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I dream and then a week later the dream comes true?
Q. Most nights i dream some pretty weird dreams.. then like a week or so later my dreams come real. i dont know what it means?? is there any meaning?...
A. 22 October 2010: it means you have a gift.maybe the man upstairs wants you to do something and thats why you have these dreams.hope they are not bad ones... (read in full...)
Dreaming of having sex with some of my guy friends
Q. Well I don't kno how to start this off so ill just jump in to it. Lately I've been having dreams about having sex with some my guy friends but I don't think of them in that of way. I am not a virgin and I don't have a boyfriend at the moment. I ...
A. 21 October 2010: i heard some people saying dreams are things you think about during the day but in yo case you dont think of them in a sexual way rite.so i guess they are just dreams and they wil pass... (read in full...)
My friend got a married woman pregnant and now doesn't know what to do!
Q. please help to my friend. My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an ...
A. 21 October 2010: abortion is not how he will get out of the situation.things between them wil never be the same again.what if the woman wants the baby.he should sit down with this woman and discuss what they will do..... (read in full...)
I want him to french kiss me!
Q. My boyfriend said he wants to french kiss me, and i do too, but i dont know when he will. and i really want him to. help? ...
A. 21 October 2010: i dont think kisses have timing.when you guys are together you can hug,cuddle then just kiss.go with the flow.dont wait for him to decide when he wants to kiss,lol.if you want him just kiss him and see if he wil french kiss you back... (read in full...)
Bisexual or just curious
Q. Hey Guys and Gals... Don't know what I'm really looking for here, suppose its for someone to relate so it doesn't all feel so bizarre and illicit. Basically, I'm a straight girl, virgin, no real experience to speak of, but very into guys. I ...
A. 21 October 2010: id say you are curious.you are into guys rite..and i dont think wanting to try something makes you bi or lesbian unless you wil try it again and again then you'll be bisexual... (read in full...)
Husband is acting like a child. I need help with the 4 kids!
Q. ok. let me start by saying im 27 and my husband is 49. he works as mngmnt in meat dept and i am stay at home mom of 3 kids all under 4. my husband and i havnt made love in 9 months. he either sleeps or works outside for hours after he gets home and ...
A. 20 October 2010: all under 4,damn you realy do need his help and they do need their daddy.make dinner and sit him down and talk about his part in the house,it cant only be work all the time.he can help around.as for making love maybe he lost interest or scared you ... (read in full...)
My best friend is only using me till he gets a girlfriend
Q. I have been blowing my best friend since I was 16. Now I am 25. I’m gay, but my best friend is not. He really is straight. He will mostly watch straight or lesbo porn when I blow him. he let me do it because he’s ugly and he doesn’t have a ...
A. 20 October 2010: yea i agree that you shouldve kept quite but whats done is done.i agree with the others,he is bi if he let you blow him for so many years.you would be better off without him because you wil be hurt after he gets a gf.thats where his attention wil ... (read in full...)
I slept with him and now he's cold to me
Q. Hi, I need some boy advice! Ok so on my course that I'm doing where I'm nursing or training. There's this boy who I noticed first day! Very cute! He kept looking at 'me and we spent 4 weeks looking over at each other in lectures! I finally did some ...
A. 19 October 2010: reading your story i think he played you.you can just tell by the way he behaved after you slept together..dont talk to him for a while as he is being cold towards you.see if he will talk to you when you ignore him a bit.it must be painful working ... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 19 October 2010: slow love songs..maybe SPEECHLESs by MJ.... (read in full...)
Husband having sex with me while sleeping
Q. I'm a happily married woman but lately I've been encountering problems with my husband.first a roving eye which caused me to have a very low self confidence,then a porn addiction to which I was livid with, which he overcame or so I thought but now ...
A. 19 October 2010: he doesnt respect you at all.you have to leave him.or sleep in a seperate room and make sure you lock it just to feel safe.... (read in full...)
Tips to dump my boyfriend because we are always fighting
Q. Hi everyone! Can you plz give any tips to dump my bf of 3yrs because we always fighting, and he doesn't respect me, he says what ever he want,but i love him so so much,that my problem,i can see that i am just wasting my time with him, he told me ...
A. 19 October 2010: if you are tired then just tell him that.be upfront about it and dont wait another day.this guy doesnt respect you.find someone who will.its hard letting go of someone you love bt it has to be done if the person is not treating you right... (read in full...)
