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Two guys--not sure which one is real

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Question - (26 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *imisoph3 writes:

i am 15 years old i've never had a boyfriend everr only 4 people know that the rest of them i lie to.i like these two guys and i dont know who to pick.i'm really shy but when u get to know me i'm really outgoing,and funny

1) his really shy and he says his not like that with his friends,we went on a date and nothing happened the date felt like best friends going to chill and see a movie.he tells his dad that theres definitely somehing there,he sayys there sparks which is weird cuz his sooo shy around me.he barely talks and i tried to crack some jokes and he just did a single laugh then later told his dad i'm so funny.we were gonna hang out but i cancceled cuz i kinda didnt want to go,so i said i had modeling classes(i do model btw).

2.)this guy is totally the opposite then the first guy,this guy is a flirt,his soo hot,his funny,nice,and he isnt shy he says wats on his mind.we did some donation which is how i met him..he send wrong signals i thought he likes this other girl he asked for her number first??..k anyways everytime i'm alone,he comes to me and talks to me.then the next day he texted me saying i was his type,that i'm really cute.then he asked me if i got myspace,he added me and saw my pictures now his saying i'm hott,and gorgeouss

i dont know which guy is real,i know they both like me.but idk which one i like moree HELPP!

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (1 February 2009):

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mimisoph3 agony aunthe thanks for the help..but umm the first guy doesnt want to talk to me anymore cuz he says that i was mean to him cuz i ignored him but i didnt mean to,i was just soo confused that i needed my own space..and now the second guy says he likes me i'm still soo confused

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

Seems like you are the special of the week for guy number 2, he might treat you like his all into you, but you need to make sure how long it will take for this outspoken guy to find another girl cute or hot, the shy one could be speaking from his heart and not his ego, and going to the movies like friends is great, having a partner should be like having a best friend, so its already a plus for guy number 1. you are shy yourself, so you know that sometimes you don’t say what you really wanna say, I cant tell you which one to choose, only you know that answer, when I was younger I always tried dating the hot guy, the one everyone talked about and the shy guys well they just put me off, and then I realized that a hot guy is everyone’s guy, the outspoken once said what I wanted them to say what I needed to hear not what came from the heart, and now that I am older, I listen to my heart, and its never let me down

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