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writes:My really good girl friend is in love with my best friend and he doesn't feel the same way.. because he likes me. i feel horrible because i like him back. my friend doesn't know. should i go out with him?
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (7 December 2010):
 You stated he's YOUR "BEST" FRIEND and she's a good friend friend. And not other way around. I would talk to her as Mjfbla suggested, it's hard to find relationships wheres he's your BEST FRIEND also! She will be hurt at first, but she'll be get over it. Good luck! And besides he's not feeling her! She can't have someone that don' want her. ijs!
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reader, Archon +, writes (7 December 2010):
This is a difficult situation for everyone involved. If you are interested in your best friend and he is interested in you, there should be no reason not to act on those feelings provided that you go about it properly. First, he needs to tell your female friend that he isn't interested in her, that he is interested in you. Next, you will have to talk to your female friend about your feelings for your best friend. You need to make sure that she knows you haven't been going behind her back on this. You also need to make sure that she is ok with the two of you dating. If she isn't, then you may be forced to choose between friendships, and a relationship. They are hard choices, but you can let people linger in limbo either or you risk losing them entirely.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 December 2010):
 You should talk to your friend first. you cant let somone elses feelings stop urs. BUT she prolly will take it wrong and stop being friends with you for a while. Heads up
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reader, Mejersy  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 I don't think you should go out with him because it'll really crush your friend's heart.if you want to keep your friendship with her then dont go out with him.and also try to make him understand.
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