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Tips on how to ask out girls?

Q.   Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...

A.   1 August 2009: well don't ask her in front of anyone, girls hate an audience and will say no or maybe. Bt if you get her on her own....NOT THE BEDROOM!! like your garden or something or whereever your having the party jst away from everyone. Flirt for a while ... (read in full...)

Blow job or no blow job?

Q.   okay so im tired or relationships and n i met this guy pretty eyes n hes lik i dnt want lady but we both like each other we have lik a no strings attach thing and we make ou n what not but he wants me to give him a blow job... i havent done that ...

A.   1 August 2009: suck it like a lollie pop....on the top... (read in full...)

We'd like to have a baby, but we're not sure if we're doing this right. Can anyone help?

Q.   I am virgin till now, and me and my boyfriend decided to have a baby, but both of us dont know how it can be possible. he is not able to ejaculate in me, and all of his sperm just went out. he tries to do so but..........is there symptom that shows ...

A.   1 August 2009: maybe he his sperm isn't fertile or u aren't but there are tones of differnt ways around this, you could:adopt, have someone else carry it for you....ok maybe no tones of ways but maybe your not doing it for long enough or try doing it every night.... (read in full...)

I feel like just an annoying little teenager to him, so how do I fall out of love?

Q.   I think I'm falling for this family friend who happens to be like, 11 years my senior. He teaches at a local school, and was saying he's used to people having crushes non him on a daily basis practically. He's pretty friendly, but I'm sure he just ...

A.   1 August 2009: Just think of all his bad points all the things you hate about him and ur probably thinking there's nothing i hate bout him except he has this power over me. well think bouthow he makes you feel how devious he was to make you feel that way or how he ... (read in full...)

My low confidence convinces me I can't be liked.. so should I just not bother with this guy?

Q.   I reallly like this boy i met out a few nights ago. I gave him a lift home and he kissed me in the car before getting out and We swapped numbers. The problem is, he is way out of my league. There is a slim chance he may really like me, but pro...

A.   1 August 2009: No don't forget him otherwise you'll spend your whole life thinking what if. He gave you his number he kissed you he wants you to meet him, otherwise he wouldn't have gave you his no. If you keep meeting a really ice guy and say he won't like me o... (read in full...)

Menstrual cramps, relief techniques that work? Help please!

Q.   Okay I definately need some girl advice right about now. What do you do to relieve your menstrual cramps? It's so bad for me that it makes me throw up and all I can do is curl up in a ball with a hot water bottle until it goes away 3 hours later. I ...

A.   1 August 2009: you could try a warm bath or just watch tv to take your mind off it, i fnd it better if i lie on my back and try and take some strong paracitimal. hope this helps.....xxx ... (read in full...)

I love my teacher and I accept that we can't be, but I've moved and I miss him too much

Q.   I know you've all heard this one a million times before, and I've searched this site for a possible answer to my worries, but I just can't seem to find one for me. I'm 15 years old and I live in the UK. Plus, I'm deeply in love with my teacher....

A.   1 August 2009: you could look for his number or maybe tell your mom about him and say you really want to go back cause you love him with all your heart and need him or you'll fall to pieces like i'm sure you cry yourself to sleep ever night. Or even go near where ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my teacher to back off?

Q.   Im concerned that my drama teacher likes me in a kinda wrong way. I like her too but it'd wrong to have a relationship with her. Shes about 24 and shes all ways making inuendo with me. Started off as some good ol' fashioned crudeness now its just ...

A.   1 August 2009: maybe be asked to move class, let her see your not interested nd makeout with a girl in front of her or flirt, or just tell her your not intereted. hope thishelps.....xxx... (read in full...)

Do I start an affair with my student or keep it stricly professional?

Q.   Hi aunty, I have been following your forums for a while..I am 25 yr old female-single teacher,I teach Computers for 12th grade boys school in USA..I often were tight dresses and mini skirts to school, i have a decent figure as I am fitness freak!!! ...

A.   1 August 2009: No u cannot have an affair, he might be trying to getyou in trouble when you do do something, even if he wasn't if you got caught you would lose your job and not be able to teach any where. hope i helped...xxx... (read in full...)

I keep having fantasies about my cousin, what do I do?

Q.   For the past 2 years, i keep thinking about my cousin. I like him soo much!! i have fantasies from dating to sex. He's my 3rd cousin and he was adopted. And everytime i see him, i get nervous and i always want to be around him. Sometimes, i catch ...

A.   1 August 2009: if you would normally tell your parents that you like a guy then tell them but if you wouldn't don't. Your not related properly so he's just like some family friend, flirt with him if you talk to him more he will pay more attention. hope that hel... (read in full...)

He just wants to cuddle because of my age, but I want more.

Q.   I like this lad but i'm not sure if he likes me. He says he does but hes 18 and i am 14. He says if i was older he would defiantly date me. He says he doesn't want sex he just wants a loving relationship where he can just be with me cuddling me and ...

A.   1 August 2009: he probably does love you if he just wants to cuddle you and spent time with you....it means hes not just into you for sex. You should just go with the cuddling and kissing until your older cause he probably just doesn't want to go to jail for havin ... (read in full...)

Forbidden love - I'm in love with a Muslim but my parents won't accept it! Help!

