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My boyfriend has posted a picture of me - bikini clad- on his facebook and now it's attracting unwelcome attention

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Question - (2 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend decided to post a page of me on tagged. With pictures of me on my bathing suit. It is attracting all sorts of pervets to the page some much older men. I don't like it. One his friends has now seen the page and I find this shameful. I told him to delete it and he just yells at me and tells me I'm annoying him when I bring it up.

I am very weak willed when it comes to him and I feel like he is taking advantage of this. I just never know how to say to say no to him. I am always afraid he will get mad at me and not want to talk to me anymore if I say no to anything he asks. I'm starting to feel that he has no respect for me. Does this mean so?

He is my first love so I am very much attached to him which is another why is hard for me to let go of him

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A female reader, maddiee-maii United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2010):

Facebook has a report button i think u want to use it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

He's being selfish here.

However I think he just wants to broadcasy far and wide that he's nabbed himself a total stunner of a woman.

He could of course find more tactful ways of doing this.

Log into his account and delete the picture, however bare in mind now its on the net, you'll never trully delete it. Someone if bound to have it saved on a Hard Drive somewhere.

This is the nature of the internet.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2010):

You need to be tough, or next time he'll be throwing naked pictures of you around everywhere. Tell him to delete it or you'll get rid of him. And mean it. Otherwise you'll spend your life doing everything his way and being bullied.

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A female reader, kissyheart India +, writes (2 March 2010):

dear he has taken you for granted..just tell him to delete your picture or else tel him if you dont do that i wont talk to you.if you let him do all this later there will be hell lot of problems..

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