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15 and pregnant need help!

Q.   im 15, get good grades, live in a good home but am not very close to my parents. i go to a vocational school and take an automotive shop. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we lost our virginity to eachother. the condom didnt work, and i ...

A.   25 February 2011: I've been there, so I can say the following. Once you tell your parents, it will get easier. Here is how I did it... I wrote it in a letter: Mam, I know you will be disappointed, I am disappointed of myself. But I am pregnant.. I left it on... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and pregnant - what will happen to my child, and the father?

Q.   I'm 14 and pregnant and i'm not getting rid of it, but if I don't what will happen to the father of my child?, and would social services take it off me? ...

A.   25 February 2011: You need to tell you gardians first of all.. secondly your answer - if the farther of your child is over the age of 16, then he can get done by the police depending on what cercumstances you are in at the moment, and your baby should not get took... (read in full...)

I'm 20, and I'm desperate for a baby...

Q.   I want a child. I put child because I mean it; I want to be a Mum. I'm 20, so if I say Baby people will think I'm some young kid that just likes the thought of not working and having someone to cuddle... I recently asked my boyfriend and he said ...

A.   17 February 2011: 20 is not to young but it is a mutral desion why not instead of trying to prevent a baby just let nature take its cause and it will happen when ment to...... (read in full...)

My on-off boyfriend has been talking to other people about getting engaged, how do I tell him that I am ready?

Q.   I'm 17 and I recently found out that my on-off boyfriend is thinking about getting engaged. I found out from his little sister and he doesn't yet know that I know. How do I let him know that I know he's been talking and thinking about it and that...

A.   17 February 2011: clearly you are not too young... dont say wait for the romantic moment, he wants to get engaged not married most people are engaged for years.. i want my boyfriend to propose to me, i dont know how to say it so i am going to watch this questio... (read in full...)

I can't feel him unless he goes fast or I'm on top! Any advice?

Q.   Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for sometime and we just started to get sexually active. About a month ago he took my virginity and ever since then we been having sex but when he goes inside me I can't feel him and it's not small. So i ...

A.   27 January 2011: she never asked for a lecture. the first post was spot on kegel exercises ect... To the others, teen sex is happening and we have to give them the facts but also embrace what is happening so that they can enjoy SAFE sex. She will know a... (read in full...)

I caught my sister masturbating

Q.   I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?...

A.   24 November 2010: do u not masterbate? us girls are the same just dont shout it off like u boys.... (read in full...)

I want kids but I'm scared to have sex

Q.   Im scared to have sex but i want kids and im scared to lose me virginity beacuse i dont want to go there the pain of getting my cherry popped. can someone give me advice???...

A.   24 November 2010: Listen to me please. why the rush, i had twins at 14 years old still a baby myself. well anyways my pregnancy was tuff my mam died when i was young (no this does not mean u are differant to me) i lived with my antie who kicked me out, my boyf... (read in full...)

Does anyone else ever feel uncomfortable about their body like I do?

Q.   I'm 14 and have always felt rather self concious about chest size and body. One of my friends is 13 and has at least DD while I'm only 32aa! I feel really awkward about wearing my school uniform because it has a strict 'no-figure' built in. I've...

A.   24 November 2010: about the dancing go for it, i had really low confidance at your age so i went dancing and it made me feel better about my self. good look xxx... (read in full...)

I am pregnant again.

Q.   i have posted for help before about my twins i had at 14 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/struggling-to-cope-.html well me and my boyfriend have since got back together three weeks after i posted that question. I have the implant in, so i...

A.   2 July 2010: i am 18 my mum died when i was 4 and i lived with my antie who chucked me out when i fell pregnant at 14 thankyou for the top few posts you read my other artical and helped alot. I am trying to provide a life for my twins i am doing corses f... (read in full...)

I am pregnant again.

Q.   i have posted for help before about my twins i had at 14 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/struggling-to-cope-.html well me and my boyfriend have since got back together three weeks after i posted that question. I have the implant in, so i...

A.   2 July 2010: i am 18 my mum died when i was 4 and i lived with my antie who chucked me out when i fell pregnant at 14 ... (read in full...)

I'm worried that sex is going to really hurt with my boyfriend, what should I do?

Q.   when i'm masturbating i can't get 2 fingers in, me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but im really paranoid its going to really hurt if i can't even get 2 fingers in, what should i do?...

A.   3 June 2010: do you want children? do you seriously think he is the man of your dreams? i had twins at 14, yeah i love them but i would do anything to have a life if you gonna do it, wear a condom!!... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and pregnant

Q.   I am 15 and pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. Yes I know I'm silly please don't bring that up, all I'm asking is for help. Anyway, I have been to the clinic as it is half term, I am getting an abortion, both me and my boyfriend are 50/50 about ...

A.   8 April 2010: you need your mam and i might not be right but if i am you shouldnt be around anyone with shingles being preggas... (read in full...)

Nothing is putting me off wanting a baby, am I really ready at 14 or is it just a phase?

Q.   [Moderator's Note: Poster's real age is 13, not 18-21] okay, this question wasnt posted for me to be insulted. so if you have a problem then please leave your comments out. im 13, nearly 14, and i am desperete for a baby. i was watching a docum...

A.   8 April 2010: you put your self in danger having a kid your age there are increase in problems with you and baby and you increase your chances of cervical cancer having a baby young i neednt talk i know coz i had twins at 14 - but yes i can talk coz i have ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and pregnant and want to keep the baby

Q.   hi my name is desiree and i stress every day its so much drama that go on in my life i been through alot and im having a baby and i no im kinda young but i think i can handle it because i carry myself as a young ladie dont get into no more drama and ...

