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writes:Okay so i've been dating this guy for a year on and off and i've cheated on him more than once, but I really do love him and I'm not entirely sure why I've done it. But I know I'd never do it again, but now he doesn't trust me and he wants me to prove it to him but I don't know how. How can I prove to him I love him and I do want to be with him and that i'll be faithful? Because I've said this before and then people made up rumors and now he believes them. I need to know how to make him see how much I love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (1 June 2008):
Knowing what caused it is solving half the battle!
You cant possibly make a promise that you will never cheat on him again if you dont even know why you did it. You need to understand why you did it, and realise what lead you to it. Then once you know why it happened, you will be able to take the appropiate steps forward so you dont do the same thing again.
The main reason why people cheat is due to insecurities and the ego boost they get from having it. So take a deep look inside yourself and ask yourself how do you feel about yourself? What did you get out of cheating on your bf? What did this guy who you cheated with give you? Its not usualy about the actual sexual act and ejoyment from it, its usually about the ability that someone is so close to you, it makes you feel loved, needed and wanted.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (1 June 2008):
 then tell him that he is your life and only one..make him belive that u can change and that u want to stay wit him
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (1 June 2008):
 I see your intentions are beautiful, and something, somewhere along the lines, you were weak to temptation. Get yourself strong. Put him in the front of your mind next time temptation surfaces. You love him. The only thing that will make him trust you and others, is time. There is no quick fix for this. Prove to him during this time that you have made him your everything. Good luck!
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