Was I good enough for him?
Q. I really need ur help Ive liked this guy for ages hes single and yes i have slept with him a few times and saturday nite was about the 5th time and that was me staying at his house anyway when he got home late saturday nite he came into my be...
A. 18 October 2010: i think he just wants to finish as fast as he can.and the reason he may be soft might be because he is thinking about something else.some guys just wants sex and when they had enough.they'll pretend they are enjoying so maybe you should cool it a ... (read in full...)
How do I make my relationship with my boyfriend age apropriate?
Q. Hi, I'm in a relationship with a boy tht is younger than me and all he can think about is sex, what do I do? I don't want just sex I want to cuddle hug be a cute couple together. Everytime I hug him he tries to touch me innapropriate I feel ...
A. 18 October 2010: you are not ready so tell him and make sure that he gets the message loud and clear.you are between 13-15 and sex is something serious.once you are in there is no turning back.maybe he just wants to use you.who knows?but next time he touches you ... (read in full...)
4 kids and now pregnant with twins!
Q. im pregnant with twins. im 27 years old. i did't tell none of my family members.im not in my own place. im staying with someone.i already have 4 kids. so what should i do?...
A. 14 October 2010: you can stay with the baby daddy.maybe he can help out with the kids and stuff.talk to a relative you trust.6 kids wil be a handful.gud luck... (read in full...)
We had sex, he came in me, and I tried to wash it out. Will that work?
Q. hey i need help well my boyfriend cum in me and i dnt know what to do, im really scard . it happen today and i when in bath and whased it out, well i tryed, so wat i do. xx...
A. 13 October 2010: it wont work.get the morning after pill and condoms and tell your bf to wear them next time... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 12 October 2010: some people do need others opinions to help them reach a decision.lots of people have problems and they cant talk to people close to them.its good askn people for help now and them.oh and good for you that you dont see this site useful to some of us ... (read in full...)
He's a transgender.so dating him would be awkward. What should I do?
Q. Hey, i hope you all can help me! Okay, so i will set the stage here. I am a sophomore in high school now, and i met this really great guy who is in a ton of my classes and is hilarious and cool. The problem? He's a transgender! He was born into a ...
A. 11 October 2010: well you can just follow your heart and stop being confused.he sounds like a good guy/girl.go with the flow and experience stuff... (read in full...)
We had sex and he orgasmed inside me..but didn't tell me!! What should I do?
Q. I was with my boyfriend in the car the other night and we were making out and it got to the point to where he wanted to have sex. i was resisting and he knew it and i even said no once but finally i gave in because he wasn't giving up. Then after i ...
A. 11 October 2010: damn. A guY who doesnt take no for an answer is a rapist.doesnt matter if its your bf.you said no and he pressured you.tell your mom,buy the morning after pill then maybe just break up with him.he wil do it again and again till you get pregnant.... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but it doesn't feel like I do...
Q. i have a boyfriend but it doesn't feel like i do because he doesn't hold my hand or call me . what is wrong with me ?...
A. 10 October 2010: i bet nothing is wrong with you.i know how that feels.but i know for sure that a guy who does that is not that into you.if you confront him he wil give you a lame excuse and lead you on.but like i said it has nothing to do wit h you... (read in full...)
Alcoholic at fifteen!
Q. this is nothing to do with relationships ,, but i am nearly 15 now and i am a alcholic ,, and i need to focas on my school work ,, how do i cope with not being able to drink and no stress ,, because whenever i dont drink i am stressed ,, hense why i ...
A. 10 October 2010: just stop thinking about alcohol because if you do think about it thats when you have the urge to drink.quit while you still this young.you can do some things with your family etc.go to church.Jesus wil save you if you believe.pray hard.... (read in full...)
(User's title) Am I a phantom?
Q. I'm new to this site and I seen that it gives advice, so I figured why not to join, right? I always wanted to know why... Can't I get a guy that will treat me like a princess, maybe I'm misfortunate enough to go for the pricks.. I'm not sure, I ...
A. 10 October 2010: i think you are awesome and you should wait for the rite person but how do we know if we have found the right person?its hard.guys who treat girls like princesses are rare but you know what?if you are patient enough you wil find your prince.when you ... (read in full...)
He has webcam chats with men, but won't have sex with me.
Q. Hi I have been dating this guy for 2 years, living together for 6 months. His bisexual. We have never had the honeymoon stage, he has never seemed to chase me for sex. I thought this was odd and found out he web cams to men and mastubates to porn ...