A.   18 March 2010: i had twins when i was your age apart from my mam died when i was 10, my dad hated me i lived with my aunt and she kicked me out when she found out..i have had my twins i am now 18 they are 4 .. my boy is disabled and need around the clock care ... ... (read in full...)

Struggling to cope with my children from a teen pregnancy...

Q.   Well when i was 14 i had twins now i am 18 and was about to go to college because i had enough money to support me and my children, one is a girl and one is a boy and i had enough for childcare. anyway when my twins turned one i realised James my ...

A.   18 March 2010: yeah they are but the thing is with a child with special needs the nursery he is going to start i have to pay for a person that deals with his needs to sit with him and help him during the day so i will need to start work again but i was thinking of ... (read in full...)

I am pregnat but worried something might have gone wrong

Q.   Hello, I am pregnant at 26 years old and thin/fit...size 3/4. I am not showing at all! I have my first ultrasound on Thurs., but I'm so afraid something is wrong. After I was born, and my mother was pregnant again, she went for an ultrasound at 12...

A.   4 March 2010: i lost weight before i gained it with my twins x... (read in full...)

One year spent together and I don't know what to get him.

Q.   Hello. It's me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary soon and I want to get him something really special. The only problem is I don't know what. I'm already making him a scrapbook but I want to buy him something meaningful as well, although I ...

A.   4 March 2010: this may sound tacky but a mug with ur pictures on ... (read in full...)

I don't like sex, with boyfriend over a year, confused as I may like girls, please help me??

Q.   ..... Ive got a massive problem with sex,to putitblunt a hate it, ive been seeing my boyfriend forover a year. The bottom line is i think i like lassesi dontknow though i am just so confused ive not allways felt like thisbut i dontknow im 19 so ...

A.   4 March 2010: what is it u dont like about it position the person feel sound there is problems where people dont enjoy sex go to ur doctors it wont be the fist time they hear it x... (read in full...)

We are young, how far should we be going with sex, I am confused?

Q.   ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for five months and he is sixteen me but he says we should start kissing just because we've been dating for that long. so when ever we got home from school he would pick me up in his car and we would go to his ...

A.   4 March 2010: I lost mine when i was 13 and didnt want to but did cause i didnt want to loose him so to put it bluntly i had sex with me then he dumped me called bucked n chucked i belivee if u already feel like u shudnt have then i would say u are not read... (read in full...)

Very bad pimples, could you suggest something that might help me please?

Q.   I have a Question about pimples. I don't have really bad acne or anything but I have random pimples on my face. I wash my face twice a day with soap and water and I use proactive to. I have been using it since October and It doesn't work. I do ...

A.   4 March 2010: Toothpaste it works miricals i am a part time catwalk model and trust me all the make up artists recomended it and also when i went on the controceptive pill that cleared them up because i went to the docs about my spots and they put me on that ... (read in full...)

He hasn't wanted sex for two days, what's wrong?

Q.   i havent had sex with my boyfriend in 2 days and he doesnt seem intreseted usually hes all over me so i feel like im failing:( i dont no what to do now help !...

A.   4 March 2010: 2 days ? you dont have to have sex 7 days a week been someones girl friend is much more than that u dont want to be the sex person u want him to care about u aswell if u want to have sex just talk to him remember contrseption ! x... (read in full...)

She asked if she could take a male friend to the prom and I said no

Q.   Me and my girlfriend been dating for two months... we're kind of new and not in the comfort zone yet but I think we're getting there, well today we kind of got in this argument or more like she mad at me. The situation is she ask if she can go to...

A.   4 March 2010: I carnt belive you dont know what is wrong with her, she clearly loves you because she is now not going to the prom - somthing that a girl dreams of all through secondry and only happens once if i was that girl i would think you wouldnt trust me..if ... (read in full...)

What do girls really mean when they say "size doesn't matter"?

Q.   For just about the majority of my life, I've heard all about that "bigger is better" stuff. Well I'm pretty much 18 now and I'm convinced that I won't be growing down there anymore since it's been that way since I was 12. Mine is 4.5 inches lon...

A.   2 March 2010: well i am a girl and to be honest i would say it is how u use it not the size and i dont mean to sound like a slag/slut whatever but at the end of the day if this person loves u then she wouldent care and if u are bad the first time pract... (read in full...)

Feeling ready to give my virginity to him.

Q.   i am a virgin and i have very strong feelings for my boyfriend. we have know each other for all most a year now and i think that he may be the one i lose my virginity to. how do i get him to see that i am ready to give myself over to him without ...

A.   2 March 2010: once its gone you cant get it back + i had a teen pregnancy and this was off my first time and we used a condom and i was on the pill - u think your ready but seriously u wont be - but this will fall on deaf ears it did with me and look where that ... (read in full...)

How to get rid of stretch marks

Q.   hey guys well i need some tips on how to get rid of strech mark on the side of my leg a little next to my booty.now i havent had any children i'm not even sexually active at all something i plan to keep going,and i'm still very young and athletic ...

A.   2 March 2010: Bio oil - works wonders not cheap but honestt so worth it just stick to a rotine... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has posted a picture of me - bikini clad- on his facebook and now it's attracting unwelcome attention

Q.   My boyfriend decided to post a page of me on tagged. With pictures of me on my bathing suit. It is attracting all sorts of pervets to the page some much older men. I don't like it. One his friends has now seen the page and I find this shameful. I ...

A.   2 March 2010: Facebook has a report button i think u want to use it ... (read in full...)

Can a guy man have gay friends? Is it the same as a married man being friends with a single woman?

Q.   I am gay and have a boyfriend and he thinks a gay man in a relationship shouldn't have gay friends. To me that shouts insecurity but from his perspective it is a genuine moral standard. Neither of us had gay friends so it never even came up. I ...

A.   2 March 2010: I see where u are coming from just talk to your new bf or take him along with you... (read in full...)

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