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I experimented with my male friend, but decided to go back to females. Why is he so upset?
Q. I’m a young man and I’ve trouble with a friend. I’m very outgoing person, I like to try new things and everything new. My friend is gay and although I’m straight, I thought that I’m living only once and decided I want to try something with another ...
A. 25 January 2013: although he agreed.he probably feel used.then fell for you during the whole experiment.so give him time.he might just get used to the idea of you not into anything serious... (read in full...)
Online date turned out to be much bigger than I expected. How do I let her know I am not physically attracted without hurting her?
Q. Hi so recently i set up a profile on a dating site. I was contacted by a girl that looked really cute. We talked for a bit exchanged phone numbers, and texted a bunch, she was really cool and we had some common interests. We met up recently and i ...
A. 25 January 2013: through the pic exchanges i think you shouldve asked for a full body pic..then you would know that you wana meet her or not..this is sad and you probably lifted her hopes up for nothing!... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my best friend/boyfriend? Or end things?
Q. Hello, I am a 21 year old female and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. When I first met him, we had a wonderful relationship...about 8 months into it, he started drifting away. He wanted to spend more time with his friends and not ...
A. 25 January 2013: no. You gotta put your happiness first and he clearly aint doing that.he puts you last on his list..filming you during sex without your knowledge + he cheated on you. Aaaaah come on my sister..this is not the one for you.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend controlling or normal?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just 4 months now but we have been seeing eachother since last July. He is honestly, the most caring, loving, gentle man I have ever come across ( and I am not saying that because he is my boyfriend ). I have just ...
A. 25 January 2013: he is controlling you yes.and you already know it. But the question is wat are you gonna do abt it? Are you gonna wait till things gets more intense for you? Or will you leave before it gets totally out of control?... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my guy friend for sleeping with my then girlfriend?
Q. I am not completely sure how forgiveness works. I don't know when to let go of something, or to hold onto it -- I either do or I don't, and that is that. I have a question about forgiving and forgetting. To ask it, I feel I should give the story ...
A. 25 January 2013: i think you care about your friend and i believe you guys can still be friend..let bygones be gone oryt.Try for the sake of what you guys had/have!... (read in full...)
Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?
Q. Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...
A. 25 January 2013: how could you let your husband shag that woman? Doesnt it bother you... (read in full...)
My relationships end so terribly that I really get affected. I am done with love!
Q. In all the relationships ive had not one has ended without me being affected i become so depressed i even stop eating and eventually lose weight,the problem is i love too much without even leaving room for dissappointment.i dont think i will ever ...
A. 24 January 2013: Give yourself a break. Take a month or two on the dating scene. You will find somebody honest and loving. I thought like you once, then I met a wonderful great man. We will get married soon. And in love, just leave room for disapointment and plzzz ... (read in full...)
A virgin dating a player. I'm scared about having sex with him!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm dating a well known business man of my city,and even before I knew him I'd read about how he's a player and is not really looking for a relationship,I never ever thought for the life of me I'd date him some day!so when I got into...
A. 24 January 2013: lets hope he wont change after you sex him..just keep telling him you're not ready till u r and until u believe he is the one u wanna do it with... (read in full...)
She went to give me oral sex and I lost my erection! Why?
Q. Well my girlfriend was going to give me a blowjob. It was the first time she'd done it and it was the first time for me. Now this gonna sound creepy but for the whole 30 min walk back to my house, just by holding her hand I had an erection so it's ...
A. 22 January 2013: oops! I believe it wont happen again.maybe it was nerves.try not to worry and try again once... (read in full...)
Should I ask my friend for permission to sleep with her husband?
Q. Apologies for the length of this but I think it's important to have the details.. the devil is always in the details... Me: I'm single and approaching 50. It's been a few years since my last serious relationship but I'm fine with that. Having see...
A. 22 January 2013: i think you should look for someone else.. So many horny men out there looking to get laid.if i was you id think twice then say nah ah. Its not gonna happen... (read in full...)
