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writes:How do I explain to the guy I'm dating my favorite way of getting my nipples hard? I have large breasts (34ddd) so guys usually love them, and this guy is no exception (although I am quite small other than my breasts and feel a little imbalanced sometimes).... Anyways he sucks on them really hard. But what I love is when a guy circles my nipples with his tongue over and over before taking them into his mouth .... I also want him to suck on my breasts all over, not just the nipples ....How do I tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): well, if he really loves you, you should just go straight out, and tell him. Think of how you would feel, if you were in his position and someone told you, what you want to tell him? how would you feel? Then decide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Just like you wrote here.
In fact, print this out, wait till a good private moment can happen and give it to him, have him read it, and tell him you want him to practice "right now"!
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 dont be shy just say it.guys like open minded gals i thnk..tell him
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 How about next time when you see he is closing in on your breasts, you just tell him? Why make a big problem out of it, just teach him how it's done.
Now the problem is if he can't be bothered to listen and learn. In which case I think it's a sign of him being selfish, a good partner will always seek to please the other before themselves!!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 just tell him! he'll be MORE than happy to 'help"
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Just flat out tell him what you like and turns you on. Nothin' beats direct communication :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Just ask him to. If it turns you on then tell him and he will enthusiastically do as you ask!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): If you ever have the chance to have this conversation on the phone with him, rather than right in the thick of the moment, then that could be a double whammy: a sexy bit of phone chat and you conveying the information all in one go. That would be my way forward.
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reader, ljhenhmla  +, writes (9 December 2010):
Just tell him be open he may tell u somthing that he like also goodluck
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Casually bring up the subject, by commenting ''I just printed this out from the internet. This sounds good to me. Can we try it?'' and hand him a print out of your question. When he does it for you go into superlatives and major praise when he does it. And request a repeat of ''those fantastic things you did to me last time''and more superlatives for the repeat. He will start to get the message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Next time he goes for you tits to suck on them just guide him through the process, step by step tell him what to do and then let him know how good that feels.
While we guys love playing with breasts the whole idea of us touching any part of a woman is to make her excited.
No big deal just guide him. The same as you would when he's giving you head.
Look you're the one he's trying to pleasure if he's not doing it the way that gives you the most pleasure then he really will want to know, he wants to drive you wild.
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