy. when really he was spending alot of time with this girl behind my back. When he found out that i knew he confessed that he kissed her and im thinking he obviously liked her ...
A. 19 March 2009: Let me amend my post: working it out means that you have to tell him to not hang out with her anymore. Although, I will say that one problem is that I tend to believe that people have the tendency to repeat doing things. So, you never know if he'd ... (read in full...)
How can I explain to my boyfriend that me and Ty are JUST friends?
Q. So here goes, I have been best friends with this guy Ty since we were around 2 years old. His mom and my mom are BFF we spend thanksgiving and vacations together stay at each others homes blah blah blah you get it right? Anyhow I had a huge party...
A. 19 March 2009: Lauryn, I think you just stated one of the biggest reasons a lot of guys have a problem with their girlfriend's best guy friend. And that is you would choose the best friend over the boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Kissing someone else considered cheating?
Q. Everytime i asked him if he found someone else he told me i was crazy. when really he was spending alot of time with this girl behind my back. When he found out that i knew he confessed that he kissed her and im thinking he obviously liked her ...
A. 19 March 2009: Most people will tell you yes. In fact, I think you'd be hard pressed to find anyone who will tell you "no".
Really the line between OK and cheating is something that you and your bf have to define. For my gf and me, we draw the line at anything... (read in full...)
Does wearing specs mean I'm a geek?
Q. Whats your view as society on people who wear spectacles.? Recently i moved in to a new college and i am taking science and math classes. people call me a geek. Should i stop wearing them???...
A. 5 March 2009: I'm going to counter you with this question: Who cares? My current girlfriend thinks I'm incredibly hot without my glasses on, but thinks I'm just as handsome with them on. In other words, glasses or not, you are a person behind those specs!... (read in full...)
How effective are condoms? I don't want to get pregnant
Q. Hey people. Me an my boyfriend are about to have sex an he is goin to use a condom. but i'm so afraid i'm goin to get pregnant. A lot of my friends are saying i won't. But i don't know. I really want to do this. I'm not gettin birth control but how ...
A. 5 March 2009: These posts below are right. Condoms are highly effective and grabbing one with spermicidal lube helps more for effectiveness.
However, let me add this: condoms are actually 99.99% effective if you use them properly!! The only reason condoms ... (read in full...)
We are drifting apart in the bedroom, how can I sort this?
Q. I have been married 19 years and it seems we are drifting apart in the bedroom, she doesn't seem to want to make love any more. What can I do to corect this? drifter ...
A. 5 March 2009: I think both repliers (damluvaam and OtherStarfish) are right in a way. You are not providing us with enough information to get a full idea of the situation here. Providing us with more details would allow us to help you defuse the situation ... (read in full...)
What is the average size for a Mexican's penis?
Q. ummm i was wondering what the average penis size for a mexican was? because my hubby is a mexican. it isnt big but not to small....
A. 5 March 2009: Here's a good statistic for you:
Most women can't handle more than 4-6 inches anyway. Once a man reaches that point they are hitting a portion in your body where you get hurt because they are hitting your cervix... so if he's beyond 4", be happy... (read in full...)
How do I give the perfect blowjob?
Q. Hiya could anyone give advise on how do give the perfect blow job? X...
A. 5 March 2009: I agree with the responses: communication. The thing is every guy gets off differently. One stroke wont hit a guy the same as the next.
My suggestion (and this is working with my current girlfriend) is to make him give you audio clues as to ho... (read in full...)
Why do people like seeing their partner sexually excited by someone else?
Q. Why do folks like seeing their partner sexually excited by someone else?...
A. 5 March 2009: Honestly, I think something is wrong. I would be incredibly pissed and seriously turned off if my girlfriend ever got turned on by someone else.
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Anyway, more subjectional:
Let's break this down...
... if you are the person get... (read in full...)
How do guys stay so skinny?
Q. Obviously I know everyone is different but the majority of men are so skinny. I exercise a lot and watch what I eat but I cant seem to lose weight and so many of my guy friends eat absolute crap and never exercise and they are sticks! Its just not ...
A. 5 March 2009: It has nothing to do with male vs female... it has everything to do with metabolism at the age/sex you are speaking of. Some people are blessed with high metabolism and others are not. Also, men tend to work themselves to death at the gym because ... (read in full...)
My friends think I'm sick for having a crush on my 56 year old teacher!
Q. So...I'm a sixteen year old girl who is MADLY in love with her 56 year old World History teacher (who just so happens to be married with kids who are older than me!). All of my friends are so disgusted and think I'm sick! I don't know what to do! ...
A. 4 March 2009: Honestly, stop... you're only 16 and you're talking about a guy who is happily married with children. If you do anything, you chance ruining his life to jail time. If you really care about him, do not let anything happen!!!... (read in full...)
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