Why do some women find aggressive behaviour in men a turn on? I don't get the female mind!
Q. Hey all I have a question on the confusing female mind! I was chatting with a couple of women recently and they both confused the hell out of me. One had slept with some chavy guy who she regretted sleeping with but said she did it because the h...
A. 22 January 2013: well ppl are diferent.. And those women are not sane.who wants to be beat up and then have sex afterwards.? I dont get. They are not normal... (read in full...)
How do you go from being friends to friends with benefits?
Q. How do you go from being friends to friends with benefits. Heres the short version. I Met a guy december last year, foundnout gis nane and added him on fb. I basically told him straight out i only wanted sex and he did to. Well we.flirted (quite ...
A. 15 December 2012: i think he just wont tell you no.. Well maybe because he is not interested or maybe he is just not like all the other guys who would jump up to sex offers.. Anyways i think you should get a bf and forget about asking him again because there he is ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my wife's 22 year old niece that I want to be with her?
Q. For the past year or so I have dreampt of being with my wifes 22 yr old neice, Her and I spent a weekend together in July and the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. Ironically, I do believe it came from her too as when she was ...
A. 6 November 2012: hell no... Dont even think about it. You have a wife plz... (read in full...)
We broke up and I didn't say what I wanted to say. Should I go tell her now?
Q. Me and my gf split up this January after 5 years together. Her reason was; it wasnt working out. Well that was not surprising as she kept me a secret all that time from her family and friends because i am 17 years older than her. Id had enough of ...
A. 1 November 2012: goooo and tell her what u wanted to say. You will sleep better if you do so.. otherwise you wikl have this questions which you wont have answers for... (read in full...)
All he does is talk about sex and grope me. Is it lust? Or love?
Q. I have a bf... He was here before... But now is in another city for studies...i Trust him... We Dnt have Any kind of problems... He's also ready to talk to his parents abt us after both our education is over.... But whenever he comes down to meet ...
A. 1 November 2012: its probably lust. I mean why else is he busy talking sex all the time.maybe his just too horny for you.try and change the topic when he gets too busy talking about that... (read in full...)
We broke up a year ago and I still think of him, should I contact him?
Q. Its been a year now since my bf and I broke up. He cheated on me and shortly after we broke up he was in a relationship with her. We were together for three years. I haven't spoken seen or spoken to him since we broke up. It took me a while to get ...
A. 10 October 2012: dont even think about it.. If he wants to contact you and check if youre ok then he will,. He is the one who cheated not you.that showed he dont care about you. Dont call him... (read in full...)
Afraid that losing my virginity will hurt ...
Q. Ok so I'm terrified of losing my viginity. I'm in a relationship he's asked me to marry him but i know it won't last anyway i like this guy in school and i think he likes me back and i want to lose it to him. But im terrified of penetration. How bad ...
A. 29 September 2012: its the most painful experience ever so be prepared for pain. But this should be thought through. Some guys will do anything to get a virgin. After they get it they wil leave. Lets hope u know what you are letting urself into because once you do ... (read in full...)
Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex?
Q. Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex? I always have to initiate and then it's to pleasure him as he just lays there, maybe he touches my nipples, but that's it. He does not get ontop of me and have intercourse. ...
A. 12 July 2012: hey sweet lady.. I think this is one of the signs that he has lost interest in you. Cheating or having sex behind your back..he just wont tell you the truth as he walks away when you try to talk about it.... (read in full...)
I think we're into each other, but I'm not sure what to do.
Q. i'm in love with my friend's ex-girl, i'm afraid to tell her. It seems she loves me also coz she's been disturbing me with late night calls. What should i do?...
A. 12 July 2012: tell her how you feel..she might suprise you ... (read in full...)
We had only slept with each other, but during the 3 months we were apart he slept with 3 other women, including the girl he cheated on me with! What should I do?