A. 10 October 2010: wow.it sound like he doesnt care about you.keep trying though.it wont be easY giving up but the way he is acting is not cool.if you feel unhappy you should leave.maybe he might come back to you changd and all.gd luck... (read in full...)
What can I do to make this feeling go away?
Q. Hey, well i was bicurious and i fooled around with a girl for the fisrt time, I really enjoyed it but now after its over i feel wrong and "dirty". What can i do to make this feeling go away? I dont understand why i enjoyed it well i was doing it but ...
A. 9 October 2010: if you enjoyed yourself then thats good.i think you can forget about it if you dont think about it a lot.... (read in full...)
Pregnant and the father says there is no way we can have it!
Q. Im 20, and i have just found out im pregnant, the father wants a abortion and we arent together. I have a full time apprenticeship job, which is a really good career. But the thought of killing my baby makes me sick, the father says theres no way we ...
A. 5 October 2010: i think if you dont want abortion then you should keep the baby.i mean its an innocent baby.atleast think of other ways eg adoption maybe.and the babydaddy is not in your life so he shouldnt call the shots.you are the mom to be.deep down you know ... (read in full...)
Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?
Q. Wanted to ask a question toward the women, because i think it happens to them more than guys. Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?...
A. 1 October 2010: oh yes.you always go back to the first time you had sex and of course you wil think about the ex but i wouldnt say its a thing you got for him because by that time maybe you both moved on... (read in full...)
He just wants to be friends but I'm pregnant with his baby.....how do I get him back?
Q. i want my boyfriend back but he wants to be just friends but i'm having his child. he broke up with me before summer. how do i get him back......
A. 1 October 2010: did he break up with you after you told him about the baby?if so then he is so selfish.you have to tell him how you feel thou because being friends with him will make you cry evry night.try to work things out and maybe he will come to his senses and ... (read in full...)
This guy doesn't talk to me ever since we kissed.
Q. Hi, I'm a Chinese girl my family came to the States 2 years ago for my father's work and stuff. It took me a while to fit in this country but now I'm doing quite well. I'm in highschool and I have a big crush on this guy and I really want to make it ...
A. 25 September 2010: wow!maybe the kiss was bad.but just to clear things up,go talk to him.hear frm him whats up and dnt sound desperate.be open about how you feel... (read in full...)
I am dating a man 37 yrs older than me
Q. i am dating a guy that is 37 yrs older than me. i love him like i never loved anyone else and he loves me the same way or even more. my question is: Is it okay that i am dating a guy 37 yrs older than me? we have plans on moving in together but idk ...
A. 25 September 2010: honestly if you guys love each ada dat much.other ppl's opinion shouldnt matter and hey age is nothing whn it comes to love.so live yo life and enjoy yo relationshp with yo man.fgt bwt wat ppl myt say.gd lck... (read in full...)
Falling in love after losing the love of your life?
Q. please, can i really fall in love after losing the love of my life in secondary school...
A. 23 September 2010: itz not easy to just move on when uve just lost the luv of your life.let alone fall in luv.itz jst a matter of using the new bf as a rebound guy so i disagree... (read in full...)
I messed up! How do I get my family back?
Q. my girlfriend has finished me after 5 months she is 3 months pregnant it was my fault she left i was arguing with her she says its over and has barred me from phoning her im sorry i know it was my fault i hold my hands up . i have a little boy with ...
A. 23 September 2010: oh geez man u realy did mess up.just dnt push.let her have her own space then sit down and talk.and pls work on ur temper best of luck... (read in full...)
Want out but I'm weak
Q. hey ppl.i really have to let my bf go but i cant.how do i move on?he doesnt call me or anything yet i just had his baby last month.he hasnt seen her at all but when i cal he acts like he wna b with us til death.i luv him but i want out.but how?...
A. 22 September 2010: hey.i really appreciate yo answer.made me feel strong and now i feel confident.thanks a lot and i know what to do now.your advice helped me a lot.... (read in full...)
He put 4 fingers inside of me????
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and have been sexually active with him for about 8 months. On Monday we had sex and half way through he pulled out and fingered me for a short while, until I orgasmed, ...
A. 21 September 2010: lol u knw that babies gets out of there and yea the vagina gets bak to normal.i agree that during sex it gets bigger to let big things in so i dont think u are loose unles he complained.... (read in full...)
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