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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Need some advice! I have a male friend who's been in love with me for years and years. At the start of this year I proposed that we get together to see if there was any spark, he was seeing someone else at the time so said no at first but then ended it with the other girl. I was also very good friends with his best mate, we'd been spending a lot of time together and I started to have feelings for him too. Long story short I chose his best mate and we were together for about 6 months. I was treated pretty badly at times so I know it's for the best and I now realise I chose wrong. The first guy has a new gf, they've been seeing eachother for about 2 months and I think he really likes her but I know he'd still have feelings for me too. I don't know whether to just wait until he's single (which may never happen) or say something? We are so alike and would make a great couple and most people agree and would love us to be together but I just don't know if I can tell him how I feel. I don't want him to hate me!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Stop messin' with this guys emotions, it sounds like you only want him when you can't have him or there's no-one better around.
If they break up, THEN you can say something.
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Maybe just start hanging out with him more. Be a really goof friend and let him decide to dump her on his own
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reader, cupcake3 +, writes (9 December 2010):
Honestly i would tell him. He might never be single and you will regret your decision all ur life. I would simply say to him that you made a horrible mistake and how you feel about him, then say that you want him back but if he doesnt then you understand and youre always there for him when he needs you
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