Q. please can someone help me, im completely devestated and have no idea what to do :( my ex and I have been dating since we were kids and have been best friends for years. we've had our problems and have often worked them out, but have split up a few...
A. 15 February 2012: dear just cut your losses with him..he will hurt you again and again if u keep forgiving him...you deserve better..find someone who will appreciate you... (read in full...)
Too much friction when I'm on top!
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sex we seem to have a friction problem he does not shave, but I do shave and any time I am on top he will eventually say ouch from feeling the friction. It usually happens even if I am cleanly shaven ,but defiantly when ...
A. 27 January 2012: i think he shud try shaving as well.. See how it will go.if it dont work,try the pharmacy for some cream to use..i bet they have them.... (read in full...)
My friend hugs me and tells me not to get with other girls, and even lets me see her naked.. but says we're just friends...
Q. Ok so I have this coworker. I've been attracted to her from the first time I saw her. The second day I started working their I got her number but we never got to anything serious becuz she switched to nite shift. Then she called me the other day for ...
A. 30 March 2011: she likes you but its not goin to work as you r not ready for kids an she has a kid.just forget abowt her.... (read in full...)
She doesn't want us to split up, but she does want a break and to see other people which I cannot tolerate! What should I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years. It was my first real relationship, even she had relations befor with both girls and boys. Actually first with boys and then girls in which she decided that she is a lesbian. Before, we h...
A. 28 February 2011: oh gosh.thats a bit too much for both of you. You both need a break till you both decide what you want... (read in full...)
Why did this happen? Is he not interested in sex with me anymore?
Q. I was having sex with my bf of a year the other day. I was on top and he went a bit floppy, enough for it to keep falling out/being hard to get back in (sorry to be graphic). After about 5 mins he ended up finishing. Im just wondering if anyone h...
A. 28 February 2011: sometimes it means he is thinking about something else. Or he is not in the mood... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage and am afraid to tell my boyfriend
Q. I was 3 months pregnant and started having really bad tummy pains... My boyfriend, who i live with, said its just something to do with the pregnancy and told me not to worry about it, whilst he was doing his paper round i decided to talk to his mum ...
A. 31 January 2011: hey . Maybe this just a sign. A baby at your age is not a walk in a park. Sorry about your loss.if he dumps you for this.let him go.but tell hm what happened... (read in full...)
I want to tell him what makes me hot, but how?
Q. How do I explain to the guy I'm dating my favorite way of getting my nipples hard? I have large breasts (34ddd) so guys usually love them, and this guy is no exception (although I am quite small other than my breasts and feel a little imbalanced ...
A. 9 December 2010: dont be shy just say it.guys like open minded gals i thnk..tell him... (read in full...)
Now that I'm knocked up, he's nowhere to be found!
Q. I Am 6 months pregnant by a man i've been with for years. We had the perfect relationship before the baby,(so it seemed) but now NOTHINGS the same. Im finding out things now he did when we were together. He ignores me constantly and even broke it ...
A. 30 November 2010: oh my oh my he is selfish and just forget about him and focus on your pregnancy.you dont need stress rite now.be single for a while.you will get through it all.dont call him or beg him to be with you.let it go its hard i KNOW... (read in full...)
Help!!! Am I addicted... to sex?
Q. okay so i lost my virginity to a guy i honestly felt great feelings for at the time. we stayed together for 2 and a half years until i decided that something was missing. I broke it off then I found myself starting to like a guy three years older ...
A. 26 November 2010: you dont have a problem..you just cant hold yourself or maybe you want to prove that you like the guy by having sex too early in the relationship.you will have a good relationship if you cool yourself down..dont think sex a lot... (read in full...)
She humiliated me!
Q. I lost my virginity to a girl I really liked the other week but then I found out she only slept with me on a bet. I'm 18 and have never been that good with girls. There was this one girl at my college who I really liked but never had the guts to ...
A. 10 November 2010: just act like you dont care.i mean they are losers not you.your ed. Is very important so ignore all of them and do what your parents pay for...getting educated.... (read in full...)
