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26-29,
*ylieta
writes:ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for five months and he is sixteen me but he says we should start kissing just because we've been dating for that long. so when ever we got home from school he would pick me up in his car and we would go to his house because his parents didn't get home until about ten at night. so when we went to his place last friday we finished our homework and we watched a really romantic movie, but during the movie he leaned over and he turned off the tv and he started kissing me. i thought it was amazing and he started taking off my clothes and then he took off his and then he took his hands and touched me where he shouldn't have. i now feel like i should of stop him, but then again i said i liked it. i am really confused on what i should do, i need someone's help?
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reader, maddiee-maii  +, writes (4 March 2010):
I lost mine when i was 13 and didnt want to but did cause i didnt want to loose him so to put it bluntly i had sex with me then he dumped me called bucked n chucked i belivee
if u already feel like u shudnt have then i would say u are not ready for sex
remember sex is not wat everyone makes out
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reader, Shanarawr +, writes (4 March 2010):
 hello my love how old are you exactly?
basically kissing should always be one of the those moment things where it should be romantic and amazing [first kiss] should not be planned!
i lost mine when i was 14 years old and tbh i have regretted it ever since. if you are comfortable with this guy and you want to do it too then go for it but make sure that he isnt making you feel like you HAVE to do it because that is just wrong.
if he touched you and you liked it maybe you feel ready to move onto the next stage of your relationship but make sure you are definatly ready!
hope this helps hun stay safe
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (4 March 2010):
You need to follow your instincts. If what you did feels icky, then stop doing it. A simple kiss is one thing, heavy kissing (intense deep kissing), petting (getting felt up) another. Getting naked and letting him fell you (or digitally penetrate you) is yet another level.
Guys at that age are going to want to experience EVERYTHING that a girl will let them. You may be the very first girl who's ever gotten naked with him (we don't know)... he's going to press you for sex- draw a line and STICK TO IT.
Not having a plan, and not being prepared is how many girls end up pregnant. Take your time- the time to take sex to the next level is when you feel 100% ready to do so. For the next few years I'd suggest avoiding sex.
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reader, Lulu_bud  +, writes (4 March 2010):
It's okay to kiss and touch but only as long as your comfortable with it. Since he is 16 he is going to have some needs and is going to want to do lots of stuff. If your not completely comfortable with what he was doing you could stop him but if you kinda liked it but are scared then don't be afraid to tell him that. You can still move slow and at your own pace and if he makes you feel uncomfortable in any way and you don't like it then of course you should stop him. Maybe you could consider talking to him about it to and let him know how you felt about it and how fast you want to move . hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): If you dont want to go as far as he wants to then tell him that. Tell him he should respect your options. If he doesnt take it well then hes not the one.
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