Q.   hi well im a mess at the moment. im in love with a Muslim man and i am christian, we have been with each other for 2 years and still my dad does not know. we come from a very religious family and everything is about respect, my dad asked me ...

A.   1 August 2009: You could try making them understand he is your whole life and your nothing without him, make them understand you love him and they should support you and if they can't accept you love a muslim then their not accepting a part of you. Try inviting ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 is that to young to be in love?

Q.   OK so im 14 and recently I've been wondering if I can truly be IN love, because I think I might be. There was this guy and I liked him for quite a few years but nothing happened between us and I was beginning to think I'd never get over him, but ...

A.   1 August 2009: No your not to young to be inlove i was 13 when i fell in love with my P.E teacher, yes it was love. It was like this for almost 2 years, i never wanted it to end i thought i could wait for him forever. Love is like when he walks past your heart ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my long lost brother

Q.   Im an 18 year old girl and im in love with my brother.. we grew up together until i was five.. we were separated for 13 years. hes 22 nn were imtimate, we dont use condoms we use withdrawl. i htink he knows that i like him,, but he doesnt say ...

A.   1 August 2009: you could have sex just don't have a baby cause they will turn deformed so not a good idea, to forget him try getting to know another guy maybe you'll hit it off and you'll forget about your brother. hope this helped....xxx... (read in full...)

How can I make this not hurt?

Q.   heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

A.   1 August 2009: well maybe try doing other stuff instead of trying to finger yourself, like: get a carrot, cucumber, candle, trial shampoo bottles, vibrating toothbrush and put it inside your hole, then just push in and out experimenting with different paces. Maybe ... (read in full...)

How can I make this not hurt?

Q.   heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

A.   1 August 2009: well maybe try doing other stuff instead of trying to finger yourself, like: get a carrot, cucumber, candle, trial shampoo bottles, vibrating toothbrush and put it inside your hole, then just push in and out experimenting with different paces. Maybe ... (read in full...)

Sleeping with the enemy.

Q.   Sex with an enemy. Well sort off, I have fallen out with an ex friend after he ruined my chances of promotion by copying my proposal and sending it in at the same presentation to the board. I have always liked his wife and she used to really like me ...

A.   1 August 2009: if you tell him your just going to make her more upset with you and it won't change anything, he will still have the proposal thing. But if your not bothered about the wife tell him...ruin his marriage. hope this helped....xxx... (read in full...)

Should I let my husband have sex with my best friend?

Q.   Is it wrong that my husband wants to sleep with my best friend and wants me to join with him we have been with another man but I don't like that fact he wants his turn with a female now we love her both very much she is very close to us like family ...

A.   1 August 2009: ask him straight out 'do you have feelings for her or do you just want some fun?' he will probably tell you no and soothe you. But just think he probably wondered the same thing when you did it with the guy, so go along with it have some fun just ... (read in full...)

My First Time

Q.   So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...

A.   1 August 2009: that must have been horrible, but believe me you will meet someone who loves you and wouldnt want to hurt you and you'll be able to share this with. hope that helped....xxx... (read in full...)

How can I admit to being sexually assaulted to my friends and family?

Q.   how can I admit to being sexually assaulted to friends/family when I feel so embarrassed or ashamed to tell them? I also don't want them to worry about me or feel concerned about me so that I can't relax. I have reported it to the police and it is...

A.   1 August 2009: well sometimes family and friends are good for support but sometimes they can make it worse. Maybe just try telling the one person closest to you and they'll help you! hope this helped...xxx... (read in full...)

A warning from one teenager to others . . .

Q.   This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...

A.   1 August 2009: i know what you mean, i would love to have a baby and i'm only 14. I would love to though, right now, carry it and have MY BABY! i wish i had aa baby but on the other hand i would never have a baby at this age not until i'm getting married i ... (read in full...)

Sinister situation

Q.   Ok,this is really,really creepy-I just want some opinions on what this could be-sorry it's a bit long.I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and he didn't seem remotely obsessive-we didnt see each other very often either,but he always seemed to know things ...

A.   1 August 2009: go to the police, think won't think your mad (wear desent clothes) iknow this might not help but they will sort it. Did you break up with your boy friend? also if you won't go to the police here are last options : move, go to different country, live... (read in full...)

Why cant I get a boyfriend?

Q.   hey :) i really want a boyfrind to have that first kiss i mean why dont any boys like me ? whats the problem with me ? peaple say well i dont know wether they are actually telling the truth but they say i am : kind friendly easy to...

A.   1 August 2009: Kate you probably are all those things, you just haven't met the right man that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, the one that knows what makes you laugh what makes you happy. But if you really want one then just try to get to know some guy ... (read in full...)

In her 6 year relationship, she never climaxed: Is this due to an inability or her tensness?

Q.   hi. im not sure if this is the right type of question for this site but im gonna write it anyway. Ive started going out with a girl that ive been close to a long time. We had sex last night and she did not orgasm. I mentioned it after because I ...

A.   1 August 2009: well some woman just can't orgasm with their partners, you could get her to do it herself and she probably will get one. You can get these pills as well that make it easier, sometimes you need to be stimulated befor having an orgasm. To do this ... (read in full...)

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