My ex and I still have sex even though he has other women. Why can't I leave him?
Q. hi every body i need help. well first my son's father and i was together for about 2 years and a few months. yea it was my first relationship, first time in love, and my firsy baby. well we have been broken up for about a year now but we still ha...
A. 10 November 2010: maybe you feel like you will breakdown if you get out but you dont have a choice.you just have to move on because this ex of yours is just using you.i mean he has other women,just get youself out of that hole before you sink too deep.you will be ... (read in full...)
2 years never use condom, could I make a girl pregnant?
Q. Im having almost daily sex for around 2 years already and i never used condoms,but i never get any trouble because i hav never let the sperms go inside(except of few days after her period). is there any possibility if i make her pregnant even widout ...
A. 7 November 2010: even pre.cum can make a girl pregnant.use condoms if you dont want a baby.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never comes near my penis!
Q. Hi everyone. I've posted a few questions on here before. I'm still struggling with my relationship. To give you a bit of background, I'm a 23-year-old gay guy who has been in a relationship with a 53-year-old guy (huge age gap, I know!) for ...
A. 5 November 2010: tell him you cant satisfy him alone when he doesnt.or better yet JUST DUMP HIM.if he loves you he would make u happy... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?
Q. This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...
A. 4 November 2010: thats super super cool.dont be ashamed.being virgin is awesome as its so special.save it for as long as you want.id never dump a virgin lol.its a great gift.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!
Q. Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a ...
A. 4 November 2010: having sex for the 1st time means using condoms,to avoid getting pregnant,stis.if you think you are pregnant then get a home preg test to make sure.lets hope he wont freak out or leave you when you are pregnant.... (read in full...)
Watery bath???
Q. What does it do if you inject water in your ass? Can it be harmful?...
A. 4 November 2010: lmao.why would you want to inject your ass? I think it will be harmful.... (read in full...)
Milk produces more sperm?
Q. My boyfriend claims that drinking more milk means he produces more sperm. Is there any truth behind this? I find it difficult to believe that milk would do such a thing. ...
A. 4 November 2010: thats at myth.some believe lots of dairy products will produce more sperm but its just a myth... (read in full...)
How do you get somebody OFF your mind?
Q. I understand this might be a bit of a strange question and hard to answer so any types of responses will be appreciated :) I was just wondering how you stop thinking about someone. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we don't have an...
A. 30 October 2010: movies,music and hanging out with your friends will help but it will take time... (read in full...)
Does being on birth control make me a slut?
Q. I am 14 years old and i am on birth control without a bf does that make me a slut or a whore or anything on thoes means ???? ...
A. 29 October 2010: i think you are smart.Being on birth control doesnt make you a slut or a whore.... (read in full...)
I had an abortion when very young. Will I be able to get pregnant later?
Q. hi, i just want to ask some information about something. When i was 14 years old i sleep with my boyfriend 17 years old that time and got positive 6 weeks. when my mother find it out she was very very angry and tell me theres no way for her to...
A. 28 October 2010: you will get pregnant again but people are different.you can see a dr to make sure... (read in full...)
He is pressuring me to have sex with him...help!
Q. Hi everyone i need help bad! I'm 13 almost 14 and i'm dating a almost 17 year old. I really like him but he keeps pressuring me about sex. We already kiss, and I've given oral, but im not comfertable when i do it. He says i dont love him if i dont ...
A. 25 October 2010: if he slapped you for it,got angry just because you didnt do it then he is not the right.he wil just dump you after he gets what he wants from you.you love him but he wants sex thats all.if he loves you,he wouldnt pressure you... (read in full...)
I dream and then a week later the dream comes true?
Q. Most nights i dream some pretty weird dreams.. then like a week or so later my dreams come real. i dont know what it means?? is there any meaning?...
A. 22 October 2010: it means you have a gift.maybe the man upstairs wants you to do something and thats why you have these dreams.hope they are not bad ones... (read in full...)
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