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26-29,
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writes:when i'm masturbating i can't get 2 fingers in, me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but im really paranoid its going to really hurt if i can't even get 2 fingers in, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, maddiee-maii +, writes (3 June 2010):
do you want children?
do you seriously think he is the man of your dreams?
i had twins at 14, yeah i love them but i would do anything to have a life
if you gonna do it, wear a condom!!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Wait until you are older. Every girl I've spoken to who has had sex that young regrets it and cries about it even 20 years later. You also seem to be having sex just to have sex- don't do that. That RUINS sex. Wait until it's someone amazing. I waited until I had been with my fiance for 1 year (we've been together for 4 total now) until we had sex, and it was only when I wanted it. Men are always ready and will always want it, so forget about that. If he leaves you over you wanting to wait until you're ready, he's using you anyways.
I had sex for the first time when I was 17, and I waited for the right guy. I am still with him to this day, and he is the only guy I have ever had sex with. We are engaged to be married. I am so happy with my decision, and I will never regret it. I suggest you do the same. Your body might not even be developed enough for sex yet and it might cause permanent damage and nasty stretching. You don't want to be all loose and nasty when you're like 18 do you?
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female
reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (1 June 2010):
 if you really want to do it now, keep practisin. are you wet ? if your not this isnt going to work.
but your age says 13-15, and my age is 13-15 aswell, a lot of my friends have had sex, and alot regret it.
do you really want too loose your virginity to this guy or would you rather wait a bit longer?
remember this is a special moment, and your body might not have matured enough for this.
remember actions have consequences, have you thought about diseases and becoming pregnant.
just think is this what you really want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Don't have sex. You r 2 young and it will hurt because your body is not mature enough. Sex ruins everything when you are that young. Wait its the best decision u will ever make. I had sex to young and it made my life horrible. Be safe!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Wait until your body has matured enough for sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Why not wait until YOU are ready for sex. It sounds like you are going to have sex with him because it is WHAT HE WANTS!!
Rather wait until your body has matured so more.
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